This profession is quite special. As a mistress quitter, I have seen how Qian Qian felt in a million situations. Although her business is very good, she is also very professional. However, the more proficient in feelings, the more she will talk about her feelings, because she has seen through their feelings. Unless she is really excited, she may not want to try to develop a new relationship. It's like a snack vendor. Although the food she sells is delicious, the stall owner doesn't like it. It is because she eats too much that she is tired of eating. San Xiao felt the same way when she fired her teacher. With too much experience, she is not interested in feelings. In addition, because of her busy work, she has no energy to solve her emotional problems. Every day, she thinks about how to better complete the corresponding work and better help customers solve difficult problems.

First of all, I am too proficient in feelings.

Xiao San is too proficient in feelings, and any difficult emotional problems are not a problem for her. She can skillfully help her clients solve their emotional problems in her own way. Sometimes it's not good for her to be too proficient in something, and everyone thinks snacks are delicious, but snack vendors are not interested in the food they sell, and it will be boring to cook the same food every day. So this can also be used to treat the emotional problems of mistress.

Second, I am too busy with my work and don't have much energy to focus on my feelings.

Everyone's energy is limited. If you put too much energy into your work, you won't have too much energy into your feelings, so her feelings will always be vacant, and it is understandable that you are busy with your work. But in life, we should balance the relationship between work and feelings, rationally allocate limited energy and make ourselves happier.

So this mistress's office failed to solve his emotional problems in time. One reason is that he has seen through all kinds of problematic feelings and is not very interested. Another reason is that he is really busy at work and doesn't have much energy to devote to his emotional life.