Entrepreneur:/kloc-the founder of the women's clothing brand "Bloom", the crowdfunding of Bloom Life Museum 15 minute breakthrough10 million.

Traveler: Mr. He and his two children travel in more than 20 countries around the world.

Designer: From book binding design to fashion design.

Writer: an outstanding female blogger in the blog era; Author of the best-selling book Bloom.

Mother of two children: However, my passion is family, and I want to be a good wife and mother.

Speaker: I have been interviewed by CCTV and Phoenix. I have participated in TEDx speech and GEN Talk speech of Global Entrepreneurship Week.

We cherish that the protagonist of this interview is a woman with multiple identities-Molly.

Molly is an entrepreneur, traveler, fashion designer and writer, but what she enjoys more is that she is the mother of two children.

Molly is very powerful. The clothing brand "Bloom", which took 12 years to build, has won the love and follow of more than one million women. She will give each skirt a name. Those women who wear her skirts, claiming to be friends, travel with her regularly and listen to her offline courses.

Molly is also very gentle, recording the growth of every day with words and videos. Later, these words were published as bestsellers "Bloom" and "Dear Life", which were recommended by writers such as Hu Yinmeng, Rao Xueman and Wen Yi and infected many readers. They wrote to her and went to Suzhou to visit her.

She specially built a blooming theater to tell everyone about her life story, beautiful love story and life philosophy in her forties.

Standing in an age of no doubt, looking back, she doesn't regret it, looking forward, she doesn't care.

Molly has lived a life she couldn't even imagine when she was in her twenties, especially when she was young.

In this way, Saner went to Beijing alone with her dream and camera. He didn't want to take Molly with him because he was penniless and couldn't promise the future.

After the third son left, Molly submitted her resignation under the opposition of her relatives and got on the train to Beijing.

The winter in 2008 was particularly cold. Molly lives in a small house of only 8 square meters with a veritable North drift Saner. Poverty made them quit their desire, but the initial desire is still growing.

Beijing is so big that people are puzzled. Molly often gets lost in Beijing, but she always gets home before dark.

Molly taught herself art design and applied for a job in Rao Xueman Studio. After work, Molly likes to share the beautiful things she sees with others. She shared books and movies she had seen and transferred books and CDs on Weibo.

Netizens all like the literary life she shared and are full of praise for the skirt she wore.

So Molly began to try to choose clothes and sell them. Every time she buys new clothes, they are empty.

Seems to be encouraged by some kind. One rainy night, Molly came home in the rain, silently turned on the computer, built a Taobao shop, and wrote a line on the introduction of the online shop: "Everything is beautiful, let's move forward together."

This sentence has always been the slogan of flowering.

Time is changing, everything is changing. It's just that this sentence has been accompanied by jasmine, blooming, and it has come to this day after twelve years.

In their eyes, blooming is a girl's growth story and a journey of two people's lives.

At the beginning of the store, Molly was not born as a fashion designer. In order to make the best clothes, she taught herself to design, from selecting fabrics to debugging patterns, trying them on again and again, confirming one color after another, and following up every little detail.

After the clothes came out, she wore a linen skirt and went on a trip with her third son, who was responsible for taking pictures of Molly and posting them on Taobao. Beautiful photos and words have attracted many girls' love. One after another, they came to buy Molly's skirt.

However, I found that this store has never been online without the seller Want Want, and it relies on self-help shopping by customers, but it maintains a favorable rate of 100%.

Molly said, "We don't want to open a self-service shopping store. In thousands of stores, we want to keep the differences. There should not be too many employees, but they should be like family members, and the products should not be too miscellaneous for customers to really like; Don't develop too fast, you can always look back. "

After two years of business, Molly has made this Taobao shop a triple crown. Two people went on a trip to celebrate. It was the spring of 20 1 1 when I came back, and Saner resigned. He took Molly from Beijing to settle in Suzhou, the hometown of Saner.

Molly said that if there were no three sons, there would be no her present. Along the way, he kept pulling himself to fly.

Today's blooming occupies half a floor of a shopping mall in Suzhou, with thousands of meters of space. There are Molly's studio, small theater, commodity display platform, and Molly's dream and family.

She said that if I want to do it, I must do my best.

But the consequence of this obsessive-compulsive disorder is that with the expansion of bloom's scale, Molly feels more and more stressed and a little overwhelmed.

She said frankly: "These years, I have many identities and great pressure, and I want to do everything well. It was not until my twelfth birthday in July this year, when I was forty years old, that I realized that people don't have to be good at everything. "

In July this year, everything is not necessarily better, and it has become the theme of the new issue of Clothes.

Until the age of no doubt, in our eyes, jasmine is as demure as a girl and easy to get into deep thought.

She retains pure expectation and yearning for life, and dreams that one day she will take many women who love flax as much as her to travel, change, create, start over and define life.

As a result, she founded the Blooming Life Museum, which gives lectures all over the country every year, infecting and inspiring many women. Comrades followed her around the world, watching the scenery and seeing the appearance of women outside life.

As she walked, she recorded, among which, she especially liked Dear Life, saying it was a gift for two children. On the cover, she is wearing a linen skirt designed by herself, smiling and looking into the distance.

At this time, Molly lived a gentle and powerful life.

That tenderness wandered over her. And that kind of power is no longer the need for perfection when you are young.

Women should be brave, but not perfect.

There are always people around us who tell us in different ways that "you deserve to be loved only if you become better, better and closer to perfection".

Actually, it's not like this. We are loved not because we are perfect, but because we dare to work hard for the life we want, the way live high wants to be.

As Mr. Ni Kuang said, you can live as beautiful as you like.

Every woman must face a lesson, that is, they still have an unavoidable identity, mom.

After having two babies, Jia Jia and Yue Yue, Jasmine spent a long time and finally found the answer: I hope to be a gentle and firm mother.

Gentleness is a kind of patience, which requires emotional handling of children's emotions.

Firmness is a kind of strength, and it is the strongest reliance that mothers give their children.

In the TV series "Thirty without Nothing", at the end of confinement, Gu Jia said to himself that Gu Jia had died in the past, and now I am the mother of the child, so I have to be fearless and face it bravely.

Therefore, Gu Jia can sacrifice everything for her children and her husband, and lower her head to be a man. In order to enter the circle of rich wives, she is willing to bend down to carry shoes for other wives.

Therefore, many people think that a mother like Gu Jia is a good mother.

But Molly doesn't think it is necessary to be so tired as a mother. Some things need children to experience themselves, and some roads need children to go by themselves. Only by accepting yourself and your children can you grow up freely in each other's company.

Children are a part of nature, and every child has his own nature. Gentle and firm companionship can arouse children's authenticity and nature to the greatest extent.

Just like a flower, just like a tree, no one tells it what you want to grow and how high you want to grow, but with soil, sunshine and rain, it will grow on its own.

During the epidemic, Jasmine's two children, Jia Jia and Yue Yue, were taking online classes at home. Both classes and homework need to be completed online.

Once, Jia Jia's teacher sent an email saying, I seldom see you seldom send homework to Jia Jia. When Molly saw it, she sent an email back to the teacher.

She said that learning is a child's own business. He has finished his homework. If you need me to help him send it, I will upload it. But I won't rush him every day. Children need to consciously know that this is his business.

Later, when school started, the teacher also found that Jiajia learned to manage herself and began to take charge of her own affairs, which made great progress than before.

Let nature take its course and grow freely, which is the parenting concept that Jasmine has always adhered to.

"You don't have to ask yourself to be a good mother, and you don't have to expect your child to be a good child." As parents, there is not much we can do except companionship and strength, because that is his own life.

And Molly thinks that the only thing she can do is to record the growth of her children.

She kept recording with her own video number, her own words and the symbols of her blooming clothes. Warm and special.

Just as Jia Jia likes painting, Molly puts his painting elements on the blooming skirt. Clothes painted by Jia Jia in each issue will also sell very well.

Just like Molly has to attend class and accompany her children, she holds her children in her arms and makes design drawings while attending class.

Molly has been trying to find a balance between work and family. Career and family go forward together, and she can feel at ease if she doesn't fall behind.

Finally, Molly conceived the life she longed for:

Return to nature, get up at five or six o'clock every day, have breakfast, send the children to school, and then walk in the fields with my husband and son.

When I was a child, Molly pursued the beauty of skirts. Now Molly, who is over 40 years old, has begun to pursue the beauty of life.

What is beauty? Beauty is actually happiness.

Everyone may have a different definition of happiness. No one is good, no one is bad, no one is high or low. As long as this is what you really want in your heart, then life now is the best life.

Let nature take its course, live in the present and accept yourself. Whether as a woman, a wife or a mother, you can bloom beautifully in this vast world.

* Note: The picture is provided by Jasmine.

* Authors: Na Wei and Kawakami. This article is the first Cihuai Reading Club (ID: Cihuai _ dushuhui). Because this book is sensible and considerate, please reply "reprint" backstage.