I can see that you have a strong opinion.
Don't try to change your father with your will. Because your father is obviously smarter than you. Don't pin your hopes on a psychiatrist. A man like your father is very clever, which is beyond the competence of a psychiatrist. Besides, there are no outstanding psychologists in China. It is impossible for your father to accept and realize the influence of his extreme on his family in a short time. He must be comforting himself, for the sake of this family.
We should see the essence of the event, not the event itself.
This event is continuous and cannot be stopped in a short time. Its development will be polarized, maybe your father won, maybe your father lost; Of course, he may win or lose, but his funds are obviously insufficient. This is a great loss.
If we want to curb the development of the situation, we must stop at the root of the problem. Courage, not your father, but your mother.
Only when he is not provided with cash flow, the day when the fund is zero is the day when he is not in front of the computer, because he is looking for funds.
However, your mother should not be able to stop him from getting the money. So I suggest that your mother, since she can't stop, must transfer the funds. Guarantee children's study and life with limited funds. You can buy education insurance and education savings.
To be continued, something has come up.
I have an example of a friend around me.
Men also have companies, which should be similar to your father's. Such a clever man doesn't know why he is stupid. Abandon his wife and children, empty the whole company, and go to Beihai to get funds to operate. It is useless for friends and family to persuade him. Sometimes, ordinary people think it's a scam, but smart people have smart people's weaknesses, and they get stuck when they fall.
This man's woman, with my help, has changed her personality and is no longer complacent. She achieved everything that could be achieved and broke with men in form. Men can't get a penny, so far they don't think about repentance and wander in the North Sea. The woman came to thank me and said that if she hadn't listened to me, her two sons wouldn't have finished their studies. Now the sons are married. I met that man not long ago. Not only does he not hate me, on the contrary, he is very grateful to me. He told me that if it weren't for me, his children would be unimaginable. He is ashamed of his family and is trying to do some business.
I have absolutely no intention of breaking up this family. I just want people to be safe and happy.
Please remember, don't believe the gambler's oath, and don't be soft-hearted for a while. Sometimes, to save lives, you have to kill people. You need to make a choice.
No matter where, hometown, or where, refuse money exchanges. He said that he earned the money. Ignore him. If there is domestic violence, please ask the police to intervene. Don't be imprisoned by morality. If he wants to take the money, you have two choices. Give him some and tell him it's the last time.
Or, resolutely uncompromising, but he will take the litigation route. That is a route that tortures people, and it is also a route that a person wants to tear the moral bottom line regardless of dignity. He will be very cautious.
Even if it is really sued, it is still a marathon. You don't have to worry about it.
Actually, Lori said a lot and couldn't help you. For reference only.
To sum up, break up with him and never talk to him about money again. This is to save him and his family.
Have a nice day.