First: the relationship between husband and wife is not equal, and the status is not equal. Most couples naturally form a pattern after marriage, either the husband has the final say or the wife incarnates as a strict tigress to control the man's every move. No matter what, it won't end well. Because, in a long-term and stable relationship, husband and wife should at least be equal, even if you have various gaps before marriage, after marriage, these should not be the basis for dividing your grades. As long as the relationship between husband and wife is unequal, both sides will not live well. In the end, those who take the initiative will be tired, while those who enjoy too much will gradually become numb. Therefore, as long as the status is unequal and there is more love, this marriage will end sooner or later. Second: If you can't communicate with your husband and wife in time, you will become the two most familiar people in the world. But if we can't solve the problem properly and effectively, no amount of love will be stifled. There is a saying: "Communication can solve 80% conflicts between husband and wife." Therefore, when you and your husband have conflicts, it depends on whether you can go to the end. If we can find problems in time and communicate effectively, the outcome will definitely be beautiful; Knowing that there is a problem, both of them choose to escape and not solve it, which eventually leads to divorce. Third: only material things, not spiritual resonance, maintain the relationship between husband and wife. Many people think that spiritual love is too fake, and what is not material between husband and wife is nonsense. Facts have proved that in the long process of getting along, a couple only have material support for each other. In the end, two people either change their minds or are in the same boat because of a little interest. Therefore, we can find spiritual resonance, taking material matters second, so that the relationship between husband and wife will blossom and bear fruit. What are the signs of husband and wife's fate? 2 The five manifestations of husband and wife's fate are 1. Happy marriages often quarrel over money, mostly for the sake of carefree life and rich life; In marriage, there are daily necessities, soy sauce, vinegar and tea everywhere. I didn't know it until I got to know it better, but it's not like those who were poor together. If two people are already stretched out in life, their feelings will be exhausted by life, no matter how much the couple love each other. When there is no money, two people quarrel because of poor conditions; After getting rich, two people quarrel because of different consumption views; If we keep quarreling like this, even the best feelings can quarrel. 2. There is nothing to say about getting married, just find yourself a chat partner and support each other for a lifetime; If you go home, two people will ignore each other and treat each other as air; Either one wants to talk, and the other is too lazy to talk. I always feel that it is useless to talk to ta, and I can't understand it after talking to ta. There is nothing in common between two people to talk about, and that day is almost over. 3, can not sleep together, it is normal for couples to quarrel, as the saying goes, playing is a pro, swearing is love, not playing is not a pro; After a quarrel between husband and wife, a good sleep will solve the problem, but if two people can't sleep together at all, even if they lie in the same bed, they won't touch each other's minds, so the small contradiction between husband and wife will not be solved, but will be amplified. 4. Decisions are often made by one person in marriage, whether it is buying a house, buying a car or decorating, or children or the elderly. They often make their own decisions without consulting each other, and then "notify" each other, which will make the notified party feel that they have no position in the marriage and have not received enough respect. One or two quarrels may be over, but if you quarrel any longer, your heart will get cold. People who get married outside marriage are very sensitive, both men and women are the same. Women care that their husbands have the opposite sex outside, even if they just chat, women can't stand it; In the eyes of women, this is playing ambiguous, and it is too easy to "cross the border"; This is especially true for men, who are wary of their wives' friends of the opposite sex and are afraid of being put on a hat. In the case of heterosexual friends, being in love will be regarded as "jealous"; After marriage, you will feel that the other party is demanding and suspicious, and a qualitative change has taken place. What are the signs of husband and wife fate? 3 signs of husband and wife's fate 1. Few topics. If couples often have nothing in common, they usually play with each other and ignore each other. At this time, the feelings between husband and wife will gradually fade. In addition to talking about children, two people can hardly find other topics, and they often ignore each other in their lives. Although living under the same roof, the relationship between husband and wife has already broken down. 2. Constantly quarreling In daily life, some couples get along with each other until the end, except quarreling. If couples quarrel during their love, they are likely to become more and more emotional, but after a long time, frequent quarrels may break up feelings. When two people are together, they always find fault with each other. This state of getting along is very uncomfortable. There will be cracks between husband and wife at this time. 3. Long-term separation during love, two people will always be inseparable, often attending some social activities, showing a sweet atmosphere in front of outsiders. But now there is a state of long-term separation, and the two rarely participate in social activities together. After separation, both of them are comfortable and won't miss each other. This also shows that the feelings between husband and wife have faded, and neither of them attaches importance to the other. 4. Long-term Cold War In couples' families, many couples are unwilling to bow their heads after quarreling, which leads to the cold war. This is actually a very wrong practice, which is the biggest factor affecting the relationship between husband and wife. If the husband and wife are in a state of cold war for a long time, then this home is like a hotel, sleeping when they come and leaving when they wake up. In this case, the contradiction will get deeper and deeper, which will eventually lead to divorce. 5, do not care about each other in some husband and wife families, although the two are nominally husband and wife, but did not fulfill the obligations of husband and wife. For example, they don't care about each other, and no matter what happens to each other, they won't show any concern. In this case, it seems that the relationship between the two people is already a stranger, and finally they will only divorce.