A girl who says, "Why should a girl fight with you with her youth" must meet the following conditions:
1, acknowledging that "men should earn money to support their families and improve their living standards" in a patriarchal society, and at the same time acknowledging that "women are men's accessories" in a patriarchal society.
As a commodity waiting for a man to choose before marriage, you should refuse to be "opened" and have no right to have sex before marriage. A woman who has not materialized herself belongs to herself, and of course she can do what she wants. )
As an accessory of a man, he should not show his face after marriage and should not have social relations with other men. At this time, don't say that there are normal male friends, blue faces and male girlfriends.
4. After being devalued, the "youth" who was once waiting for a price should accept the fact of its devaluation, endure the indifference of men, go out for fun, and even abandon it.
5. Accept the fact that you should carry on the family line and satisfy your desire for men, not to mention driving your husband to the study living room to sleep after quarreling.
6. You can accept the fact that you are totally dependent on men financially. If a man cuts off your financial resources, you have no money to spend.
7, can accept the fact that because life depends on people, there is no self-confidence and husband challenge after marriage.
8. Serve your in-laws. I have no right to say "my own little family", and my husband can't resist trying to take in his in-laws.
9. You can do all the housework, or ask your husband for permission to hire a servant, but don't expect your husband to help you with some housework.
10, if you are infertile, don't blame your husband for abandoning you.
If you can accept the above ten items, then it stands to reason that women should enjoy the fruits of men's struggle alone. On the one hand, I want the rights of women in the new world, on the other hand, I want to let only men bear the external storm as in the old days. Nice try. If you have the heart to fight together, your husband decides to try to make you enjoy happiness out of love, so it doesn't belong to objectifying yourself. Or after the husband and wife discuss it, it is more appropriate to have a master inside and a master outside, but the division of labor is different.
But I suggest that men struggle on their own and women enjoy happiness, hehe. Before marriage, you were a commodity that was waiting for a price, and after marriage, you were a second-hand commodity that depreciated rapidly. Please don't preach your "feminism" and "that's what women should do". Not all women are like you.
The ultimate task of a woman is not to get married. Shouldn't she also "struggle" before meeting the other half? Why do you think this is just his own job when you meet your partner? Try hard when you are alone. When two people walk together, only one person will work hard? There is no such logic.
What is "Dedicating Youth"? What do you mean, women depreciate when they are not young? Won't your youth die without a man? When you have a man, will your life be subordinate to him? Don't you have your own life? No, your job is to mop the floor, wash clothes, cook and make the bed for him. If your value only lies in beauty and youth, and you use these as a bargaining chip, it will certainly depreciate.
But in fact, the so-called "depreciation" is only the result of materializing itself. People are not commodities, what can be discounted or not?