Cognition is a gradual process, from quantitative change to qualitative change. In this process, we always gradually know, accept, understand, apply and master the later concepts.
People's stages are not strictly divided, and they are usually in two adjacent stages (the former has not left yet, and the latter has begun to influence their behavior). The previous stage is longer, more successful and more effective, and the next stage will be more difficult, later and weaker.
So the next stage will be easier to enter and make achievements. Experienced stages will leave behavioral inertia, especially those that have lived for a long time and are relatively successful.
People are usually willing to relive that too short and too fast stage, or in some cases. Knowing the truth at a certain stage does not mean entering, but really affecting one's behavior.
1, I-my world
/kloc-be able to separate yourself from others after 0/8 months; After that, I began to rely on others to grow up, and I usually need to take care of them for many years (internationally recognized as 18, China seems to be longer). Adults will insist on relying on some real or imagined powerful affairs when resources are too scarce.
Features: Dependence on others (it takes a long time, so the behavior inertia is very strong); Because they need to be taken care of, they show awe and worship for all powerful and unknown things (including huge, high-speed, natural, dead and mysterious things, etc.). ).
Skills: Control people around you through exaggerated emotional expressions such as selling cute, complaining and splashing water, and get help and resources (exaggerated good emotional expressions are only people's preference needs in the later stage).
Ego: I am the center. World: The world is my resource, and I am the object of concern.
Slogan: Everyone for me. Happiness: the pleasure of being noticed and the feeling of gaining.
Complain: ignore me and don't take me with you.
Common activities: students, some congregations and soldiers; Try to attract people who have nothing to do with themselves (or people who don't care about themselves); Wait for him.
System: primitive tribes and families; * * * There is an economy.
2. Independent me-a world of interaction and feedback
Gradually able to be independent, but also found that being taken care of is actually the burden of others. Being independent is unwilling to be interfered, so there is usually a rebellious transition period; After independence, people usually get a sense of existence value by taking care of others.
Features: independent in psychology and behavior, usually able to have basic economic independence, not easy to help others, and sometimes unwilling to provide makeshift help, so it is necessary to sort out packaging and excuses.
Performance: earning income through work, and being able to gain a sense of accomplishment and happiness by helping others; Conformity, so as to get the theoretical support of interactive behavior. Ego: I am very independent, I refuse to be taken care of, I hate being planned and controlled, and I am willing to help others, especially those who have helped myself.
World: Everything that interacts with me.
Common activities: starting a family; Some philanthropists and teachers; Establish a self-centered group, strive to be the master and control everything related to yourself, and guide everyone who knows; Worship and maintain authority.
Slogan: I am for everyone, cultivate one's morality and govern the country.
Happiness: get happiness through communication with people and gain honor through hard work. Complain: I don't know how to care, help, pay, actively participate, appreciate, give feedback (impersonal) and get angry.
Abnormal condition: the inertia of the previous stage-gnawing at the old, hugging the thigh, exaggerating one's vulnerability and helplessness; Pay and pay again, and you can get care.
System: slaves, nobles (theocracy, civil servants); Barter trade, fixed trade route.
3, colorful and related world-I know the rules.
In the process of helping others, I find that I can't give what I need, and what I can give is of little significance, and others can give it; Lack of resources sometimes makes me feel helpless, inferior and lack of self-confidence; There are not only people who help me and need my help, but also people who have nothing to do with me. The pluralistic world has its own operating rules, and mastering and applying the rules can make me stronger.
Features: able to understand all kinds of affairs and know all kinds of relationships and operating rules; Laws are always being learned and mastered, and it is normal to constantly pursue extremes, haste and chaos.
Performance: think and discuss the relationship between the laws in the world, try to use these laws, and change the world through design and implementation; Susceptible people, easy to follow the crowd and try to influence others; Propagandize various truths in order to gain participation and recognition.
Ego: I am one of them, and I can influence the world through connection.
World: The world is a pluralistic interpretation.
Common activities: starting a business, some professionals; Join a guild and join many groups; Study hard all kinds of knowledge and actively participate in exchanges and discussions.
Slogan: Give me a fulcrum and you can tilt the earth (Archimedes); Art is not heavy; Learn mathematics and physics well, travel all over the world and be fearless; Line 360 is the best.
Happiness: Get a sense of accomplishment by participating in activities, expressing yourself and influencing others.
Complain: unreasonable, uneasy to follow the rules; If you don't work hard, there will be no progress and no learning.
Abnormal condition: the inertia of the previous stage-trying to be a hero, showing one's own strength and trying to pay.
System: monarch, * * * and constitutional monarchy; Regional trade organizations.
4, the grand world-small me
First, I feel that my ability is insufficient (anxiety), and then I find that it has nothing to do with my ability (depression), and the grandeur of the world is beyond our imagination; All walks of life have similar rules, the world runs stably, and each individual has its own characteristics independently; The world is a collection of each individual's performance under macro-operation.
Features: not easily influenced by others, and not trying to influence others; Cognition increases and emotion decreases.
Performance: I can see it clearly, but I am too lazy to see it. Speaking of where, there is no hot spot; Even if there is a firm goal, it is only to show that you will not give up (no effort at all); Many things can be done well, but they are keen to muddle along.
Self: I can only change myself.
World: a world composed of infinite individuals (i× infinity = world); In a small range, I am meaningful (a slightly larger range is meaningless).
Common activities: hermit, consultant; In order to avoid interference, we choose to give in and avoid.
Slogan: The only thing I know is my own ignorance (Socrates); To a man without ego, the God-man is useless, and the sage is nameless (Zhuangzi's Wandering).
Happiness: the grand world runs very stably, and the sense of existence is obtained by perceiving the world and the operation of individuals in it.
Complaint: Some reasons are too simple and self-righteous (mostly excuses). Don't interfere in my affairs and my life.
Abnormal condition: the inertia of the previous stage-consulting and guiding others to start a business.
System: democracy and judicial independence; Free trade.
5. The world with a long history-me in an instant
The reason for the stable operation of the world is the accumulation of time (instability once existed, which is a fading trend). If enough resources and events are accumulated, there will be a breakthrough, and the role of individuals is minimal; There is usually a stable pessimism and a gradual loss of happiness; The world has been formed for a long time (billions of years), and every industry, everything and everyone is the result of many factors in the long history.
Features: it takes time for people to do anything, either short or long, but it is essential; There are many preconditions for the achievement of anything (many factors are reserved for time, and most of them have been completed by default at present, including language communication, measurement standards, knowledge reserve, behavior coordination, environmental resources and so on. ).
Performance: Be able to analyze preconditions, calculate different people, spend time and order, and most things can be arranged fully and orderly.
Ego: for a moment, I can only do something based on the current conditions.
World: It took a long time to form the present world.
Common activities: foresee the future, prophet; Give up past efforts and choices and watch the flowers bloom and fall.
Slogan: If I see farther than others, it is because I stand on the shoulders of giants (Newton); Natural selection, survival of the fittest (Darwinian evolution).
Happiness: A bright future is not far away. Verify the predicted results and understanding of the world.
Complaint: Although you think very well, it is meaningless to have no environment or no one to do it.
Pervert: People who need fun usually choose to help others (the happiness of verifying predictions is not easy to get).
Times: the contemporary five-year plan, the information age and public opinion affect politics, law and socialism; Stock trading, futures trading.
6. The objective world-the subjective me
The grand, operable and deductive world is objective, and all I know is my discovery and my subjective view (one-sided subjective understanding); And I am just a persistent and developing consciousness in the human brain, attached to the necessary material and social conditions (my definition of subjective existence).
Consciousness is immaterial, so it is difficult to judge the objectivity and authenticity of the environment (whether it is virtual reality or not) because of the limitation of the bearing environment. Humans use language, characters and symbols to express the content of consciousness, which is especially not comprehensive and objective.
Features: seeking the essence of consciousness, analyzing the factors that affect consciousness, and studying the generation and existence of god, soul and consciousness; Gradually reduce the concern about the operation and deduction of the material world.
Performance: Nothing matters except death. Everything you have is a burden.
Self: accumulating consciousness; I can't confirm whether I live in a virtual world.
World: the material world, the brain carrying consciousness, and the environment in which we live.
Common activities: seeking immortality.
Slogan: I think therefore I am (Descartes).
Happiness: Find the need.
Complaint: That's a good idea, but I don't need it (it's none of my business).
Times: the era of artificial intelligence, the era of abundant resources (the era of demand), and the distribution of capitalism according to needs.
7, the world-my world
The form and content of matter is information, information is the expression of consciousness, the activity of information is the existence of consciousness, and consciousness eventually becomes intelligence. Some consciousness bodies include: players and records, computers and programs, brains and brain waves, people and morality, society and law, biological resources and biological evolution.
Performance: consciousness can be stored in different media and can interact directly, including a more macroscopic structure and a new way of storage and operation; Consciousness can be expressed in many ways.
Self: the expression of consciousness and the continuous accumulation of cognitive content (including the self-optimization of cognitive style).
World: carry yourself.
Activity: Seeking different ways of bearing consciousness (other matter, energy, space, etc. ).
Slogan: Time is enough, and dust can also evolve into intelligence; There are all kinds of mistakes, and only one is correct (explaining its unique meaning through different expressions).
Era: the era of super intelligence.