There are many disgusting characters in Perfect Relationship, among which Jiang Dalin is the first and Maboni is the second. Maboni is Jiang Dalin's best friend, and this role is probably ignored by many people.
Maboni is a typical gold digger, always trying to hook up with rich people and make a fortune from them. I met her student Liszt and sent her to the door without saying anything.
Why? Because Liszt is rich, he drives hundreds of thousands of motorcycles and takes her to high-end restaurants, and his family is also good. Marboni felt that he had found the treasure, so he showed kindness again and again.
Of course, Liszt is not a fool. On the surface, he was having an affair with Marboni. Actually, he just wants to have fun.
But Marbonnie is serious. In order to let Liszt take the bait, he borrowed Jiang Dalin's house first, wanted to spend a spring night with each other, and then went to Liszt's house for further development, but failed.
Just when Marboni thought he was Liszt's real girlfriend, Liszt showed the clues. Flirting openly with other women in the bar, denying that Maboni is his girlfriend.
Unexpectedly, such a clever Maboni still stumbled. She angrily asked what Liszt had done, and Liszt just left a sentence: "I didn't marry you, you can also find another man."
Because of this incident, Marboni and Liszt fell out completely and almost lost their jobs.
What Marboni suffered was entirely of his own making. She and Liszt are the same kind of people, and they are not serious about feelings. One is greedy for money, the other is lustful, and neither of them owes anyone.
02
After scolding Ma Bonnie, I can't help thinking that Ma Bonnie and Jiang Dalin are best friends. The so-called best friends are like-minded people. Why is Jiang Dalin so vain and like a fool?
It's actually quite simple. It's all made by a family.
Jiang Dalin had no worries about food and clothing since childhood, and her parents gave her the best education and resources. She grew up in a honey pot, never suffered from life, and didn't understand the importance of money.
She is in a high position and feels helpless, just to fulfill the mission of the family. Jiang Dalin's tired life is beyond Ma Bonnie's reach. So it is not difficult to understand why Marboni is full of envy for Jiang Dalin.
And what kind of family was Maboni born in? The younger brother wants to buy a house in the city, and her parents let Ma Bonnie pay 65,438+10,000. She didn't want to be scolded by her parents.
It can be speculated that Maboni was born in the countryside and his family preferred sons to daughters. She is a cash cow in the family, taking care of her parents and helping her brother.
Think about it, it is not easy for a girl to take care of her life in a big city, and she has to drag a large family. If Marboni is as rich as Su Mingyu, these may not be a problem.
The problem is that Maboni is just a wage earner, and she is in arrears with her rent every month. She has no money, and she can't change her fate. She can only rely on men.
Suffering from the hardships of life didn't make Marboni strong, but made her vain and daydreamed about the rich, hoping to marry the rich one day and live a carefree life.
03
Some people say that "Anjia" is Fan Meisheng. No, it's Su Mingyu. She has strong working ability and strong inner endurance. She can bear hardships and make money. Coming from a family won't really drag her down.
Women like Marboni are the real fans of Mei Sheng. Do you remember what fan Mei Sheng was like? I worked hard in Shanghai for many years and shared a room with others. I'm covered in fake brand names.
She is beautiful and has work experience, but her mind is not in the right direction. She is too eager to catch a rich man. So, become the plaything of the rich. Rich men will play with her, but it is impossible to get married.
Fan didn't understand this until he was 30. She always feels sorry for herself, complaining about her job, her life and her parents. She also said gloomily, "It is one's destiny to be born in a family."
She didn't know there was another word: man can conquer nature.
Fan was too eager to escape from his family and rush out of his class, but forgot that some things could not be forced.
You must pay a huge price for pursuing something beyond your ability. Fan and Bonnie Ma are the same kind of people. They look independent and strong, but in fact they are weak inside. They can't face their humble origins, so they are greedy, vain and proud.
Crossing classes is never easy. If you pursue happiness with too much purpose, you will only stumble in the end.
The world is fair. Marriage can really change a woman's fate, but only if you have enough capital.
A girl born with a golden spoon like Jiang Dalin pursues her man. The worst condition is just like Tan Xinkai, who is also a department manager, earning tens of thousands of extra money casually.
And Marboni didn't touch that circle at all, and even if he did, it was just a flash in the pan.
04
Ma Bonnie is pathetic and pathetic. Sadly, she was born in a poor family, which made her suffer greatly. Sadly, she pinned her fate on others.
In fact, both Maboni and Fan Meisheng can have another life.
Marboni has the ability. He has no experience in studying abroad, but he is proficient in eight languages. This is talent.
In the latest episode, Jiang Dalin took a child to Maboni for training. Under her guidance, the shy child who refused to talk successfully passed the interview and entered the ideal school.
Obviously, Maboni also has a gift for education.
She spends half of her mind on men at work, and she doesn't quarrel with the landlord every month because of the rent, water and electricity.
I am strong and rich, and I will not be confused by love rat like Liszt.
Xue Zhaofeng, an economist, expressed his understanding of love and marriage, saying: "The so-called marriage is nothing more than two people running a business in partnership and signing a contract. It is a life-long wholesale futures contract, in which both parties occupy their own resources and jointly run an enterprise. At this time, the resource packages given by men and women are different. They are healthy, have children, have looks, have family relationships, and have their own future growth potential. "
If you want to change your destiny through marriage, you must first get some chips. In this era, it is becoming more and more difficult to marry a rich man with beauty and routines.
Rich people may play with many women, but it is the right person who really gets married. Women who worship money have a hard time. Don't treat rich people like fools. It is better to lose yourself in the pursuit of fame and fortune than to take the initiative in life in your own hands.
There is a passage in Han Huang's letter to his daughter:
Mercenary businessmen can't earn the richest harvest, and women who take marriage as their own responsibility can't repair the happiest marriage.
Some people regard women's professional achievements and social values as alternative compensation for their unsatisfactory feelings and marriage life, which is prejudice.
Even if being loved makes us feel valuable, we can only be loved if we are valuable.