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Netizen A: Go to a friend to talk about things. When I got off the high-speed train, my friend called a beautiful girl to pick me up. I drive in Maibakh. When I got to the place where I had dinner, there was a row of super-runs at the door, all of which were about tens of millions. Many of them have never met each other. When we eat together, we are all young people in their twenties and thirties. After dinner, I ran away one by one, and the Maybach that I slept with my sister was a mess. At that moment, I realized that driving a Porsche cayenne was really poor.

Netizen B: The true story here is that a person went shopping in Hong Kong, bought too many things to take, and bought a car directly in Shenzhen to take things back. I wonder if what I saw on the Internet the other day is true or not. It is said that one day a woman from a company in Shanghai came and asked the boss: Is the house rented from XXX? The boss said yes, why do you ask? This woman said I was XXX, and I happened to pass by here today. I vaguely remember that I have a house here. I just came up to make sure.

Netizen C: In the past, the class teachers in the class next door to high school all drove to school. I didn't understand those cars. The boys in the class have said that they need at least two or three million yuan, so the clothes they wear every day are not repeated. Anyway, they were very rustic at that time and didn't know the brand, but other teachers were talking about her. At least one or two thousand clothes, the car is the cheapest at home! I just want to say that at that time, Taobao's dozens of clothes really didn't dare to imagine wearing a set of 10,000 to 20,000 clothes only once!

So, what is the life of the rich?

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Before answering this question, let me tell three short stories, or scenes, which I saw in my daily life.

Scene 1: A couple, the husband is pulling a flat car with a layer of black coal ash on it. The wife is sitting on the flat car with a happy face and occasionally leans her head on her husband's back. It can be seen that their briquettes have been sold today.

Situation 2: An elderly couple, the old lady obviously had a stroke or something and was slow to move. His wife holds the old lady in one hand and the parasol in the other. Every few dozen steps, she puts it on the stool on her back, gently helps the old lady sit on the stool, and then takes out the cup from her backpack to let the old lady drink water.

Scene 3: In front of a bungalow, a couple, carrying a plate of peanuts, a plate of salted goose (a specialty of Zhenjiang, Jiangsu Province) and a bottle of very low-grade liquor, are chatting in the sky, laughing impudently, gulping down and having a great time. The husband also reached out and touched his wife's face.

There is no doubt that this is the life of three poor people, or the life of the most ordinary people. What can we see from these three scenes? Happiness is unhappiness, happiness or unhappiness.

We might as well expand the three scenes into three rich couples: sitting in the most luxurious car, eating in the most luxurious hotel, and lying next to the most advanced nanny.

If it is an original couple, sitting in a limousine, will the wife be happy to lean her head on her husband from time to time? Will a husband have a kind of happiness that his wife depends on? Obviously, even if there is happiness, the seller of briquettes may not be innocent.

Let's see sitting in a luxury hotel. Whether it's a family gathering or a friend gathering, there won't be too many words between husband and wife at the dinner table. Why? There's so much else to say. Besides socializing, how many couples can have heart-to-heart talks like poor couples? At most, Xiu Xiu loves them in public.

The happiness of the old couple is even less likely to be reflected in the rich. Both husband and wife, their responsibilities and obligations have long been occupied by nannies, leaving no room for husband and wife to be considerate.

Then, what kind of life the rich live, we can also see something from it, whether they envy, to what extent, and what kind of happy life they want, and we should also be inspired.

One of my girlfriends, her family is very rich and has branches all over the country. She is in her forties and has two children and two women. At that time, family planning had nothing to do with her at all, so I think it's still more money and more face! Two daughters are studying in America, the eldest son works in his own company, and the youngest son is still in primary school. There is a nanny at home who is responsible for buying food, cooking and sending flowers every day. The flowers at home must be changed every day.

She doesn't like eating at home and always invites people out to eat. Whether eating hot pot or cooking, she only takes a little green vegetables and drinks some porridge. At first I thought she was losing weight, but she said, "Either lose weight or I don't want to eat, and I have no appetite." I think it may be that she often eats these things, and when she gets a little tired of them, she loses her appetite. People who have no money want to eat, but they have nothing to eat; Rich people don't want to eat, but they eat a lot. What is the truth in this? It's a little strange.

She drives her own car, and her husband has a car, but she has a special driver. Another short-haired friend who was eating next to him said, "I met your husband in a shopping mall. He has a bodyguard with a gun and bullets. When he got on the elevator, he only took the elevator with his bodyguard, not others. Are rich people so careful? " The girlfriend said, "Be careful, there will always be people who are guilty of doing business, as well as jealous people and people with ulterior motives!" " "I said," many people envy the rich, and it seems that the rich are also having a hard time! " The girlfriend said, "The rich envy the freedom of the poor!" "It seems that the poor and the rich have their own troubles!

I'm in business. I've met and contacted many rich bosses, but I haven't contacted the rich with assets of hundreds of millions, and I've contacted the rich with assets of more than 80 million at most. To tell the truth, they don't spend money like running water. They don't spend money carefully and spend money badly. Bosses spend money loosely outside and tightly inside. It's hard to save money. They are generous in external entertainment, enterprise management and employee rewards. , mainly to maintain the image of the company and the boss, to show their own strength. The "rich people" pay more attention to the living environment and conditions and are unwilling to live in ordinary residential areas. I also pay more attention to the living facilities at home. A few rich people hire nannies, most of them don't. The proprietress is a full-time wife and nanny, and she is worried that the rich people will make trouble. The tycoon is at home and has to do some housework, even in the kitchen. Generally speaking, tycoons are frank and easy to contact, which is related to extensive personnel exchanges.

Let me briefly introduce a "tycoon" I have personally contacted, so that everyone can know the real situation of "tycoon".

Gao Moumou, male, 54 years old, owner of a private company, with a net worth of 85 million. He is mainly engaged in the import of aquatic products. He is located in a luxury residential area, living in a villa with two floors, with an area of more than 560 square meters. There are all kinds of facilities at home, more than 8 million luxury cars, a tall "full-time" wife and a nanny at home. She is similar to us in food, mainly wearing famous brands, and the whole family mainly focuses on tourism, vacation and leisure. Sometimes I bring my whole family, invite whoever I should, and never bring extra people. The standard of banquet is relatively high, which shows my status and power and is good for the employees of the company. The salary is also high and the treatment is not stingy. Teacher Gao often says to me, "I am good to my employees, and my employees work hard for me." Tall women are also more reasonable and polite, and can't see the arrogant behavior of rich women.

The only son of General Gao. My son is 25 years old. Retired two years ago and worked as a salesman in my father's company. His salary, work, treatment and old-age insurance are the same as those of employees. There is no special treatment for a penny. Parents told his son to take care of food and control at home, and all other expenses should be paid by yourself, regardless of family.

Last year, Mr. Gao said to his son, "You go to the suburbs of a town to open a wholesale store, and I will lend you 500,000 working capital without interest. The number of employees is determined by you according to your work situation, and all expenses are solved by yourself from the profit. You can also borrow not less than 50 thousand from me every year. When you come to the company to pull the goods, the price of the goods and the settlement of the payment are the same as those of other units. " There is no discount at all.

After I learned about it, I said to Mr. Gao, "You are a little too mean to your son."

Mr. Gao said: "He has received strict training in the army and in our company. Opening a wholesale store is to create an opportunity for him to master independent management ability, management ability and command ability, from which he can understand business philosophy and explore social experience. If he doesn't hone well and doesn't understand the whole business process, how can he take my class in the future? "

This epidemic has dealt a great blow to Mr. Gao's son's wholesale store and tends to lose money.

His father encouraged him: "In this case, we must hold our horses and try our best to promote sales. Employees can make appropriate adjustments on the basis of not affecting their work, but the salary cannot be less, and the loan can be repaid in one year. "

In fact, Mr. Gao's career is also made by hard work and hard work. To outsiders, he always thinks that Mr. Gao is easy to make money and generous in spending money. Actually, it's not. Mr. Gao pulls goods through customs during the day and loads and delivers goods to distant customers at night, day after day, year after year, basically all year round. No matter day or night, wind and sun, whether it is hot in summer or cold in winter, we all work with the employees on site, eating bread, eating instant noodles and drinking mineral water. Especially in winter, the snow is falling, the north wind is whistling, and the biting sea breeze blows on people's faces and hands like a knife. The pain is unbearable. Some employees' faces and hands were frozen and recurred in winter. Manager Gao feels very distressed. Those who have worked in this company for more than two years are equipped with a set of "leather clothes" from head to toe. Summer is better, and you don't have to offend them so much at night, but mosquito bites can't stand bags. This is the basic running track of Gao head office.

In short, "tycoons" regard their appearance as chic, live in villas, drive cars, wear famous brands and spend generously, in fact, in order to cover up their inner fatigue and troubles and get a balance point by spending money to show off their status and the power of the company. Pay is rewarding, and they can become today's "tycoons" with tears and sweat. I admire to say that no matter "tycoon" or "Xiaoheng", you are rewarded by your own efforts, and "Heng" has also worked hard.

What kind of life do rich people live, live a life that we can't enjoy, live a life of drunkenness and envy, because this is the life of our boss.

Our boss is young, in 1994, a typical rich second generation, a dude, who doesn't know that money is hard to come by and is not online every day. People often say that you can never wake a person who pretends to sleep, and neither can he.

/kloc-at the beginning of 0/6, our company was established, with only seven people, who are also ordinary taxpayers. Six of them are good friends and brothers of the boss. Just a worker, do you think this is rich and willful? At the beginning of my business, everything was in a hurry, and I found an office company without any foundation or relationship. It doesn't matter if there are six people, but you can work hard for your good friends. No one listened to the instructions, and arrived late and left early. This happens all the time. The boss is joking every time he sees him. So-and-so, you want to be beaten again. Of course, they also go in one ear and out the other, completely ignoring it, so that the company can still have a future? Sure enough, they worked for three months and could do nothing. Everyone graduated from primary school. It doesn't matter if you don't come back. You can learn step by step. Others directly returned, saying that they could not do it. They get a few months' salary for nothing. Really good friends, and the boss is not short of money.

After a year of hard work, the company is getting better and better, with business and stable list. It just made a little money and squandered it. By the end of the year, it will be solved. How much money did you make? There is not a dime left. This company is already in operation. At the beginning of the following year, I asked his father for money and his brother for money. Confused. The next year, I saw him no more than five times, and one of his good brothers was taking care of him.

This year, he played mahjong in a lottery shop or hotel and went to Macau three times. The same thing happened in another place. He gambled in Macau. Basically every time I go, I lose. But this rich man is just different from us. Waiting for the company to pay back the money and continue to play, gambling is like life, how to break it?

Rich people may all have a loving heart and talk about three girlfriends at the same time a year. Is this exciting? I don't know, and I dare not ask. I want to know how to deal with three women at once. This is a science.

I am young, but I love cars, and they are all commercial vehicles. In the early days of starting a business, my father gave me a Toyota overbearing, 2008 car, and he entered the world with his father, so he cherished it very much. I hope he will refuel and let the company grow gradually. But it wasn't long before he said that the car was boring, couldn't speed up, wasn't suitable for racing and was difficult to play. His father bought a Mercedes-Benz s350, and he just came back and liked it very much. He took his friends and his girlfriend to Tibet, Chengdu, Yunnan and many other places. This is the life of a rich man, but he is not satisfied. I took a fancy to someone else's s600, which is second-hand. I bought it anyway, but I finally decided. I didn't know anyone else had a deep routine. I just came back and overhauled it, which cost about 65438+ 10,000 yuan. All unimportant parts come from brand factories. Since I bought this car, it is either being repaired or being repaired. I don't know where it came from

Anyway, I don't understand the world of rich people. Is it necessary to spend money recklessly? Do you have to be so willful if you have money? This is the life of the rich people around me, that's all. I wonder how all the rich people around you live.

Don't talk about it, just my personal experience. I am 29 years old. I used to be a soldier. I went to Shenzhen to watch an evening show at the end of last year. Most of the time, I am internally driven. Because many guests were drunk, I took him to the bar. Basically, I don't need Didi to drive. It's all from our insiders. There are too many such things as Porsche Land Rover. Sometimes it is sent to the door of the community, and sometimes it is sent directly to the guests' homes, because they are too drunk to walk. I met them twice. The family belongs to the kind that is particularly rich. Once, I was a young scholar with glasses, and I wanted to be. Because I didn't pay much attention to the beer I drank in the bar at that time, I sent it to the parking lot to open Paramera. In fact, I have seen many such cars, but not too many. He didn't drink too much. I had a bowl of porridge with him on the way and sent it to his house. His family lives in a big single-family villa. The road in front of the door is a bit narrow, but the car can turn into the garage. Eight cars, the worst one is a very old 7-series BMW, and then there is a Cayenne, Tesla and Mercedes. Perhaps Paramera is the most expensive one. To be honest, it's 2 kilometers away from the bar. Delete him. The second time, there was a student studying in Shenzhen. The drinks he drank in the bar were just ordinary celebrities, but the cocktails he bought for girls were almost 20 thousand yuan. I know that this drink basically belongs to real big customers. I followed him all the way to the parking lot. Sure enough, G63, just a mechanical brake, has been sent to the community opposite a school in Shenzhen and asked me to help him go upstairs. The house is small, but according to him, when he goes to a city, his parents will buy him several houses. My hometown is from Hubei, and my family is engaged in high-speed rail business. I didn't dare to ask how. Anyway, when he came into the house, his furniture was average. A shoe rack, all Nike shoes, is very nice, just those styles that can't be found on Taobao. On a small table, there are about a dozen fine clothes and the world, which is more interesting. Although he gave me 100 yuan, he didn't sleep, but pulled me down and drove me back to the bar. He means that they are all brothers, afraid that I can't go back by taxi. Haha, I'm still drunk. But I haven't touched it, and I can't tell you how much it is. I went back to my hometown Zhengzhou this month, and I'm still in this business. This bar is the best in Zhengzhou. I hope to meet more local tyrants and earn more money [laughs] [laughs]

When I was in college, I studied landscape design. According to the current social situation in China, the clients of our industry are generally divided into three categories. The first category is local government, which is to design and build parks around everyone. The second category is real estate developers. What we do is the greening landscape of the community that everyone does. As for the third category, we help the rich who are really rich and pursue the aesthetic quality of life to design their villas, from gardens to interiors. Having said that, I think everyone should be able to have a preliminary understanding of the people who are in daily contact with practitioners in our industry.

With the foreshadowing in front, I won't say much now, but I will share with you a little life in the three trenches I have been in contact with.

Let's call him brother vagrant first. This eldest brother is about my age. He was a big client of my previous company. How big is it? Let's just say that after ten people from our team helped him design the villa garden scheme, he was very satisfied. Let's go to Thailand to help him design some gardens. At first, we all thought that this project was manor-style. It was not until we arrived in Bangkok and went to the project address that we learned that this brother and his father bought almost a dozen villas in Bangkok, saying that they were renovated into homestays. After we were dumbfounded, Brother Wandering said that China people like to stay in homestays when they go abroad, and the hotel business in Singapore is not good, so we just go to Thailand to buy some villas and try them first. As far as work is concerned, we see many rich people take precautions. Brother vagrant's fatal blow to me happened on the day when I reported my work to him. He asked me how much money I could earn a year, and I said about 70,000 to 80,000. After that, Brother Wandering was surprised to ask me, 70,000 to 80,000 a year, so you are too tired to buy a house! Where will you live in the future! I have to pretend to be brave and say, actually, it doesn't matter. I'll pay the down payment first, and then pay the mortgage slowly! Then Brother Wandering stabbed me and asked me weakly, Wang Gong, what is a mortgage? . . .

Second, let him enjoy his uncle. When I was at school, our teacher introduced me to one of his clients. On 20 12, the teacher took us to my uncle's villa in Ersha Island, Guangzhou, saying that it would let me learn more. So when I turned 20 that year, I saw that there was a washbasin and faucet from Germany in the world, a set of almost 300,000 RMB. . . . .

The third is my first boss. The boss started from scratch, doing landscaping projects, and the scale of the company is also strong in the local area. In 20 14, I was responsible for the greening project of a factory, and then there was a big pond next to the factory. One day, the boss came to check the progress and came across this pond. After several explorations, the water quality is good. So the boss asked someone to spend hundreds of dollars from nowhere to buy fry and put them in the pond, saying that they would keep them until the end of the year to send them to friends. After a year, to 15/month, one day the boss was in high spirits and found two fishermen to catch fish in the pond. Finally, the labor and fry cost about two or three thousand yuan, and the fish my boss caught was about 40 kilograms, which was not a valuable fish. At most, 500 yuan is enough on the market. But our boss was like a happy boy that day. He just jumped into the pond in winter. . . .

The above three cases are all true stories I met. Although looking at these three trenches is a bit silly and cute, none of them are really stupid, and all three are very special and naive.

Because of the working environment, there are many people who know each other very well and have great status. Some are as low-key as the uncle next door, and some love to run super watches.

But what I envy most is that one of them is not particularly rich.

He used to be the second young master in the family.

He was not forced to receive elite education since childhood like his brother, and was trained as a family successor all the way. Instead, I learned my favorite art for free.

After entering the company, my brother naturally has a great responsibility and works hard from the grassroots level. And he used his spare time to continue his artistic creation in front of the leisure small manager of the company's functional departments.

Whenever I see him, I always have a naive smile.

I am very happy to chat with you defenseless and without any distance. My whole body is full of sunshine and my eyes are shining.

I never envy rich people.

It's just that every time I see him, I feel extremely lost.

Innocence that has never been hurt at all.

It turns out that only money can protect you

I think, in fact, there is a simple and beautiful child living in everyone's heart.

Shiny childlike innocence is always there, but sometimes it is covered by the haze of life.

The thought of here

When I think of those people behind the temporary indifference, abuse and even malicious harm, they may actually be the same people standing in the dark looking up at the light.

For this world, suddenly there is more tolerance.

Thank you all

I really can't decide what kind of life the rich lead, because I'm not a rich man. However, there are indeed many rich people around me, at least those who don't go to work now, and their family life will not be greatly affected.

For example, the director of my former company, he and his wife are currently in Huawei. His wife should have worked in Huawei for more than 12 years, and he himself has been in Huawei for more than 8 years. They now have two houses in Shenzhen, both of which were bought a long time ago. Now their wealth is at least about 30 million, which should be said to be the home of the rich.

However, they still drive a car with more than 200,000 yuan, and then go to work every day, still busy and conscientious, or afraid of being fired by Huawei. I haven't seen how easy it is for them. I sometimes think, if one day I have such wealth, how will I live? I can't answer at the moment.

And my former colleague, who has been a futures quantitative researcher for more than ten years. When he worked in the company, his strategy earned tens of millions for the company. His own wealth has long exceeded 20 million, and he currently has two houses in Shenzhen. I have managed about 20 million yuan since I came out from 20 17, and the annualized rate of return in the last three years is about 50%. So he may earn more money in one year than we do in ten years.

Even so, my colleague recently changed a car of about 300,000 yuan, and then the previous one1100,000 yuan has been driving for five or six years. Their life is also very economical and ordinary. It's just that he is willing to spend money on his children's education. His eldest daughter is now in kindergarten, and then takes part in some extra-curricular brain development training courses. The tuition fee for one semester will be tens of thousands.

So for the rich people around me, I see that their lives are also very economical and ordinary, and you don't think they are rich at all.

This is Wen Qing's homework. I'm Brother Wen.

As for the problem of the rich, I don't quite understand it. I only know one person in Xi 'an. He lives in the southern suburbs. It is said that many rich people buy villas there and have their own yards and garages. Once he came back from abroad and brought some red wine. Invited me to his house to play.

I drove to them and drove into the garage according to his instructions. I didn't expect to enter the wrong area and the car broke down. I'll call my friend. Ask him if there is a rescue center nearby. My car broke down. Call me. I asked for help. He asked me where I was, and I said it was in the garage area A. He asked me strangely that my garage was in the garage area B, and that row was all my parking spaces. Why did you run to area a? I came to see you. I said you came straight from the garage. She said that the two districts could not be connected, so I told him that they were connected now. . .