It is said that it is difficult to meet people who like each other, but compared with getting along, liking is too simple. Most boys like to be brave and don't realize their naivety, while girls think too much and don't want to say anything. I wanted to hug, but I pushed each other away awkwardly; Obviously ready to stay, the words on my lips turned into "you go!" "
It is difficult for naive boys to grasp the discretion when facing the person they like. Because I care too much, I am at a loss and want to make each other happy. In the eyes of girls, it is a very hurtful provocation. He doesn't know what to do to take care of his beloved girl properly, and he doesn't have enough economic strength and mature and thoughtful methods. ?
He puts all his enthusiasm into the other person, and the other person may feel uncomfortable. Girls, on the other hand, the more she needs you to accompany her, the less she will say that she wants you to accompany her, because they want you to take the initiative to accompany her because of concern.
Nowadays, more and more girls are more inclined to choose mature and stable uncles and men when choosing spouses. It's really hard for boys of the same age to understand what girls really want. When she said "I'm fine", naive boys turned to play games, while mature men would understand her bluff and take care of her in every possible way. ?
When she said "go", the naive boy slammed the door angrily and left. The mature boy would only bully and hold her hand. Unfortunately, many girls spent the best years of their lives, and finally turned this boy into a considerate ideal image, accompanying him from ignorance to stability and openness. Finally, he learned how to take care of a woman, but not her. ?
Accompanying a boy from childish to mature, there are really too many grievances and losses to experience. However, as the saying goes, it is not easy to meet, and it is a rare fate to like each other. No one is willing to give up halfway.
Therefore, men, if they really love your girlfriend, they should think more from her point of view, say more warm words, do more warm things, and don't step on her minefield in vain;
Woman, don't habitually swallow what you want to say. If you have something sad, take it out to bask in the sun. Hiding will get moldy. In the final analysis, good communication and empathy are the only way to go hand in hand.