They will slowly influence your judgment, quietly erode your thoughts when you are unprepared, slowly nibble away your valuable things, and finally completely subvert you into a basket case.
But because these cognitive gaps are invisible, it is equivalent to killing people first.
You won't feel anything wrong until it's completely abolished.
Waste people invisibly.
This is the most creepy.
The next five points I want to talk about, step by step, will gradually and completely abolish a person.
If you calm down and spend ten minutes reading this answer, maybe words will pierce the darkness you didn't realize and help you save yourself before you fall.
1, subverting judgment.
Of all the ways to abolish a person in this world, I have heard that the darkest, most insidious and most horrible thing is not to attack a person's body or crush a person's spirit, but to kill a person.
Enlarge a person's advantages infinitely, even all the shortcomings can be said to be advantages, and repeat them to her constantly, so that everyone she can contact can repeat them to her, and she will lose her judgment.
Don't find it difficult to reverse black and white.
Think about it carefully, who told you everything you know at present, such as body shape, skin color, height, fatness, beauty and ugliness, and people around you told you. If everyone you can contact, including the network environment, points to the sky and tells you that it is green, it won't be long before you change your perception of green.
Over time, your ideas will be deeply solidified. When someone tells you that it's You Lan, you will immediately refute him and even think that he is up to something.
So when someone praises you all the time, you should calm down and think, have you drifted away?
The once "misty" is actually this operation. Through various false stories or special cases, it constantly exaggerates the advantages of women and subverts women's thinking, leading many girls to take it for granted that men should earn money to support their families and women should be beautiful. Pua, which is popular now, is perfectly used. It instantly takes a girl with no advantage to a high level, caters to her in various ways, makes her feel that she is the center of the universe, makes her feel that men are like this, teaches her to be arrogant and rude, and then leaves immediately after going to bed. This woman has a high probability of becoming a leftover woman.
-because she feels that the whole world is not worthy of her.
Come on, give me a compliment and kill me. )
2. Low-level stability.
I know many people envy the stable income of civil servants and employees of state-owned enterprises, but I want to tell you that stability itself is not terrible. The terrible thing is that a person is immersed in low-level stability, does not make progress, does not struggle, eats and waits for death.
This kind of stability is actually just a kind of stability lying flat. Just like the subsistence allowance, it seems to be a guaranteed project that one can rely on, but in fact, this guaranteed project will slowly kill one's fighting spirit and ambition.
For example, the doorman pays 2,000 yuan a month, and the security guard pays 3,000 yuan a month. If a mentally sound young man comes into contact with these low-level jobs, your requirements will gradually degrade, and you will lose the motivation to move forward.
That's what people do. If you keep walking, you will gradually forget that you can run. Even if you want to run one day, you can't run fast.
Even more frightening, it will simplify your thinking and solve the current problem by waiting for time. For example, if you need 10000 now, you will think that my monthly salary is 3000, so I will save 2000 every month and wait for 5 months, which is enough.
It seems that another possibility doesn't appear in your mind at all-that is, find other ways to make money and get this 6.5438+million yuan through other channels.
Your time has passed in such a simple way of thinking. You don't want to touch new things and learn new skills. You'd rather wear security clothes here at a young age.
3. Self-moving efforts.
You must have met many such people when you were a student. They go out early and come back late every day, light a lamp and burn oil. They always drink coffee and stay up late reading, but their grades are average, and even passing the exam is a problem.
After you work, you must have met the same employees. They often work overtime until late at night. They seem to be too busy to talk every day, but in the end they behave badly and their work is always in a mess.
Is it because their IQ is too low?
No, in fact, many people attribute failure to IQ, which is a sad thing in itself. Because judging from the IQ gap of most people, this is not a problem at all.
The most terrible thing in this world is not that a person doesn't work hard enough, but that a person conceals himself through inefficient efforts.
Mental work is intangible, unobvious and can't be quantified.
Manual labor is easy to be quantified. How many hours you studied, how many pages you read and how much time you stayed up late can be compared, so more people will use time and quantity to express their efforts.
But unfortunately, ignorant diligence and blind efforts are the most frustrating. It will not only waste your time, but also destroy a person's self-confidence.
It will make you feel stupid subconsciously, and you are not as efficient as others in doing anything, so you are less and less willing to think and do things with enthusiasm, and finally become a person who looks stupid but works hard.
4. Quick money beyond the scope of cognition.
Many people's dream is to get rich, and it is best to wake up with hundreds of millions.
Of course, there won't be such a big fortune in life, but there will be some situations where you can get a relatively large sum of money in a short time. This is "quick money", such as stock trading, futures speculation and playing bitcoin.
Can young people make money by playing with these things? To tell the truth, some people can really earn it, because there are always people who are lucky.
From tens of thousands to hundreds of thousands or even millions, this kind of money comes quickly and may earn tens of thousands a day.
Of course, making money is not terrible. What is terrible is that a person suddenly gains a small unexpected wealth, a sum of money beyond his cognitive range. This kind of money is the most prone to problems.
It is not a huge sum that can be spent for a lifetime, but it can easily subvert your values.
You can think about it. For most people who work to earn money, a month's work can earn thousands or 10 thousand to 20 thousand, but this kind of quick money can earn you several months' labor income a day. This kind of quick money will give you the illusion of super success, and you will feel that you can always make this kind of quick money.
Most people will soon lose all their money in this situation.
This is not terrible. The big deal is to return all the money you earned. What is terrible is that this person's cognition has been subverted.
He no longer wants to earn money through labor, nor does he want to learn any skills and abilities. He thinks that everyone is pushed low, and the awesome person is a million opportunities. This is completely mired in a person.
There are also girls. When they are young, they may make tens of thousands of dollars overnight by using their figure, appearance and a little open concept, but this bargaining power of gender macro is extremely limited and will soon be used up.
By that time, you will have nothing but the ability to spend money.
5, the most lethal impetuous.
When young people do things, the word impetuous is the most likely to fail.
It is especially easy to go online, watch others sell milk tea to make money, and immediately want to go to a store to make milk tea; Two days later, I heard that my classmates had done self-media, and immediately reported to the course to learn from the media; It didn't take me long to learn, and I feel that stock trading is very good. ......
What you do is three minutes of heat, and one thing that comes to mind is poor execution and even worse endurance. Unwilling to work hard for a long time, I always want to see the results in one minute.
I want six ABS as soon as I exercise. Look in the mirror.
I've lost a day, and I want to weigh it right away. If it's not light, I'll pee and stand up and try.
After reading two pages of books, I feel that I have a poem book in my stomach. I take pictures and send a few words that I think are very elegant.