As a fairly happy person, there are no big waves in life, but only minor problems in study, mood and simple interpersonal relationship. It was the first time to face intimidation and trouble-making. When I heard it, it was over, but when I heard my mother mediating among these gangsters, my anger still burst out.
the cause of the incident is this: the tree at home has grown for 9 years and has become mature. Trees attract the wind and make people jealous. This attracted a group of punks to buy it, and they went to their father to discuss it. Dad shirked it, for one thing, the tree was planted by his mother and managed by her mother, and for another, the responsibility was pushed out, which also reflected his fear of offending people. The phone was not settled, and this group of people came to the door. Dad, who had already eaten, was taken to the dinner with three bottles of white wine.
Dad came back drunk at night and felt threatened. They began to quarrel, and I remembered the impulse to run away from home many times when I was a child. Incompetent people always try to prove to their families that they are not as cowardly as they are outside. Some people nag, some brag and others are violent, while my father chooses to find fault with my mother and doesn't conform to the rules he thinks. When I face pressure, I think of running away. Dad and mom failed to communicate, so they called the gangsters who picked the leader, and mom was forced to mediate with this group of people again. Mom's attitude at that time was not very firm, just explaining that the information about the tree to be sold was wrong. I tried to interrupt them, and my mother pushed my hand away. Listening to my mother's tone from high to steady, my heart is also practical. Hang up the phone, the other party didn't leave it at that. The phone called again. Dad put the phone in front of his mother, and her mother was still in her mood. I took the phone and didn't give him a chance to talk at all. I hung up the phone and started the flight mode. In order to calm mother's mood, chat with her until 2 o'clock at night.
The next day, my father took me to the station. When he left, he smiled and said to me, "They almost got into a fight yesterday, huh? ！” I opened a compassionate mind and looked at this middle-aged man with only a few years old children's minds in his heart.
I thought it was over, but in fact it has just begun.
The tree decided to sell it to another buyer. On the day of cutting down trees, this group of people colluded with married with children to make trouble. Accusing people who buy trees of stealing trees, without any results, and telling them that they are not qualified to cut down trees. The law has always been just a tool that anyone can use, which can safeguard our rights and gain illegal interests for others. The people at the police station went to the police normally, asked about the situation and left. The people from the Forestry Bureau didn't come because the gangsters got a trouble fee. Under a so-called muddled solution led by the township government, my mother and the merchants who bought trees sent this group of men and women away for 1 yuan each. The law is helpless at the moment. It can punish crimes, but it can't make people stable, and it can't really make people do good.
My mother kept my father out of the whole process. Mom decided that she had this robbery this month and didn't want anyone to participate unless she had to. Of course, because in my mother's interpretation, my father is afraid, and I still can't make my own decision about it.
Based on mom's growing experience, she did make some wrong interpretations. Because the people in the township government know these gangsters, and because they have communication with the people in the Forestry Bureau, they feel that there is some relationship between them. This speculation has aroused my panic. Who can protect the interests of us little people? I only know that "nonsense" means "Hu people speak the right path". How can this help? I remembered a story my husband told me. Someone in Zhihu asked, what should Confucius do if he meets a punk? The answer is that Confucius' disciples are all over the world, some people engage in government relations, and some people have rights, wealth and status. There is no such difficulty at all. I admire and love Confucius a little more. Wealth, status and connections are important, and practice and practice are also helpful.
Mom said, maybe I was afraid when I thought about it later, but now she doesn't feel scared at all.
"I see, these men around me are all the same. They usually brag and blow the sky, and they will only please and pay for things."
"I asked the deputy head of the township,' You can't do the work without getting on well with them, can you?' "
it's also my mother's harvest.
Later, I asked a friend of the Public Security Bureau how to safeguard his own interests in such a case. His advice is to be careful and record the tape as evidence. The anti-vice office will be set up all year round. Villains are in the dark, so if they don't provoke, they don't provoke. If they are eyeing things, they should take early action to avoid future troubles. Don't doubt the police, it's a powerful institution. Some things are really not that the police shirk their responsibilities, and incidents of smearing the police by cooperating with the police are endless.
Later, I gradually understood the behaviors of "assisting the police" who violated the rules and committed crimes, and gained some insights. Civil servants with formal establishment are bound by a sense of self-morality. After all, many of them are highly educated. The police officers, although assisting, still feel that they are people with some rights. The so-called villain gains power, and the dog fights against the man, all because they have a chihuahua heart, but they feel that they are the same species as Alaska. Not barking is not enough to show this vision inside.
I still want to believe that we are all different manifestations of the same vitality. Even these gangsters, even those little people, even a coward like me, we are all blindfolded lives, and I believe our souls are supreme. I try to connect this belief with these people. If those who hurt others are all people who have been hurt, what happened to them? Those who are screaming at the top of their lungs to harm others for personal gain, how crazy their hearts are and what difficulties have they encountered in their lives? What have they lost? Based on a little knowledge of one of them, I wonder what he thought when he saw his mother being abused by his father. Will he think that his mother's death has something to do with his father? Or do you think he can establish his own worldview in the way that his father treats women? At the moment, I look at this group of men and women again, and I see a group of injured people who want to intimidate others and seek inner comfort. I believe that if given the opportunity, they are also willing to show their good souls.
in my self-consistent mental system, I can only find this reason for myself. Let me not have evil thoughts in my heart, and let my heart spend the day safely. When I really began to face the evil of human nature, my world shook. This kind of shaking is manifested in that when I drive alone, I am worried that the car coming from the opposite side will suddenly change lanes. I have a lot of worries and observations about the chaos and uncertainty of the world, which also makes me more aware of protecting myself. At the same time, I have some understanding of the ongoing corruption and corruption, which is also a part of the "Tao", which has occurred since ancient times and will continue into the far future.