If life is a high-speed train just in need, and everyone is just a passenger on the train, then from the moment you get on the train to the moment you get off, it is your life. Happiness or frustration is life to you, but insignificant to time. Therefore, in the face of endless life tunnels, we must try our best to manage the life process from getting on the bus to getting off the bus, that is, for ourselves and others. The moment you get off is when someone else gets on the bus. The train is full at any time. Your history on the bus is the history of your life, and the inheritance of history begins from that moment. When you write history, it is the beginning of creating history for others.
Middle age, in the eyes of most people, should be a rich and glorious life, but the reality is often unpredictable. The life of middle-aged people can only be answered by "unwilling". Compared with young talents who have just left campus, their lives have just begun. Career, wealth and future are the whole meaning of their lives, and they are also working hard to practice. After experiencing the joys and sorrows of life, middle-aged people will face this colorful world more calmly. Patience has replaced sharpness and there is no expectation for the future. Stability replaced adventure and lost the ambition of career. Easily available wealth is like fleeting clouds, but it is often missed. At this time of health, family, retirement, etc. More important. The mood of middle-aged people is also profoundly changing their attitude towards life because of the content of concern. This is a sign of the progress of the times, or the necessity of life. Only you know the taste inside.
Compared with young people's fledglings, middle-aged people pay more attention to the concept of stability! Only "stability" can represent their true inner thoughts under unprecedented pressure in the workplace, and stability also means not paying and maintaining the status quo. It stands to reason that middle-aged people are used to seeing many misfortunes in life, so they should have a strong heart and be immune to all kinds of social changes. In fact, this is just wishful thinking. Middle-aged people are afraid of change, and any change will be their inner suffering and anxiety again and again, but on the surface, they have to make a careless look to comfort themselves. For them, stability is the amulet of life, the protection of existing interests, and any change is the redistribution of vested interests. Once this balance is broken, the benefits and more protection will disappear. Therefore, in the face of change, most middle-aged people are more conservative, do not easily express their views, or are passive when supporting reform, unless the balance of interests of reform is tilted towards him.
People should not be confused when they reach middle age, but the word "confusion" has affected the mentality of middle-aged people. "Confusion" means "or", and there is also a "heart" below, that is, the heart is uncertain, and it is not clear whether it is right or wrong. Impartiality and compromise are completely opposite to what we usually call the "golden mean". To put it more bluntly, "confusion" is a fence-sitter, who can't make up his mind and doesn't know which side to take, what to support and what to deny. Before there is a clear attitude or hint, the fence-sitters generally choose a silent attitude and wait and see. Therefore, middle-aged people are "confused" in most cases, just don't know what to do. It's better to say "the fence-sitter" than to fight.
Middle-aged people are not sensitive to new things, and even negative ones are resistant. In the eyes of others, it means calm and introverted. In fact, it is a middle-aged person's insistence on a "stable" life and his fear of breaking this balance. Middle-aged people know that once this balance is broken, it is difficult to recover, and it will also show a cliff-like reaction. In the workplace, it is very difficult to get to the next level, followed by young people who are eyeing up and have more momentum and expertise. Middle-aged people are in such a middle position, afraid to connect the past with the future, and their inner anxiety and nervous vigilance always pay attention to every move in the workplace. Any personnel changes in the workplace will bring psychological ripples to middle-aged people. "There is a fire at the city gate, which harms the fish in the pond." Middle-aged people are mostly fish in the pond in the workplace. The water in the pond will not be clean and flawless, and the fish in the pond are ready to jump out of the dragon gate at any time.
When young people are sitting in the office building drinking coffee and talking about equity distribution, futures and growth enterprise market, middle-aged people are counting their retirement ages and thinking about whether blood sugar has risen today. When young people are talking about business model, paid economy and enjoying economy, middle-aged people are thinking about how long the current situation can last and whether wages are guaranteed. Now is the best time for young people, and it is indeed an era when middle-aged people feel particularly sad.
Middle-aged people care about their health. When people reach middle age, their health has already declined, their memory has declined, and their physical strength is insufficient. It is normal to stay awake at night and during the day. As for hyperlipidemia, hyperglycemia and hypertension, they are all standard for middle-aged men. The body of a middle-aged man is like a car in disrepair. Middle-aged people in the workplace pay great attention to health, which is an intangible asset. For most middle-aged people, the ceiling of career development is the peak of personal career, and the cruelty of the workplace is not determined by your ability. So now middle-aged people, after knowing the apex of their career, generally pay great attention to maintaining their health. For them, the length of life is far greater than the quality of life.
Middle-aged people have strong family values. Middle-aged people of this age are generally old and young. Middle-aged people are both children and parents. They should not only honor their parents, but also educate their children. We should not only be good children in parents' eyes, but also establish an image in children's hearts. Middle-aged families are generally very harmonious. They have experienced the social baptism of drunkenness and materialistic desires, and those who can keep their families intact are generally harmonious and loving families. After years of marriage, husband and wife have changed from loving each other to a deep feeling, so the feeling of caring for each other will continue with age. Family is the cell and component of society and the smallest unit to spread positive energy and carry forward traditional culture. A harmonious family will not change because of the change of one party's income and status, but will only support each other.
One of the most important problems faced by middle-aged people is retirement. Retirement is the end of work and the beginning of old age. Some people will retire when they reach the legal age, while others may be professionals who can resign or re-find employment. Such people are undoubtedly extending their working years, but in any case, retirement is necessary and a normal phenomenon when the social member structure is always impossible. The first thing you enjoy after retirement is loneliness. You can taste the pressure after retirement with a free mind that you have never had before. When middle-aged people who are used to working at sunrise and resting at sunset face their future retirement, it is understandable that officials who enjoy others' worship are uncomfortable no matter how busy they are, while enjoying retirement is just a calm change of mind for ordinary middle-aged people. The difference is that the work place has been changed to home.