Which is more important, career or family, maybe everyone has a different answer.

Some people have worked hard for their careers all their lives. They devoted their youth to their careers, overdrafted their health, and lost their relatives and friends. Only at the last moment did they wake up from their dreams and understand that the most important thing in life is What.

And some people live transparently, and they have already understood the most important things in their lives.

So, at the peak of their careers, they retreated and returned to their lovers and children, enjoying the joy of family life comfortably. Tu Lei, the host of "Defense of Love", is exactly such a person.

Tu Lei, the host of "Defense of Love"

When I talk about Tu Lei, I think of "Defense of Love"; when I talk about "Defense of Love", I think of Tu Lei . Over the past decade, the two have been linked, enabling and complementing each other.

Tu Lei, a native of Nanchang, Jiangxi, is the special emotional host of "Defense of Love". He always wears black square-rimmed glasses, and his eyes sparkle with humor and wisdom.

In the show, he pointed out the problems to the point and made people shout out his golden words. And his sharp and direct commentating style is also loved by people, and the program "Defense of Love" hosted by him became popular.

However, unlike other program hosts, although he hosts an emotional program, the host Tu Lei does not like to smile very much, has a cold face, and is even called "not a smiler" "Uncle".

His comments are sharp, he points out the guests’ mistakes, and he doesn’t tend to push others down. But because he is always accurate and right, people are willing to accept his sharp opinions.

Tu Lei was very serious on the show, and even scolded the guests to tears, and once told the guests to get out. But in life, he is extremely tender towards his wife and daughter, and he can be called a very warm man.

After getting married, Tu Lei and his wife have always been in love with each other and have been inseparable. They even went out of their way to clarify rumors about his wife.

Some netizens once mistakenly thought Tu Lei’s wife was Xiong Dan, and even searched for Xiong Dan’s name on the Internet. After Tu Lei heard about it, he came forward to clarify.

Indicates that his wife is 9 years younger than him and is called "Little Maruko". The intimacy of his titles and the sweetness of his daily interactions with his wife make others envious. In 2016, their love child "Tongtong" was born, which only added to the sweetness of this marriage.

Tu Lei is still flamboyant and sharp on stage, but he is very low-key off the stage and does his best to protect the privacy of his wife and children. Father's love is deep and admirable.

Cold on the outside and hot on the inside, quitting because of love

When outsiders meet Tu Lei for the first time, they may be frightened by his serious and cold face. He is such a person who looks serious, but can point out your mistakes and give sincere suggestions.

Because of this personality trait, Tu Lei has gotten into a lot of trouble. Among the early hosts, Tu Lei's commentating style was more sharp. He bluntly pointed out the mistakes of the guests on the show, and even used harsh words, which once made the guests find it unacceptable.

Remarks such as "Tu Lei scolded the guests and caused controversy" and "Tu Lei's sharp words caused controversy" are constantly circulating on the Internet, and Tu Lei's inappropriate words and deeds on the plane have pushed this accusation to the forefront. climax.

His behavior in the cabin on the plane and his usual sarcastic remarks made people question his lack of regard for others and his attitude towards others. Netizens complained about it, causing a lot of noise for a while.

However, as Tu Lei later came forward to clarify, people also understood the truth. It turns out that Tu Lei suffers from varicose veins. In order to prevent his condition from getting worse, he chose to pedal in the cabin. He himself also chose to formally apologize.

Everything happens for a reason, so netizens naturally can't say anything more, and his sharp remarks also add a lot of authenticity and watchability to the show "The Defense of Love".

Nowadays, routines are the rule, and many variety shows are performed according to scripts, which makes netizens say that they no longer want to believe anything. However, in the ten years of hosting career, Tu Lei’s sharp comments But it remains the same.

In the show, unlike other emotional coaches who need to write and draw on the side, Tu Lei always sits aside and patiently listens to the emotional journey of the guests, like a sober spectator.

Then, point out the problem straightforwardly, without any tricks or hypocrisy, making it feel real and reliable.

When guests appear on "Defense of Love", although they may be scolded and cry at first, in the end they often understand that the host has good intentions and is really good to them.

Tu Lei fully displays his cold side in the show, but in life, he is affectionate and loyal, and is a rare warm man.

It is said that in his early years, in order to seek greater profits, Tu Lei took risks and chose to go into business. However, he was defrauded of all his family property. Later, he lived in poverty for a time, and was even looked down upon by others for it.

However, Tu Lei’s wife “Little Wanzi” has always been loyal to her, understanding and helping her in every possible way.

These made Tu Lei very grateful and moved, and he also silently repaid his wife's efforts with practical actions.

Because he is busy with work, Tu Lei often spends less time with his wife and more time apart. He often felt ashamed and finally asked to leave "The Battle of Love".

Leave "Defense of Love" and return to family

Some people may work hard all their lives for money, but Tu Lei has already seen through what is the most important thing in life, and he has received criticism. Got applause.

In his early struggles, he has accumulated enough wealth for his lover and children. In the second half of his life, he will choose to return to his family, enjoy family happiness with his wife, and enjoy the happiness of his children. hapiness.

So, in the end, he chose to use a video to say goodbye to the audience and "Defense of Love". In the video, Tu Lei admitted that for him, his lover and daughter are the most important.

I feel guilty for being away from home all year round and unable to accompany my wife and daughter, so now I choose to fulfill my five-year agreement with my wife early, return to the family, accompany my wife and daughter, and witness the growth of my daughter with my wife.

From now on, lightening up my work and spending more time with my family is the way I want to go. He also apologized to the guests who had been hurt by his words over the years, saying that he really wanted to help them and asked for your understanding for his inappropriate words.

This video is sincere and touching, and many netizens feel sorry for it. They think that Tu Lei is the soul of "Defense of Love". After he left, this column lost its usual luster and lost its soul.

However, more netizens still sent blessings to Tu Lei, hoping that he could realize what he wanted and truly return to his family to accompany his wife and daughter.

This is how life is. Success in career, fame and wealth may temporarily confuse us, but eventually some people will wake up from it and understand that what is really important is the company of family.

It is said that companionship is the longest confession of love. Tu Lei has proved his love with practical actions, which makes people sigh and move.