Learn from Dong Fangbubai.
the only way out after unemployment is, of course, re-employment. What else can I do?
However, Brother Lei doesn't want to be more involved in job hunting. Instead, he wants you to think about several questions that you should think clearly in the face of unemployment: First, why did you lose your job?
There is no love and hate for no reason in the world, and there is certainly no unemployment for no reason.
As professionals, facing unemployment, although we are depressed and scared, these negative emotions can't give you any useful help. First of all, you must find out why you are unemployed.
Did you make a mistake in your work or offended the leader? Is the enterprise downsizing, layoffs and unemployment, or is the work performance backward and eliminated; Do you resign on your own initiative to find a way out, or are you wronged and resigned?
Only by finding out the reasons for your unemployment can you avoid making the same mistake again. Second, what changes do you need to make?
after knowing the cause of unemployment, the next step is to "prescribe a prescription to cure the disease".
If you are fired because of layoffs in your company, it means that your professional skills are still far behind the core positions in your company, so you must find the direction to improve your professional skills and implement it in the next company.
If you lose your job because you are not good at words, offend your leader, and get picked on by your leader, then you must understand that in the workplace, aloof and arrogant can't stand on your feet. Only by getting along with others and wearing a certain mask can you live better.
people must learn to change themselves, especially when you don't adapt to the professional environment and requirements. You need to adapt your changes to the new workplace environment.
If you want to stand still, or cling to the past, don't keep pace with the times and don't respond to changes in the workplace at all, then even if you find your next job, you may lose your job for the same reason. Third, what mentality should you have?
As I said before, when you are unemployed, you will certainly feel depressed, uneasy and uncomfortable, but such emotions alone will not help you solve the problem.
In fact, people in the workplace should establish an optimistic self-confidence in meeting and solving problems. As far as you are concerned, although you are not young at the age of 36, you will also accumulate a lot of work experience that young people in your twenties don't have.
Moreover, 36 years old, whether it is energy or physical strength, is still a dominant age for people in the workplace. Therefore, there is still room for you to change your career. It is unnecessary to let negative and decadent psychology occupy all your moods, otherwise, it will only make you more and more depressed.
having a good attitude is the secret of success in the workplace. After unemployment, we are bound to face re-employment. At this time, it is very important for you to face re-employment with what mentality. A good attitude can make you face unemployment with a positive attitude, and you can also deal with re-employment with a positive attitude.
For example, if you have a good attitude, you won't blindly pursue some jobs that you are not suitable for, and you won't go to the hospital because of the imbalance of your attitude, so you will choose some garbage units to compromise.
So, although unemployment is not a happy thing, if you have a good attitude, you won't let unemployment, a small wave in your life journey, affect your mood, your life and your life. Conclusion
If you are unemployed, try to find a new job. However, before re-employment, you should still have a good attitude to face unemployment, and find out the real reason for your unemployment and what changes you need to make.
Unemployment is not terrible, but being crushed by depression, fear and collapse after unemployment is terrible. Re-employment is not easy. It is relatively easier to find a job after thinking clearly about what you want.
Come on, 36-year-old friend! I wish you a satisfactory new job as soon as possible!
what should I do if I am unemployed at the age of 36? . 36 is really an awkward age. It is the age of old and young in the world. Every month's expenses are essential, and sudden unemployment is really worrying. So what should we do? We can solve it from the following aspects. First, if the family conditions are average, we must find a job at once. Re-employment.
everyone's family is different, so their choices are different. If the family conditions are average. Then you can only find a job at once. Re-employment. Because if you don't get a job right away. It will bring troubles to yourself and your family. Especially if you are the pillar of the family. Must be employed immediately. So as not to break the original state of life. Secondly, if the family conditions are good, then I think you can reflect on it for a while. Why you lost your job. Did you get fired from the company or quit your job yourself? So after a period of thinking, I am thinking about employment.
if family conditions permit. That really matter can be considered for some time. Why unemployment is self-initiative or enterprise's initiative. If you leave on your own initiative. Then I think you must have thought a lot. So you can find your next job according to your own ideas. If the enterprise dismisses you. Then we should reflect on it. Why the enterprise doesn't want you. What is the reason? Find out why, and then think about how you should do better in your next job. In short, unemployment is not terrible. What is terrible is that you have not found the reason for unemployment, so you will spend your time in constant unemployment. Therefore, we must find the reason, so as to constantly improve our working ability. Only in this way can you grow and improve in the workplace.
Unemployment and employment are not terrible. What is terrible is yourself. I'm afraid I won't make a lot of money and I don't want to make a little money. That's the problem, man! Life can't be smooth and smooth, with the most ups and downs. For some people, unemployment should be a new beginning, and it is likely to become strong, and some people may be defeated. When you are unemployed, take this opportunity to have a rest and consider how to go next. I really can't figure out how to go. Do not talk about what your previous unit was like, high salary and good treatment, and don't talk about how much money you earned in the previous day. The key is that you are unemployed and have no money to earn now. Calm down, there will always be opportunities. Personally, I hope my friends have a good opinion. See
36-year-old unemployed in the comment area. This is very easy to handle. There is no unemployment in today's society. You should recognize what you can do. Those who can start a business can start their own business. Those who don't want to start a business should find a new job and put down their airs. Start with a job and start all over again! There is a shortage of labor everywhere, you know?
There is a saying that when you stop, you lose. Find the right direction and goal at once, come on, and get to work.
I happen to be 36 years old this year, my birth year, and I am unemployed. What should I do? I have seriously thought about it myself. It has been almost two months since I lost my job in February. At present, I have no source of income, but I am burdened with debts. First of all, the monthly mortgage is more than 6, yuan, and the property management fees and utilities add up to 5.6 million yuan per month. In addition, the monthly social security payment is almost 1, yuan, and the monthly living expenses are at least 1,5 yuan. The above items add up to a fixed expenditure of more than 9 yuan per month, which makes it almost 11 thousand a year. Then I just paid the car insurance today, almost 3 yuan.
If you don't have a job, you have to spend almost 11 thousand yuan a year, not counting the expenses of children. If you count it up, the annual fixed expenditure will be almost 2,, and the pressure is not small. So what should I do?
when I lost my job, I thought about looking for another job, but because I was engaged in software development, I went out for several interviews, and there was no more. Mainly because of old age, many companies now want to be under 3 when recruiting software developers.
I can't keep doing things when I'm unemployed, so during this period of unemployment, I'm basically writing code. Since 215, I have switched from the traditional software industry to the financial industry, engaged in the development of domestic commodity futures quantitative trading system. After several years of precipitation, I also began to have some understanding of trading strategy, so during this period of unemployment, I realized these ideas and verified them, and now I am starting a real test. If you have been unemployed for a long time, then you plan to trade full-time.
in addition to my usual trading, I am now in partnership with a friend. He has rented an office now. We work there from 9 am to 6 pm every day, and we start a business together. We don't have any salary. Whether we make money depends on the investment income at the end of the year. At present, I am full-time, so all the money I invested will go to me when there is any income, and he will not draw any more. He has done well in the past three years. If this year is almost half of last year's income, then this income will be enough for me to spend a year. Of course, if I don't make money this year, I will be under great pressure next year, so I will try it out first.
to sum up, you have to find something to do if you are unemployed, and you can't always be so idle. As long as you work hard, even if you can't see any hope now, you may get good results in the end.
I believe everyone who has read "Middle Age on Dog Day" written by Jiang Wen feels the same way, and this article shows the helplessness of middle-aged people. Middle-aged people, children are still young, and old people are old. You are everyone's support, but only you have no support. I can only work as my own export and earn money to give the old and the young the dignity of life. Unemployed middle-aged people are particularly helpless, and their inner panic is inevitable. How can there be a smooth life? At this time, calm down and think about it: continue to work
If you want to continue to work, at this age, sum up what you have accumulated in the workplace for so many years, what you can do, and what kind of benefits you can bring to the enterprise. In plain English, the workplace is an interest field, an exchange of labor and remuneration. You should know your own value very well, try to find enterprises with good development momentum, have a platform that can give full play to your own advantages, and realize fame and fortune as soon as possible. As for finding a job, it can be recommended by headhunters, online platforms and acquaintances. Therefore, in the workplace, we should look at the big picture and try to be kind to others. When we are in trouble, someone will help us. Relatively speaking, it is easier to work. Doing your job well and contributing more value as far as possible will help you to be promoted in the workplace. Starting your own business
It is difficult to start your own business, but many people say that the end point of working is empty. Success in starting your own business is equivalent to having hematopoietic function and not being afraid of your career. Of course, starting your own business is also a narrow escape. As a newly unemployed person, if you start your own business, you should start from the field you are most familiar with, don't invest too much in entities and ignore assets. For example, with the rise of various internet plus, you must look at the trend clearly and do what you can, and you must not borrow money to start your own business, which will easily trap yourself. Give priority to the family and give consideration to financial management
If the conditions are good and they are bored with the workplace, and the current income after sleep can meet the daily expenses of the family, they can choose not to work and do what they like. After seeing many 4+ executives lose their jobs, they will learn what they are interested in.
They have no financial distress. Some study psychology, some stock market, but we should do what we can.
No matter what you do, you should see your situation clearly, suit your reality, pay attention to your health, and make a decision without regret.
Comrade, there are so many opportunities in society now. What are you afraid of if you lose your job? Let's continue to develop in a different environment!
Remember the wave of laid-off workers 2 years ago, and how many entrepreneurs have been made!
please remember:
always strive to improve yourself, so that your ability will always be greater than your income, so that you will have more choices.
From daily life, you should constantly study hard, improve yourself and come on!
There are two possibilities for being unemployed at the age of 36: one is passive unemployment, such as being laid off, optimized or dismissed; One is active unemployment, as in naked resignation.
naked resignation
I have a friend who is 37 years old and works as a software developer in the financial industry. Later, when P2P exploded, his company was implicated, and the funds were tight, and employees' salaries could not be paid at one time. On this premise, my friend naked resignation died.
After naked resignation, he actively submitted his resume and interviewed. At first, my friends were unwilling to go to a company that worked overtime seriously or asked for a business trip, and they were unwilling to consider outsourcing opportunities, and even more unwilling to go to a small company to condescend. The salary expectation is even higher than that of the last financial company.
as a result, I have been looking for a job for three months, and I haven't received an Offer. The companies he likes think that he is too old and the cost performance is too low; Some companies that are interested in hiring him can't afford the salary he expects. The salary of the financial industry itself is much higher than that of other industries.
Finally, due to the pressure of mortgage, my friend had no choice but to work in an outsourcing company far away from home to develop and operate the banking system.
So, if you are unemployed because of your own naked resignation, I suggest that you should consider several points before naked resignation: What is your career plan after naked resignation? If the plan can't keep up with the changes, do you have enough savings to support your days without income?
If you go to naked resignation without thinking it over, you have to improvise. It's good to find a good job quickly, but if you can't find it, you can only lower your standards and compromise with reality.
Being laid off, optimized, and dismissed
If you are unemployed under such circumstances, you must first learn to resume your job and think about why you are unemployed and not others. Is it because of force majeure factors, such as the company's entire team being laid off, or because its own core competitiveness is not enough to be unemployed? Finally, unemployment is not terrible. What is terrible is complaining about others and doing nothing < P > to correct your mentality. If the previous position is not easy to find a job, then consider changing careers appropriately. There is no distinction between high and low in the industry, and there should be no sense of gap.
I wish the subject can find a satisfactory job as soon as possible!