Defeating others is an ability; Conquering yourself is a kind of wisdom.
When people reach middle age, they have experienced various struggles and seen ups and downs. Only then can I understand that the biggest enemy in life is myself; The most important thing in life is to manage yourself.
Manage daily words and deeds; Practice smiling at ordinary times; Be clear about your intentions. Manage yourself well and life will be smooth sailing.
? First, run a rich mouth.
Chapter 56 of Tao Te Ching says, "The knower doesn't speak, but the speaker doesn't know."
A wise man knows the Tao, understands impermanence and is in awe, so he doesn't complain about others. And fools are biased, opinionated and lucky, so they complain about others.
A person's mouth is the gateway to wealth.
Always like to complain, there will be lingering resentment, will block the way of wealth, will attract bad things of the same frequency, and bring misfortune to yourself.
In the Qing Dynasty, there was a man named Li Da who lived by farming and selling vegetables.
His wife always sighs. When eating, she complained that her family was poor and her food was poor.
It is too difficult to dislike the wind and the sun when farming.
When selling vegetables, they complain that business is difficult and customers are picky.
And everyone said, "My life is really too bitter. Husband has no ability, and his son is disobedient. "
Sure enough, their food can't be sold and their life is very poor.
Later, my son became a county magistrate, and like his mother, he liked to blame others. His subordinates couldn't stand his humiliation and killed him in a rage.
There is an old saying: "A word is a lifelong blessing."
Language has its own energy magnetic field, just like a magnet. Everything you say will eventually be attracted back and become a reality.
Positive language will bring wealth and good luck; Negative language can lead to disaster and bad luck.
Therefore, it is a person's greatest wisdom to manage his own speech and speak kindly and gently.
? Second, cultivate a blessed face.
Chapter 21 of the Tao Te Ching says: "Comte's tolerance only follows the Tao."
Saints keep the Tao, have good conduct and good thoughts. So, you look kind and bring your own blessings.
A person's face is his heart.
If you are kind-hearted, your face will be kind, and bright and beautiful things will come near.
When the heart changes, the face changes, and the fate is different.
Once upon a time, there was a woman whose husband died for many years, and her son who lived alone accidentally fell into the water and died.
Heartbroken, she met a Taoist priest on the road and told her misfortune.
The Taoist sighed and said, "You look pale. You are born with a hard life and a short life. I can only live to be in my fifties. "
After listening, she is ready to end her life.
On the way, I met a little beggar. He was helpless. She felt pity, so she took it home to take care of it for him to study.
When the Taoist priest looked at the woman again, he was frightened and said, "Your face has changed completely. It seems that you have done a good thing. " .
Finally, the little beggar became a big official and was extremely filial to her. The woman lived to be in her nineties and died.
Heaven is impermanent and only good for people.
Life is a mirror. Everything you do to others will eventually give back to yourself.
Lincoln once said that a person's appearance is determined by his parents when he is young, but after middle age, his appearance is determined by himself. ?
Everything outside is a manifestation of the heart. A clean face and a pleasant face are a person's highest achievement.
? Third, cultivate a contented heart.
Chapter 33 of the Tao Te Ching says, "He who is content is rich."
A person who knows how to be content, knows how to stop, and is really rich.
Heaven and earth live forever, and everything is endless. And life is alive, a hundred years. We can't have everything, but we can make use of them.
Always be grateful for the gift of heaven and earth, in order to maintain a peaceful mind and have a happy life.
When writer Zhou started writing, he lived in a basement in Beijing, which was wet and dark.
Once, a friend came to see him and said, "How can you stand such a bad environment?"
He said: "I just want to thank God for giving me such an environment. First, it is clean and comfortable, undisturbed and convenient for writing; Second, there is plenty of time and time to think. Third, be well fed and healthy. This is the greatest blessing. "
I think so, too. The happiest thing in life is nothing in my heart, nothing in my meal and nothing in my body.
If you are satisfied, there will be beautiful scenery here, and this is heaven.
There is a saying in The Thought of Poverty: "If you are content, even poverty can be called wealth; If you have money and want more, it is called poverty. "
True affluence is a state of mind of being satisfied and living in the present.
Inner peace and satisfaction with Zhi Zhi are a person's precious wealth.
Mr. Jiang Yang said, "Although a man is small and his life is short, he can learn, cultivate and improve. The value of people lies in themselves. "
Life is a game, constantly improve your own practice.
During this period, we should constantly improve ourselves and manage ourselves, so as to improve ourselves and change our destiny.
Manage your own virtue, stop complaining and praising others, and wealth will come;
Take care of your face, have good thoughts and be kind to others, and your blessings will appear;
Manage your own state of mind, be contented and always be grateful, and life will naturally be smooth sailing.
For the rest of my life, I hope you and I will continue to practice, be peaceful and calm, and everything will go well.