Speaking of this, some male compatriots may jump out and object: there are also many prodigal women. Look at those shopaholics, they have ruined all their savings; Look at those people who patronize their parents' homes. They don't want to live their own lives at all. You see, those simple-minded people who have been cheated are in the dark. ...
The above situation does exist, but from a high probability, as long as women get married and have children, most of them are frugal, careful and desperate to save money.
Three short stories tell you why your wife is the best bank in your family and you still have to rely on her to save money.
0 1.
Lao Song is my colleague and recognized as a good man. He has a flexible mind. In addition to his salary, he also does some small business from time to time to earn some sideline income. He is unpretentious, does not have to worry about philandering, and is loyal to his wife and children. He is frugal, does not smoke or drink, and eats and dresses simply.
Probably based on the above reasons, his wife was relieved and threw him the salary card and never paid attention to it again. I know I'm buried in my life.
Clothes are never willing to buy expensive ones. It is said that I took a fancy to a windbreaker of more than 300 pieces and ran back and forth twice, but I was reluctant to buy it. Seize the time and strive to have plenty of food and clothing, open up sporadic land in the corner of the community, plant some vegetables, and basically do not need to buy food to eat; The father's family pension is relatively high, and he often sends oil to his daughter's family.
The couple's marriage is really much less, and it is said that they will save a lot of money soon.
Unexpectedly, Lao Song's specialty in studying small doorways to make money not only made him successful, but also ruined him.
Five years ago, young people in the unit were in full swing in stock trading, and Lao Song also paid attention to it. He was a clever man and soon learned to swim in the sea. At first, he made some small noises. Later, I became more and more courageous and invested a lot.
Of course, we don't know how the old Song Dynasty operated. However, in recent days, shocking news suddenly broke out: Lao Song borrowed a large sum of money and lost 400 thousand to 500 thousand because of speculating in futures.
I broke out in a cold sweat when I heard this. For ordinary people, this is a huge sum of money! How can we catch up with this day?
It is said that Lao Song has been keeping secrets from his wife. Who knows that the house price plummeted at the end of the year, and Lao Song's wife was tempted to buy a house and went home to discuss: the down payment was 300,000. It is estimated that I have saved enough in recent years and strived for more loans and less loans.
In desperation, Lao Song had to say that he had lost some money and had no money at hand, but he was afraid to say that he was in debt. When my wife heard this, it was a bolt from the blue. Her blood boiled with anger and she became seriously ill. You know, there are still a lot of debts. Didn't you faint on the spot?
02.
Mr. Chen is a driver. He is neither delicious nor fastidious about clothes. He doesn't smoke or drink. In everyone's eyes, he is the kind of person who lives honestly.
Maybe my wife agrees with this and thinks it is a safe unit. She never asked him how much money he had saved.
But I don't know when, Lao Chen fell in love with buying lottery tickets. In his words, after dinner, he walked out of the house and walked involuntarily in the direction of the lottery station. As long as he has spare money in his hand, his heart itches and he wants to try his luck by buying lottery tickets. At first, it was 10, 8 yuan a day. Later, more and more money was invested, and one day 80 yuan became the norm. It's a pity that I won 50 at most in more than five years, but I lost at least 300 thousand.
I asked him, "Does my sister-in-law care? She doesn't feel bad that you threw so much money for nothing? "
Lao Chen said, "She never cares about my business. She doesn't know how my money is spent. Anyway, as long as she can't eat or put on. "
This is really a shopkeeper's wife who has no concept of money.
03.
I am the kind of person who likes to make friends. I always talk about ostentation and extravagance. This guy comes in and out every day, and he has to be entertained when he comes. A table of dishes is less than two or three hundred.
There was nothing to talk about that day, so I calculated the bill and had dinner together at least three times a week. This cost is about 3000 yuan in January.
I said, "I only earn 6 thousand a month, and half of it is gone." How should I deal with it inside and outside the family? "
He said, "What's the matter? Your sister-in-law is very capable. She doesn't want to rest for a day. She usually earns money by herself. I spent all the money I saved, and she supported the family. "
As soon as I heard this, I began to whisper, "What is this? Women work hard to earn money to support their families, and men waste money at will. " Not a man's way of living at home at all. "
Summary:
The above three men really live by my side. On the surface, there is nothing wrong with them, and they are very simple and capable, so women can safely hand over economic power to them.
As a result, they did not escape the bondage of men's nature, pride, impulsiveness, adventurous, and unpredictable. As a result, they dragged the family economy into trouble.
There are countless men like them in life. It is suggested that women, families with women in charge of family economic management, will not encounter major Waterloo events. Although they may sometimes miss the opportunity to get rich because they are too conservative, they are generally not attacked by black swans.
Men are naturally good-looking, and always lose a big shoe: who is short of those few dollars? Once you have money in your hand, eat and drink together outside, and everything you don't know is lost. Men are gambling, and when they are busy, they want to get together. Sometimes you forget that you spent real money when your mind is hot, and it won't help to regret it later.
In contrast, women haggle over every ounce, always think twice about spending money, always think twice about risky investments, or simply don't participate, so money is relatively safe.
When I look around, 80% of the women are working hard for their families, and 80% of the men beat Shui Piao with their money.
So sisters, even if your man is a good man, don't give up the family economic power easily, because only we can keep it. Women are generally more careful, so they don't take risks easily. They consider everything and weigh the pros and cons, so they are less likely to make mistakes.
Men, don't compete with honest wives for financial rights, because this is the safest bank.
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