As for the opponents, most of them stand in the position of the woman. Because women are often in a weak position in marriage and love, they are more vulnerable, such as unmarried pregnancy. Therefore, some people are against cohabitation.
As a marriage lawyer, I think that if conditions permit, a trial marriage can be conducted before marriage. The behavior of cohabitation before marriage can help you recognize each other's strengths and weaknesses, such as some unbearable shortcomings, which can help you avoid a wrong marriage. Remarriage after divorce is always different from first marriage.
However, cohabitation also comes with certain risks. Many unmarried pregnancies also exist in large numbers. Therefore, since you want to be an adult, you must have adult consciousness and responsibility. Happiness in marriage is not obtained by gambling. During cohabitation, the woman should learn to protect herself. There is no absolute winner in divorce. Cohabitation between men and women was originally after marriage, but now it's the other way around, first cohabitation, then marriage, even husband and children, and then marriage.
In order to stimulate the national economy, engage in deficit finance, ease inflation, whip the fast cattle, and the interests are exhausted. In order to stimulate private consumption, we spare no effort to advocate advanced consumption, such as mortgage loans, auto loans, goods loans and forward auto futures. Therefore, spending money on food has become a fashion trend. The big environment has influenced the cheapskate. In the past, the solemn and sacred love and marriage also advanced. Young men and women are scrambling for puppy love, early marriage and early childbearing. It is common to live together in advance and get pregnant and have children. Marriage has become a dispensable form and wise after the event, which has brought a series of serious social problems.