——A letter to all caring people, preface by Shudongyue: A normal marriage has a beautiful beginning, but it also ends. It can be said that it is reasonable for any relationship between people to break down.

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If it was a marriage that started out as absurd, there is no need to say much about its outcome.

The essence of a marriage relationship is a stable, long-term relationship between two adults. They form a community of interests, satisfy each other's needs, and are mixed with complicated interests and complex emotions.

Ending a marriage requires paying a corresponding price, which often causes varying degrees of damage in various aspects, especially to the underage children in the relationship, and family education is crucial to the formation of a child's character.

A child who grows up in a torn family environment will have some defects in character, and some psychological damage may even stay with him for life.

According to relevant surveys, psychological diseases such as "problem children", "autism" and "depression" are closely related to the patient's growth environment.

Children are the future of a society and a country.

For these children who have suffered misfortune, can our society provide corresponding help to alleviate the harm that they should not bear?

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Premise and background 1. Social status quo analysis: With the rapid development of the market economy and the accelerated pace of people's lives, the divorce rate is also rising year by year.

According to incomplete statistics, the divorce rate in 2020 is 43.83%. Because of the high divorce rate, there are more and more single-parent families. According to statistics from the China Women's Federation, 67% of divorced families have children.

During the investigation, a class teacher said that there were ten single-parent children in his class.

Compared with before, the large group of children from divorced families is enough to attract the attention of all sectors of society.

2. Result of divorce: Many women or men are hit and stimulated by divorce, and suffer from hidden depression, hysteria, extreme behavior, irritability, schizophrenia, etc.

People who have had such an experience, no matter who has the custody of the child, can the child's growing environment and education be normal?

After a general family divorces, financial problems will also become a factor that binds parents. In this situation, how can single-parent children get enough care and companionship.

2. The pain of the night and the hurt of the soul. We use tree holes as windows to explore the personal privacy and secrets caused by unknown marriage changes.

During the day, they appear as senior intellectuals, military officers, business leaders, civil servants, ordinary workers, etc. However, due to the failure of their marriages, reputation, face, and jokes from relatives and friends, they hide their wounds in the dark night, and the truth is always covered by masks.

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Every child is an angel who comes to the world. Normally, there should be six relatives, grandparents, grandparents, parents, and the genetic inheritance and love of six people.

Single parents will cause children to lose half or more of their love. This imbalance comes from adults hurting each other.

Helpless: divorce due to cheating, cheating, domestic violence, personality incompatibility, etc.

"No one will divorce easily if it is not a last resort, especially if you have children." This is the unanimous voice of all parties involved.

"I have spent my whole life healing the scars and shadows left by my childhood." These are the heartfelt words of a person in an unfortunate family.

Hatred: Most people get divorced when they can no longer get along. There are tug-of-wars over property issues and children. Many of them are violent fights. There are many women who get divorced due to domestic violence and turn from relatives into enemies.

"If he hadn't had a child, I would have killed that person," more than one person said.

A love that is hard to let go; A person who lived as a single parent said to his children: "The most terrifying thing about divorce is that the person closest to you becomes the person you hate the most. If one day, you have no choice but to divorce, don't divorce

The hatred of the parents is instilled in the child. When he needs love the most, he is forced to hate the person he once loved the most. How pitiful.