When you have experienced love and being loved and learned to love, you will know what you need.
Only in this way can you find the person who suits you best and can get along with you for a lifetime.
But sadly, in real life,
People who really love each other may not be together for various reasons;
Your favorite often won't choose you;
What loves you most is often not what you love most;
And the longest is not your favorite, nor is it your favorite.
Just the one who showed up at the right time,
Really will accompany you forever!
No one wants to change his mind on purpose. He really loves you when he loves you.
But when he doesn't love you, he really doesn't love you
He can't pretend not to love you when he loves you;
Similarly, he can't pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.
When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you,
You have to ask yourself if you still love him or her.
If you don't love him or her, don't refuse to leave for poor self-esteem;
If you still love him (her), you should wish him (her) a happy life.
I hope he (she) is with the person he really loves, and never stop him.
If you stop him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you don't love him (her) anymore.
If you don't love him (her), who are you to accuse him (her) of changing his mind?
Love is not possession! ! !
You like stars, you can't take them off and put them in the washbasin.
But the light from the stars can still shine into your room.
In other words, if you love someone, you can have it in another way.
Let love be an eternal memory in life,
If you really love a person, you should love him for what he really is-love his goodness and love his badness;
Like his strengths and weaknesses,
You must not want him to become what you want just because you love him.
In case you don't love him.
You can't say why you really love someone.
You only know that you want this person to accompany you whenever and wherever you are in a good mood.
True love is that two people can stay together in the most difficult time, but there is no requirement at all.
After all, feelings must be paid, not just wanted;
Separation is an inevitable test,
If your relationship is not strong enough, you have to give up.
True love does not turn into resentment.
When two people fall in love,
I like to ask each other to swear and make promises. Why do you curse?
Because we don't trust each other, we don't trust lovers at all,
And these vows of eternal love are unrealistic.
Nothing can change my love for you!
Know that the sea will not dry up, the stone will not rot, the land will not be old, and the sky will not be barren;
Even if I knew, I wouldn't live to that time.
When making a promise, be careful not to make a promise that can be achieved.
Why don't you promise what you can't do,
It doesn't matter if you can't do it anyway.
Please remember: "Impossible promises are the most touching."
In love, you say one thing and do another;
The speaker does not believe, and the listener does not believe. ...
Who did you meet in the vast sea of people? Who met you again?
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Question 2: A person always sends out trivial things. What made him post things in his life online? He hopes to get attention and recognition from others, that is, he hopes to communicate.
Question 3: What happens when a person doesn't want to share his trivial life with you? I don't know! Maybe she doesn't want to give you pressure and trouble! Everyone has a different family! Different ideas! Just think less! Do too much but no one cherishes it! Even if it hurts, you should bear it for yourself and give each other time! Remember not to be impulsive! Remember! No matter how much love! Calm down!
Question 4: Why do people always worry about trivial things? The effective way to get rid of troubles is to overcome emotions with reason. When you encounter anything, you must first think calmly. What are the chances of what you are worried about happening? In your countless worrying experiences, how many times have your worries come true? In fact, some troubles are often lack of calm thinking. As long as you calm down, you will find that many troubles are unnecessary and completely unnecessary.
It is not advisable to worry about the impossible. Similarly, it is irrational to be upset about distant things. Because this will not only consume a lot of your time and precious energy, but also be meaningless to solve the problem. These problems will not disappear because of your anxiety.
When you are depressed, worried or even depressed about something really worth it, you can try to do something else to divert your attention. For example, playing ball, running, traveling and enjoying flowers. In short, we must enrich ourselves. When you have time to be busy, you have no time to worry and think about idle thoughts.
In addition, people who are in trouble usually become sensitive and suspicious, and their nerves are in a state of high tension, which will affect their normal life and work in the long run. Generally speaking, you can try to do some relaxing exercises, listen to some soothing light music, or go for a walk, sing songs, relax and adjust your mind. Let nature take its course and do whatever you want. Think about it, if what you worry about is beyond your control, then any worry is wasteful and unnecessary, and what should happen will always happen and will not be changed at all because of your will. If what you are worried about is under your control, then you just need to do what you can.
Introduce a way to get rid of troubles.
Cultivate brainless
What is brainless?
No mind, simply put, is a state of no trouble in my heart.
No matter what, no matter what, no matter what troubles, "no life", "no heart" and "no heart" represent real power, because it has no motivation for me or people, but transcends people and my reality.
For those who do nothing, their hearts are "empty", so they can be tolerant with a big belly, not eccentric and not demanding. Buddha said: "Trouble is born of persistence, and fear is born of persistence; Where there is no persistence, there is no fear. "
The antonym of negligence is "the state that love is enough to hurt." If you love a loved one, you may always protect it for fear of being taken away by an careless person. Such a cautious and fearful mood often confuses oneself and puts pressure on others.
Not being persistent doesn't mean not loving each other, on the contrary, it gives each other a vast sky, enough to swim in the sea and fish; Persistence has become a kind of restriction, which binds each other tightly, causing pain to oneself and distress to others.
The cultivation of mindlessness is used to break "persistence", but in daily life, this requirement is actually very difficult and administrative. In the final analysis, persistence comes from desire, desire comes from bitter and happy feelings, and bitter and happy feelings come from the touch of root dust.
The biggest purpose of practicing mindlessness is to get rid of "the domination of emotions and let love, hate and hate not accumulate in the heart."
There are seven problems that can cultivate brainlessness:
Q: Is it meaningful to be so sad?
The second question: Is complaining effective?
Three questions: Is fear useful?
Four questions: What do you want to do to make money?
Five questions: Can electricity satisfy life?
Six questions: Do you want to occupy the whole world?
Seven questions: Does gnashing your teeth help?
It is not so much seven mindless practices as seven kinds of calm observation or introspection. Through repeated practice, you can gradually get rid of the shackles of fame and fortune, the pursuit of power and the shackles of desire, and train yourself to listen calmly to the voices in your body.
I call it the preparation period of practice, which is an important inner reflection when entering the practice period. There is no doubt that we will encounter a series of problems in our daily life, maybe it is lack of money, maybe the family burden is too heavy, maybe it is too noisy at home, maybe the work is not smooth, maybe the children are sick, maybe it is difficult to communicate with their families.
Some psychology may help people overcome problems, but the effect is limited; Some philosophical ways of thinking can make people break through obstacles, but they still can't eradicate the root causes. Because too many ways belong to "heteronomy", they can only cure the symptoms, not the root cause; Without self-discipline, it is impossible for any kind of practice to gain much.
Look at the sea of hearts and see if you have been able to walk outside things when you are facing greed and all kinds of troubles. Your mind is free. You are worried today and comfortable tomorrow. ...& gt& gt
Question 5: Why do people suffer from trivial matters one day and spend their whole lives in one contradiction after another?
Question 6: What do you mean by remembering people? The State Administration for Industry and Commerce defines the concept of broker in the Measures for the Administration of Brokers as follows: Brokers refer to citizens, legal persons and other economic organizations that engage in brokerage business such as brokerage, brokerage and agency in economic activities for the purpose of collecting commissions in accordance with the provisions of these Measures.
Persons who meet the following conditions can apply for brokerage activities only after being approved by the administrative department for industry and commerce and obtaining the brokerage qualification certificate: (1) They have full capacity for civil conduct; (2) Having the knowledge and skills required for engaging in brokerage activities; (3) Having a fixed residence; (4) Master relevant national laws, regulations and policies; (5) No crime or economic violation for more than three consecutive years before applying for brokerage qualification.
In addition, those who engage in brokerage business in special industries with special provisions in countries such as finance, insurance, securities and futures should also have corresponding professional brokerage qualification certificates.
Question 7: My husband is a very obscene person, who loves to criticize and nag. For this reason, I learned to be silent and didn't want to communicate with him. Whatever I do at home depends on my choice. Even if I leave, can I meet someone who doesn't nag? Think about what we are together for. You can leave if you don't love.
Question 8: When others tell others anything about you, let them know. What does that mean? I didn't think it was a trivial matter at first, but there were such little people. It doesn't matter. If you don't like them, don't go near them and have less contact with them, because we can't change others, but we can change ourselves.
Question 9: I feel so annoyed! Trivial life makes people breathless! What does it mean to live in the present when others judge me? In other words, hard work or happiness is also life.
Question 10: Too many trivial things in life are annoying. Life is like this. If there are no trivial things in life, it is not life, and this is the charm of life. Please accept it if you are satisfied, thank you!