The most effective is everyone in the circle of friends QQ space in Weibo, these personal platforms.

Because what a person posts on these platforms, if not to show off, then she just wants to share. These points are her daily life, not too private, and can be spread out when chatting. And if you tell her your status in the circle of friends, it will let her know that you care about her.

Never be a praise expert! I sent a state to share my happiness (sadness) with you. I don't know how you will react-ah, a person replied to me. Does he share my feelings or do some extension? What kind of communication will we have? -Ha ha, just like it. Too much praise is worthless. You don't care, and neither do girls.

But girls have a wide range of interests. Which one do you want to talk about?

This can't be familiar to that girl. For example, she spent four years studying biology in the laboratory, and then you came to Balabala to talk about animals, plants and cells. It's easy to get hit in the face, making the girl think, are you here to show the lower limit of IQ?

I am interested in chatting with girls, but I don't know much. This is the best topic. She doesn't know much and is curious. So if you do a little homework, you can catch her attention with something a little deeper. Then, you will slowly expand in the girl's question, carefully and thoroughly, and finally lay the groundwork for the next conversation in the girl's adoring eyes! This charm depends on Zhihu. How many great gods have millions of fans just because they have mastered the knowledge that we are interested in but not familiar with? !

When you are chatting, you find that girls know nothing about a topic, so don't continue. There is a word called "curse of knowledge". If she doesn't understand, she won't be interested. You are not a missionary. In that case, change the subject quickly.