In reality, there is such a couple. They have been married for 74 years, but they have really been together for less than two years. Although there is a birthright of husband and wife, they always get together less and leave more. The couple are nan huaijin and Wang Cuifeng.
The road to the final counterattack
Nan was born in a village in Wenzhou, Zhejiang. Nan Lao's family is well-off, and his parents sent him to a private school. Nan Lao seemed uninterested in learning when he was young, so 13 came last in the primary school graduation exam.
When his father learned the news, he scolded him angrily. Out of desperation, his father asked him to learn wood carving or go to the store as an apprentice, but he resolutely refused.
Nan Lao said that he wanted to study again, so his father agreed to his request and supported his decision very much. In order to make his son learn better, the father invited a knowledgeable teacher to tutor at home.
1935, under the arrangement of her parents, Nan married someone three years older than herself. Nan is not the prince charming in his heart, but the prince charming in his heart is perfect, mature and steady, and Nan just avoided these advantages at that time.
However, parents' orders and matchmakers' words. Wang Cuifeng dared not complain about his family's decision, so he had to listen to the arrangement. Shortly after marriage, Wang Cuifeng became pregnant, and this sweet life didn't last long. In order to develop his own career, Nan went to Zhejiang Wushu Museum to practice martial arts alone, and obtained the qualification of martial arts coach.
Shortly after the war broke out, 20-year-old Nan was admitted to the political research class of the Central Military Academy. After graduation, he joined the officers' education team of the People's Central Military Academy. During this period, Nan met his teacher, and they shared the same hobbies and topics.
Later, Yuan Huanxian established Buddhism, followed by Nan, who became his disciple. From then on, nan huaijin often practiced behind closed doors. After the founding of New China, Nan went to Taiwan alone and was hired as a lecturer by Chinese Culture University and Fu Jen Catholic University.
Days of wine and roses
In order to realize his ambition and ideal, Nan had to study abroad frequently and had little time to stay at home. Shortly after Wang Cuifeng and nan huaijin got married, nan huaijin left his hometown. Although Wang Cuifeng was very sad, he had to support her husband's decision.
Wang Cuifeng hasn't read a book for several years, and he doesn't know many words, but Wang Cuifeng is good at housekeeping. When Nan Huai Jin is not at home, she keeps everything in order and takes good care of her children and Nan Huai Jin's brothers and sisters.
In order to let Nan 'anxin pursue her dreams outside, Wang Cuifeng propped up the whole family with her thin shoulders. Wang Cuifeng is a filial person.
For in-laws, Wang Cuifeng made thoughtful arrangements for food, clothing, housing and transportation. Therefore, my in-laws are also very satisfied with Wang Cuifeng. Wang Cuifeng is also very enthusiastic about her neighbors. When some old people whose children are not in front of her need help, she always rushes to the front to help others.
Wang Cuifeng, who is brave, capable and sensible, has won unanimous praise from his family and neighbors. But her married life is not satisfactory.
It is said that it is difficult to balance career and family. This sentence can best be reflected in Nan. In order to realize his ambition, nan huaijin had to travel a lot, and naturally he seldom reunited with his family. Sometimes he has to leave home again after a few days.
Many things happen. After graduation, Nan was able to take her parents, wife and children to live in Taiwan Province, but her elderly parents were unwilling to leave their hometown. If Wang Cuifeng takes his children and nan huaijin to Taiwan Province province, they will be left unattended.
Kind Wang Cuifeng gave up the opportunity to reunite with her husband and chose to stay in the countryside to take care of her in-laws. Nan huaijin and his wife have been married for 74 years, but they have actually been together for less than 2 years.
Meet again
In order to make South Africa develop better, Wang Cuifeng took care of everything at home, especially in those turbulent times, and was often taken out to work. The meager income earned by working in South China supports the life of a young family.
Wang Cuifeng is so virtuous, but nan huaijin doesn't know how to cherish him. As far away as Taiwan Province Province, he has already made a name for himself. Facing the temptation of flowers and applause, nan huaijin forgot his family? Bad wife? I have my own family in Hong Kong.
104 February 14, Nan's mother died on New Year's Eve at the age of 100. Because the communication at that time was not as developed as it is now, in order to let nan huaijin know the news of his mother's death, Wang Cuifeng contacted many talents, but he still missed the funeral.
At this moment, nan huaijin remembered the woman who had been waiting for him in her hometown for decades, breaking all the grievances and swallowing them.
In order to make up for his sins, Nan sent his 70-year-old to Taiwan Province. After arriving in Taiwan Province Province, Nan's apprentice took his Jenny who had just arrived in Taiwan Province Province to go shopping to buy new clothes. Although Wang Cuifeng is happy on the surface, she is very uncomfortable in her heart. She knows that she and her husband are already people in two different worlds, and the long separation has caused the distance between them.
Besides, he was used to life in the countryside, so Wang Cuifeng decided to go home and live alone.
During the two weeks together, Wang Cuifeng was miserable. She doesn't know how to get along with this familiar and strange man. Finally, Wang Cuifeng decided to leave Hongkong and live alone in her hometown.
Don't forget the friendship between the poor and the lowly, and the wife of the dross will never leave the court? . Don't forget your friends when you are rich, and don't abandon your wife when you are poor. Although nan huaijin has made great achievements, she is not a good husband for nan huaijin.
Wang Cuifeng mourned for Nan Huai Jin and supported the whole family. It can be said that without it, there would be no achievements of Nan. So we must be grateful to the people around us who have been quietly paying for us.