First: get to know each other better. If it really doesn't work, the divorced one will have a baby. If you want to give your children to your parents first, go out and work hard by yourself. If he wants you to go out and work harder, don't be looked down upon by her. Men should stand up!
Second: plan your life well, work hard and earn money. This road is always right. There is no woman who has never loved a good life. For example, I want to earn 65438+ million or more when I am 25 years old, and then you can use this money to do small business for two to three years. Money earned at the age of 28 can be invested. Now there are many investment directions, such as stocks, futures, gold and national debt. If you don't like it, you can take some, and the rest can do your own thing. I believe you should be able to work hard in society for several years.
Third: think that as long as you live for decades, life will be wonderful. Get a divorce when you figure it out. There are plenty of fish in life. Why stay with someone who doesn't love you? It is very hard. You are still young. I suggest you go to a vocational school for a year or two now. You can work while studying. You can also fall in love and get to know each other better.
Fourth: If you want to stay at home, there is another one called ecological agriculture. If your hometown has good geographical conditions, you can carry out ecological farming, such as: raising ducks and live chickens-"manure can raise fish" (fish can be raised alone, carp is sapphire in water, loach is mud) and so on.
Life is your own, you live for yourself, and everyone has their own choices. I once had a lover who broke up after two years of bad feelings. I love someone when I think that loving her means making her happy. You have to solve this by yourself.