Karl witte, the father of early education, once said that a wife should have a healthy body, a kind heart and good conduct. His wife is an excellent mother in health and personality, so that she can work with him to cultivate young calvert into a genius.
Coincidentally, an old saying in China said that marrying a wife and marrying a virtue also greatly affirmed the importance of a wife's good moral character. If a wife has a good moral character and high quality, she can live in harmony even if she was born in an imperial family. For example, Yin Lihua, the wife of Liu Xiu, Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty, is generous and elegant. She insisted that she would not be made a queen, and she was kind to the abandoned Queen Guo family. She was virtuous and knowledgeable. She followed Guangwudi all her life, and promoted Mingde Ma Huanghou, the "immortal queen", to a later position, which had a far-reaching influence on the later regime. A wife with good quality silently nourishes the family and exudes joy and peace.
And a wife with poor quality is tantamount to a disaster, which does a lot of harm. The higher the status, the greater the harm. Lv Hou, Emperor Gaozu of Han Dynasty, succeeded in killing the Prince and turned his favorite concubine, Lady Qi, into a "madam", which was despised by later generations. After his son ascended the throne, he was deeply ashamed and died of depression. The experience of predecessors, the quality of teachers and wives of future generations determine the height of our family, which still has warning significance. Young people who are about to enter marriageable age should keep their eyes open and choose a wife who is physically and mentally healthy, kind and amiable, and runs a beautiful family together.
After graduating from college, my classmates entered a state-owned enterprise, and they have a house and a car to run a well-off life in Jingzhou, a fourth-tier town. As an old foreigner, he hurried to the hospital and found an unemployed man as his lover. Wei not only frequented high-end bars and clubs, but also asked for gifts in the name of celebrating his grandmother's birthday, which cost tens of thousands of yuan in a few months.
After marriage, their children were brought up by their mother-in-law, and she arranged for her son to live with her family. Living expenses are all supported by Ming alone. Wei even went to the poker table within a month, and the well-off family was struggling. Under pressure, Ming fell in love with futures speculation, got into debt step by step, sold his house and became insolvent. Finally, his marriage broke down, and he sent his daughter back to his hometown and ran away by himself. Marriage is immoral. He entered the future and even got his daughter into trouble. His mother cried all day.
Colleague cousin Liang's parents divorced and his father remarried. Fortunately, each of them left a suite for him to follow his cousin to sell. He is hardworking, earning ten thousand yuan a month and living a carefree life. After marriage, the quality of life plummeted. Because his wife either plays mahjong or goes to a bar, he comes home alone in a lonely room every day. Gradually, he also went to the mahjong room to play cards. Ten bets and nine losses, he filled two houses and didn't fill the big hole in the gambling debt. His wife saw that he was heavily in debt and didn't say anything about the divorce. Now he is alone and financially strapped.
Behind every successful family, there stands a woman who silently dedicates herself. A good wife can save her life even in an industry like entertainment.
In the global financial crisis in 2008 and 2009, Kelly's business was hit abroad, and she experienced bad dramas such as friends turning against each other and cronies betraying. Faced with this pressure, he began to take sleeping pills to relieve his headache, and fell into a coma the day his wife Tamia Liu gave birth. Tamia Liu didn't abandon or give up, and accompanied her lover through the difficulties. Make a comeback. She is better off on earth than with you. Nowadays, the young couple's family business is thriving, and it is also a beautiful scenery.