In this case, get the money back quickly and break up decisively. Such a boy can't give you a sense of security financially. Emotionally, what you described is not reliable. Most of them are using you.

This also shows that you are too kind to be cheated. Use your money to exercise his financial ability. So, clear your mind quickly and make a judgment and decision as soon as possible. Don't pester him any longer, you will lose more. Learn to stop loss.