Everyone has his place in this society. Don't tell me about potential stocks. Don't talk about your future. What we want is now. Don't exchange your futures for my spot. Everyone's class is different, their economic strength is different, and their understanding of the pattern is different. Some people think that the 30,000 bride price is too much to take out. Some people think it's okay to take out 600 thousand because they are in different classes.
It is difficult for people from different classes to understand each other, so don't fall in love with people who are much poorer than you. For example, if you earn 30 million a year, the other party can only earn 10 thousand a month. This kind of love should never be discussed. Because you are an entrepreneur, you are rich and she is poor.
After you marry her, she will manage you and communicate with you with her working-class thinking. If you contradict her, she will say that you don't love her. She wants to talk about your feelings. What you want to talk about is management, planning and planning. At this time, she is ruining your whole life with emotion, so don't associate with her.
The essence of getting along with people is transaction, because there will be interests between them, and there will be feelings when there are interests, and feelings, as a part of our material life, are also transactions, so don't believe that unconditional giving, including parenting, is essentially a transaction, and you won't do anything unfavorable to yourself, including enjoying family happiness. Even if you don't ask your children for a penny, you will enjoy the happiness of continuing your offspring.
Children call you mom and dad for life, and you will be happy. This is essentially a transaction, so don't live in illusory feelings. There are many illusory things in the emotions of adults. In our world, many illusory and wrong ideas enter our minds through TV dramas, movies and short-screen live broadcasts.
This will make us more stupid. Adults should be rational, and their world will not collapse. The same is true of falling in love. In the process of falling in love, you should weigh each other's chips and your own chips, and what you pay is what you get, instead of talking about this love in your feelings.