When I came to a new environment, I constantly adjusted my pace of life, began to accept new things, and was eager to explore all possibilities.
sometimes I have to say that the environment is so magical. When you soak in warm water for a long time and then come out to see the outside world, it's really a feeling of seeing each other for a long time.
October keywords: pause.
pause is blank. During the short stay of nearly a month, there were no achievements, but it was this "inaction" that made me feel the truth of life.
Life needs to be left blank. If you are tired, you can temporarily abandon those "hot pillow" and not be kidnapped by anxiety and cash. Perhaps you can get along with yourself more peacefully.
pause is the beginning. Pause always has a kind of courage to return to zero, and then set foot on a new journey after emptying yourself. I am full of curiosity and expectation for everything, and even my belief in doing things is stronger.
pause is the future. After the pause, I will always start a new journey. In the encounter with new scenery, I can always see many things that I couldn't see before, and I can constantly improve my ideological level in the collision. This is a good phenomenon, which also shows that the future can be expected.
1. Society &; Work
1. I started my third job in late October, and I assigned jobs and moved into a new office.
2. I entered the unit that matched my major, experienced the working hours from nine to five for the first time, and began to understand the "truth" of the industry that I didn't know before, and also made a clearer direction for the future.
3. It's a special experience to stand guard for a day and a half in civilization.
4. Go to Yueyang for a wedding banquet with me, and go back to the old place of science and technology to revisit.
5. The fear of being opened by a stranger with a key at night, it is still too young for a person to let him go so foolishly.
second, individuals & Grow up
1. Read two books: The Moon and Sixpence and The Biography of Su Dongpo.
2. The diary punched in for 31 consecutive days, and began to return to the original heart and find its own recording rhythm.
3. Today, 5 headlines were published, and 1 headline was won; There are several micro-headlines and 4 explosions; 25 questions and answers; Pink up 5+.
4. Complete the course of realizing reading and record your notes in your impression notes.
5. Extract golden sentences.
third, health & Physical fitness
1. Take a walk after dinner. It turns out that walking is the most suitable exercise for you.
Fourth, family & Life
1. Accompany grandparents to their hometown and take photos for them.
I cherish my time with the elderly more and more, and I will not hesitate to praise them. Even when I am unhappy, I will hold my temper and try not to rush them.
2. My family are quite satisfied with my new job. Sometimes I feel tired and helpless when I have to take care of my family's needs in my daily busyness, but isn't life just about working and complaining about progress? Think about what your family has done for you, and you have to grit your teeth and move on.
3. Every once in a while, I will have a new feeling about the relationship with my obesity. Maybe I'm too demanding, but I ignore the most unusual beauty around me. I focus on him blindly, but it binds him more and more and separates him too far from myself.
Are some "intolerances" bound by family of origin or caused by his own secular ideas? Why did they come to him, and all of them became rules and regulations? If he is destined to be hard to change, why should this gap be firmly between us and insurmountable?
if you take a step back, there will really be different scenery.
5. Mind &; Spirit
1. Five movies: operation mekong, Passing Through Your World, Return of the Great Sage of Journey to the West, Fatal Woman and Better Days;
2. Watch variety shows: Daughters in Love, Actors in Place, Dear Inn and Happy Trio.
3. Make peace with yourself constantly. Because of comparison and obsession, you always "don't know if you are blessed". Eagerness and impetuousness can never solve any problems. Why not enjoy the present and every unusual little day?
Some thoughts on October
October is a month of suspension and emptying, with little input and little output of valuable words. Compared with the industrious people who are single-handed, this state is simply too guilty.
but do you have to read, write or exercise every day to be positive?
Just because WeChat official account, friends circle and community are in this state of progress, should we follow closely and make ourselves into this kind of life rhythm?
Of course, it's not to deny or oppose this rhythm, but the premise must be that you are happy and enjoy yourself.
Now, watching the "diligence" flying around in the circle and community has gradually become less anxious than at first, because after experiencing a period of curiosity-anxiety-endeavor-depression, you will begin to reflect on what kind of rhythm you are suitable for.
As far as I am concerned, I don't want to tie myself too tightly, and I don't have the heart to follow anything blindly. I just want to do something I am willing to do in a "Buddha-like" state. This "willingness" can bear hardships and give up.
I walked around for a year, and finally I ushered in my corresponding job. The pace of work and job harvest are all the States I have long expected. There is no guarantee how long this satisfaction will last, but every job will not give you free classes.
The normal state of work is to constantly seek interest in repetition. No matter which major or position, it will be great happiness if you can turn what you like into work and bring considerable income. If you can't, then do your own job well and seek new fun outside of work.
only by comparing the three jobs you have experienced in one year can you really feel how important it is in the right environment.
The tooling symbolizing professional honor will tell you that everything you say and do should be worthy of a uniform.
The predecessors who have experienced it personally will tell you which minefields not to step on and which pits to avoid, so as to make yourself more clear about the future direction.
a relatively pure working environment will tell you that when everyone just does his own thing and doesn't cross the line, the work will become much purer.
if you have such an opportunity, you should make good use of it, and you don't have to expect to rise to another higher state in a short time. Anyway, it's still a long time, so why rush to the finish line?
year after year's longing has been soaked in "casualness" again and again. Can you devote yourself wholeheartedly once? How about clearing your name once? How about giving yourself a chance to turn around against the wind?
Next year, it will take more than two months to go all out to set everything back to zero!
change is a rare thing.
it takes all your strength to change yourself, not to mention changing people who have different growth environments.
besides, what you want to change must be suitable for others? Must be right? In the final analysis, it's just to satisfy the so-called vanity.
what a courageous thing it is to live your life.
it may not be aimed at the expectations of others, and it may not be hindered by the prejudice of others.
It seems that all the problems can be attributed to the problem of "I can't", so when the external environment cannot be changed, try to control this "self" factor first.
October, full of twists and turns and pauses, seems to have slipped by so quickly before it can be felt and recorded.
The last two months of 219 are the stage of starting a new pace of life and work. Get used to it as soon as possible, define your own direction and goals, and strive to hand in a satisfactory answer sheet for 219.