Husband and wife often quarrel, so there must be more than one basic contradiction in such a marriage. First of all, you should think about whether this basic contradiction can be solved or alleviated in a relatively short time. For most couples, the basic contradiction between them is nothing more than an economic dispute, with different living habits and different views.

For the quarrel between husband and wife caused by economic reasons, this economic problem can't be solved in a short time, so if both husband and wife want to maintain this relationship, try to avoid talking about money and don't touch this thunder point. Live your own life. If given the chance, you will both find a job of your own. It takes some time to accumulate wealth with down-to-earth efforts. As long as we work hard, not only wealth can be increased, but also friction between husband and wife can be reduced. Both of you will concentrate on your work, so you won't have much time to quarrel.

If couples quarrel because of different living habits, they can make some common family life rules. Living habits are different, and the biggest friction comes from housework distribution. If two people don't like doing housework, they can spend a little money to hire an hourly worker to clean it, so as to avoid complaining about each other's laziness.

The third reason for quarreling most easily is that the three views are different, which can be changed. Two people can try to change each other's ideas slowly, but try to avoid constantly emphasizing their own ideas and ignoring each other's feelings. If the three views are really different, then

You can find a common hobby, instead of thinking about the difference between each other's handling of problems and your own, or even taking each other's ideas as another angle of your own thinking. In short, if husband and wife often quarrel, one party must make appropriate concessions. As the saying goes, only when one side takes a step back can there be room for dialogue.