Some people will say that my husband cheated on me. Is it for the Spring Festival? But in real life, in the face of her husband's deception, few women can easily and decisively file for divorce. With children, families and many shackles, women may still have feelings and can't let go, so that women can't find a man to cheat and divorce immediately.
Many times, they will wait for men to come home and cut off contact with women outside. But in the face of men's deception, what kind of life is a woman who chooses not to divorce? Can you really put the past behind you and start over? Listen to their feelings together.
After Aunt Yang was injured, she finally understood that loving herself is the most important thing.
Aunt Yang and her husband started from scratch, risking their lives to give birth to his children, take care of her sick mother-in-law, and quit their jobs to take care of everything at home.
However, the husband's career is getting better and better, and he has a bad idea. The regret of not having a son has been lingering in my mind. Aunt Yang is too old to take any more risks. Consult a doctor. The doctor didn't advise her to get pregnant again. After all, every time she gives birth, she goes to the gate of hell!
But the husband didn't give up and the wife didn't have children. He found another woman to give birth to his child. Spend it on your own money. Aunt Yang knew that he was outside and prayed that he would go home and think more about his daughter. But my husband said that if you don't give birth to me, don't stop others from giving birth to me.
Later, Aunt Yang realized that she couldn't save a person who didn't look back, and began to plan for the future of herself and her daughter, save money for her daughter, and began to learn financial investment. Aunt Yang has lived for more than 40 years and understands that men are unreliable and it is safest to rely on themselves.
But my husband doesn't understand that a person's good luck will run out, and fate can't always care for those who refuse to keep their feet on the ground. The little lover here is not pregnant, there is a problem with the company there, and the capital chain is broken. There was something wrong with the company, and the past scenery was gone, so the little lover naturally left.
At this moment, I remembered Aunt Yang's kindness. I begged that I wanted to go home and spend more time with Aunt Yang and her daughter. As a matter of fact, my daughter is about to graduate from college. I'm used to him being always busy.
Aunt Yang now has the capital and the courage to talk about divorce. She never asked for a divorce, but she looked at her past love. Aunt Yang is not always around her family now. She is usually very beautiful, shopping, with a bright face, money in her pocket and a wonderful life.
Aunt Sun didn't divorce at first, because she wanted him to No Country for Old Men.
Aunt Sun chose to marry her husband at the beginning because she liked him to be honest and had no conspiracy. Aunt Sun has the final say in marriage, but she also takes good care of her husband. But Aunt Sun's husband doesn't know how to cherish this stable life. He must have had an affair for excitement.
You know, honest people cheat, have no plan, have no retreat, and are basically asking for trouble. Aunt Sun gave her husband a chance, and he promised it wouldn't happen again.
As a result, the husband talked again and again and betrayed the marriage again and again. Aunt Sun will be angry if she goes home today and betrays her marriage tomorrow.
But later, Aunt Sun changed her attitude, stopped asking her husband to go home and didn't mention the divorce. On the contrary, choose "conditional" to forgive "conditional" in the words of Aunt Sun: "If you insist on being with that woman, I will help you, but I will not divorce you. I don't want to hurt my children. What do you and that woman like in private, but you can't let me and the children know, especially the children.
Besides, I don't care about children, and neither do you. You should take full responsibility for the money your child usually needs, the money for going to school and the money for getting married and buying a house in the future. This is my exchange for helping you. If you agree, we will sign the agreement. If you don't agree, don't blame me for falling out. If I work hard, I won't let you live with that woman. "
My husband thinks Aunt Sun's suggestion is very good. On the one hand, he really doesn't want to give up his family. On the other hand, he also wants the same beauty, marriage and two families outside marriage. So I agreed to Aunt Sun's terms. Do men cheat and want a divorce but never come back?
Aunt Sun's husband not only gave all his money to Aunt Sun, but also bought a house for his son after graduation and successfully held his son's wedding.
But when the honest husband thought he could enjoy a happy life, Aunt Sun filed for divorce. Aunt Sun put up with it for so long just to get back at her husband. Both of them are husbands in their fifties. Although they don't want a divorce, Aunt Sun often turns over old scores and cries bitterly.
I thought I spent all my money on my children and gave it to my wife. He can enjoy his old age at home, but the result is quite different from what he thought.
Finally, he couldn't stand his wife's crying and accepted the divorce, which was a chaotic state. For him at that time, he just wanted to divorce as soon as possible and return to peace. He didn't realize how much harm divorce would bring to his life. As a result, it was bleak to meet him at night after the divorce.
Marriage is a long-term transaction. At the same time, transactions based on marriage, like futures trading, also have certain risks. At the same time, signing a contract should bear the high risk of whether the other party will get old, become irritable and get sick without contractual responsibility in return.
At the same time, entering marriage means taking responsibility. If you think that marriage is both irresponsible and beautiful, the result is mostly tragedy.
A really smart person is one who knows how to manage and cherish the immediate happiness. They can't look at the mountains. They always feel that flowers at home are not as good as wild flowers, and their wives are not as gentle and considerate as lovers outside.
They will know that the family they have now is the best. Their constant goal is to give their families a better life. They also understand the efforts of their wives and understand that working hard outside and taking care of their families are their greatest support.
Do men cheat and want a divorce but never come back? And those who look smart think they are having an affair, while their wives don't choose divorce and think they are very powerful. As we all know, cleverness is mistaken by cleverness, and finally falls on a stone and hits one's own feet, which shows the name of a joke. It was not until I was old and needed care that I found regret, but it was too late.