How does this society evaluate men? In fact, you have given the answer. A successful man is a good evaluation. Futures failure is definitely not a successful man, which has nothing to do with a person's personality. Of course, there is no evaluation standard for a good man, and everyone's standards are different. There is no need to set a standard for yourself. When preparing for futures speculation, do you have enough understanding and risk preparation for the futures market? You know your own character. From your description, it seems that your personality is very good in itself. There is no need to care what others say. Let's talk about the futures market, which is a high-risk market, many times more risky than the stock market. Most people can't make money, which is determined by the characteristics and commonness of futures market participants. It is a miracle to earn hundreds of thousands every year. If it is true, you have already succeeded! He must be a successful man! I support you!