1. unexpectedly

The old lady on the second floor of the opposite building passed away.

Usually, she always greets us with a smile. Although I don't know her very well, every time I see her warm smile and hearty voice, I always feel inexplicable happiness. She lives with her son and daughter-in-law, and usually helps to take care of her grandchildren and do housework. Actually, my grandson is over 10 years old. He doesn't work as hard as before, just picks him up and drops him off every day.

I haven't seen her in recent days. When I was walking the baby, I heard my mother-in-law say that the old lady had passed away. Walking fast, I fell to the ground that afternoon and died that night. It is said that there is high blood pressure, which leads to brain congestion.

The old man walks very fast. I don't even know if she regrets it.

I heard that her daughter-in-law is going to have a second child, which is these days. On the day of the incident, the daughter-in-law went to the hospital for examination, and only the eldest grandson was at home. Fortunately, after the incident, he immediately ran downstairs to find someone to call 120.

But unfortunately, it was not rescued.

What a surprise! I didn't expect my mother-in-law to be me.

In fact, I noticed that this mother-in-law was last year, and she helped clean the community. I met her several times when I went out, and they all greeted me warmly, and she dragged the floor at least three times a day, which was particularly serious and responsible. But in less than a month, I didn't do it. I was surprised and asked her why she didn't do it. She said that the property management thought she was too old to take responsibility for what happened at work.

Later, I often watched her pick up plastic bottles and cartons in the trash can and sell them to subsidize her family. In the evening, she and her friends will walk and chat around the rockery in the community.

In a word, she is a person who loves life.

Although my mother-in-law said they were so old, they left. What can we do?

Generally speaking, the so-called natural death should be the most natural death, or people should be aware of their own death. Like many animals, they won't be killed when they compete for food. An elephant, a spiritual animal, will find that place when it knows that it is going to die. Only a dying elephant can find that place.

Humans may have felt this way, but in the process of continuous evolution, the pursuit of fame and fortune seems to have lost its original faith and beauty. We are afraid of death and unwilling to accept it.

Especially in this emergency, people who are still alive will feel particularly regretful. It's a pity that they didn't treat him (her) well before their death.

I don't know whether a dead person has entered the last stage of his life. The so-called birth and death is a natural process, but it is not known whether it is like a snake biting its tail.

Any one of us may encounter this unexpected thing, how to face it? There is only one way: live up to today and live up to the people around you.

downward slope

A friend's husband loves gambling and owes huge debts. It was his friends and family who gave him the opportunity to help him repay the loan. Until last year, his friends and husband did well and never gambled again.

However, after the New Year, everything revived in spring, and so did his bad habits.

And owed tens of thousands of debts without the knowledge of his family. Faced with his huge new and old debts again and again, his family lost confidence in him. What scares his wife most is that he doesn't know how to repent, so that she can't see the hope of life

Because of his problem, the family is fidgeting all day, facing the situation that the wife and children are separated.

Their situation reminds me of the novel alive countless times. Fu Gui, the master of the landlord, gambled like a dog, and finally lost all his property. Fu Gui was poor, because his mother was ill, so he went to see a doctor. He didn't expect to be caught by the Kuomintang army on the way and then captured by the People's Liberation Army. Only when I returned to my hometown did I know that my mother had passed away, my wife Jia Zhen had brought up a pair of children, but my daughter was unfortunately deaf and dumb, and my son was smart and lively ... Everything seemed to be developing in a good direction.

However, the real tragedy began to unfold gradually. After reading this book, my eyes filled with tears. Alas, I don't know why I shed tears so easily. The rare warmth in life was torn to pieces by death again and again, leaving only the old Fu Gui with the old cow to remember in the sun.

Although this book is the most essential interpretation of life. But the cause of all this is gambling, which cannot be ignored.

A friend's house seems to be going downhill, not slowly, but 90 degrees vertically, so fast that he can't grasp its speed.

I don't want to discuss the reasons for gambling. Of course, the reasons are much more complicated: it may be the influence of the surrounding environment of my parents and friends, or it may be my hobby. Who knows?

The reality is that he has been gambling himself.

According to research, gambling is addictive, psychological addiction and a curable disease. People who like gambling like the thrill of the moment when the last card is exposed and a decision is made.

If you want to completely control yourself, you can only rely on yourself.

My father likes gambling, and my mother played cards at that time. I still remember one night when my mother went out to play cards and asked my father to stay with us at home. Later, he also went out to play cards at once. Bang, the rolling gate closed, leaving only my brother and I at home.

We were so scared that we hid under the mosquito net and cried until the people at the food station next door woke up. We didn't stop talking until my aunt called my mother back.

I still remember the fireflies that flew in from the window and stopped on the mosquito net that night. We thought it was a ghost and cried like hell. When mom came back, we told her that we just wanted to give them an opinion, that is, we hoped that she would stop playing mahjong. Mom promised us.

Since then, we have rarely been left alone at home to play cards.

But dad hasn't changed. He is keen on gambling. Although he also earns money to support his family, he really likes playing cards. Although I'm talking about investment, I'm still speculating in stocks and futures. But I think this is also a kind of closed thinking. Because he always wants to make a big profit with a small fight.

Fortunately, he didn't owe a huge debt for his wife and children to pay for him. He has his own bottom line.

It is said that people can't go downhill all the time, and they will definitely go uphill at a certain time. But if you don't reflect on yourself and don't want to get rid of the bad habit of gambling, you will definitely go downhill all the time and get lower and lower.

No one can save you in the end.

uphill

Zhang Juan has been pregnant for almost three years. She didn't go out to work for six months until the baby was one year old. Later, because of various things at home, I went home to take care of my baby.

Many people think it's easy for you to take care of the baby at home. You don't have to ask your mother-in-law to help you cook.

Well, it may be really easy to think like this. Anyone who has taken care of a baby at home should know that there will be a lot of odds and ends at home. From morning till night, you may have done a lot of things, but in the end you feel that you have done nothing. That sense of powerlessness-more for yourself-is particularly frustrating.

She always thought that her road was smooth, perhaps it was this flatness that covered up her decline. If you don't go up, you will only go down.

What is a smooth road? There is no smooth road to life.

Although the uphill road is difficult and slow, most people still choose this road.

After the baby was three years old, she chose to go back to work. The difference in wages is not very big, but it is quite big.

We must correct our mentality in time and work hard. Encourage yourself: At least you're out. Think about it. Twenty years later, you will go out to work, which is a very good start. It doesn't matter if you have a low salary and a low job today. Don't compare with others, only with yourself.

It doesn't matter if you don't make money at first. Spend time and money on tuition, and when you are young, you begin to accumulate.

The uphill journey is long, the wind and rain are particularly fierce, and the sun is particularly strong.

Wrong, it doesn't matter, go back.

Think about it, you are getting higher and higher and closer to the sun. Plateau and plain are definitely different, and so are people who receive sunlight. Accept it calmly and make progress.

Change your mind and sing all the way, even the rugged mountain road will be trampled into a flat road by you. If you are used to going uphill, it is a flat road.

I always thought there were many choices in life, but there were only three. If you have money, you might as well die.

I have always thought that there are many roads in life, but there are only three, uphill, downhill and accident.

Which way to choose, which way to live, depends entirely on you and only on you!