Since they can't meet each other's demands, men also know how to give in.
However, the man wanted to break up and the woman refused. She went to the company where the man worked for four months, and finally took her family to beat the man.
This kind of forced buying and selling is hard for anyone to accept. As the saying goes, "buying and selling is heartless", and the woman's move is obviously not benevolent.
This has been put in the spotlight by everyone, and it has not been exposed more, even more than this. Light is the sky-high bride price, but heavy is threatening the other party with a bride price. I really don't know whether to get married or trade.
Amin (a pseudonym) and his girlfriend Zheng Xiao (a pseudonym), who have been talking for three years, are going to get married, but they have great differences on the issue of bride price.
In order to show sincerity, Amin's 60-year-old father specially came from other places. Because of his age, his father was too hungry to eat in the car.
Amin knows that his father is not used to taking buses. Amin wanted to persuade his father not to come, but his father said he wanted to see his in-laws, which was a kind of sincerity.
However, Amin's father came all the way here. When he met his girlfriend Zheng Xiao's parents, Zheng Xiao's parents asked for a bride price of 500,000 yuan.
For Amin's family, there is absolutely no such colorful gift, and his girlfriend knows how much money he has earned with him for so long.
Amin wanted his girlfriend to communicate with her parents, but his girlfriend Zheng Xiao told Amin that her parents wouldn't let go, and every cent of the 500,000 bride price was paid.
However, Amin did not give up. For the sake of his son's happiness, the father decided to show sincerity and communicate with Zheng Xiao's parents once.
Amin's father held a dinner party. At the dinner, Amin's father sincerely said that his family really couldn't make up 500 thousand, and more than 300 thousand had already made this family difficult.
Even if you collect 500 thousand, the money you owe in the future is not something that two children can pay back. I hope Zheng Xiao's parents can consider their children and reduce the bride price by 500,000 yuan.
However, no matter what Amin's father said, Zheng Xiao's parents wouldn't let go. In any case, they won't marry Zheng Xiao without 500,000 yuan.
Zheng Xiao's parents made Amin very angry, but his father forced him, and Amin didn't have a good attack. The dinner broke up in discord.
Amin has resentment in his heart, and his father is so condescending that the other party has not regressed at all. Amin doesn't think it necessary to hang himself in this tree.
Just as Amin's father was about to go back, his girlfriend Zheng Xiao told Amin that his parents wanted to talk about it again. Amin and his father thought that the other party had figured it out and suddenly became happy.
Because everyone was in a good mood, the meal was very enjoyable. After dinner, we got down to business. Zheng Xiao's parents said that they could pay less or not, but there was a precondition.
This is Amin and Zheng Xiao's baby. In the words of Zheng Xiao's father, "If you can't afford a bride price of 500,000 yuan, the child will take my surname."
After this sentence came out, the private room was instantly quiet.
Amin was the first one who didn't calm down. I thought the other party decided to let go for the sake of her daughter's happiness, but I didn't expect this idea.
Zheng Xiao has a sister, too. Zheng Xiao's parents, after all, prefer boys to girls, but they have no choice but to have two daughters, so the couple want to find a son-in-law.
When I was in love with Zheng Xiao before, Zheng Xiao also asked Amin if she would like to be a door-to-door son-in-law. At that time, Amin immediately rejected Zheng Xiao.
Now it's time to talk about marriage. Zheng Xiao's parents are obviously threatening themselves with a bride price of 500,000 yuan. What child's surname is Zheng Xiao, is clearly to let yourself be a son-in-law.
His father is his only son, and Amin will never agree. Even if he is not married, he will not give up his dignity.
Amin's father also said that the family would not give up the name, and if the other party used it as a threat, it would have to be forgotten.
After that, Amin slammed the door with his father.
Obviously, Amin and his father came with sincerity, but Zheng Xiao's parents had ulterior motives, and took their children's happiness as a bargaining chip to satisfy their desires.
Marriage is not to weigh the pros and cons, nor is it a game between two families. It was two young people who came together because of love and entered marriage for love.
Marriage is a commitment, a commitment to love each other, a commitment to lifelong protection.
To some extent, marriage is a responsibility. I hope every marriage is because of love, not because of money or other things.
There are many parents like Zheng Xiao's parents. For their own selfish desires, they take their children's marriage as a bet and chip. In fact, no matter whether you win or lose in the end, the child must have lost.
Even if Zheng Xiao's parents achieve their goal, Amin will give 500,000 yuan, otherwise the child will take Zheng Xiao's surname. Can family life be stable in the future?
These resentments, like a thorn buried in my heart, will burst out one day because of something. At that time, it is likely that there will be a situation that everyone does not want to see.
I hope parents in the world will not turn marriage into a game between two families, and remember that marriage is because of love.