Speaking of exquisite egoists, everyone is no longer unfamiliar. They often have high education, high ability, and high emotional intelligence. They can always take care of their work and life and make decisions at the most appropriate time.

Those who make decisions and actions that are most beneficial to them, have high social status and social wealth, and live a very particular and refined life are the so-called elites among the crowd and winners in life.

Now our society seems to be full of such people. This is a state in the development process of our industrial society and human development. Logically speaking, there is nothing wrong with it. If they have the ability, they will not hold the country back.

, I should be praised for being able to contribute to my position, but I always feel like something is strange.

It wasn’t until I participated in an activity with several teachers a few days ago that I understood something about it.

Teacher Gao and Teacher Chen from Taiwan just organized and assisted in holding a painting activity on both sides of Taiwan and Pingtan a few days ago. Although the process was tortuous, the final result was beyond expectations. In the process of getting along with them, I gained a lot.

A lot.

They have participated in and organized many such activities. It is not a painting activity, but a public welfare activity without remuneration.

They are all young at heart, retaining a childlike innocence and curiosity, and like to play and explore everywhere.

I like to make high-quality friends, I am very enthusiastic and kind, and I like to sincerely praise others, so I can easily chat with others, and I can always spend a pleasant time with different people.

This was my first impression when I followed them around.

When chatting, I asked Teacher Chen, how can you greet people cordially even if you don’t know them?

No one in mainland China is like this.

Teacher Chen smiled and said, in fact, not all Taiwanese people are like this. This is because she has the experience of studying in the UK. Foreigners like to greet people. Even if they don’t know them, she was not used to it at first, but slowly she discovered that this is actually the case.

It is very contagious and enhances the relationship between people, and it gradually becomes a habit!

I continue to follow them and visit them. They are really gentle and kind, attentive and considerate. They are very good at taking care of others. They are also very humorous from time to time. It makes me feel that no one on earth will refuse their request.

When I visited the home of Aunt Ding, the director of the Women's Federation, I heard her talk about the establishment and development process of the Shanglou Village Women's Federation and the volunteer team. It was really not an easy process. They played a big role in it, and sometimes they would

Not caring about their own families, there were twists and turns, grievances, and even quarrels along the way, but in the end they still felt it was worth it, and the bottom line was that everyone understood each other.

From a group of volunteers represented by Aunt Ding and Chief Zeng Ningyi who came from Taiwan to carry out community work in Shanglou Village, I seem to see a different group of new women of the era who contribute ideas and contributions in real life.

Their strength has played a huge role. Of course, they cannot do without the support of their families.

When communicating with Teacher Gao, Teacher Gao said that it is true. In fact, women have always played a very important role. Just like the last time we visited an ancient ruins, it was a group of older people who bravely stood up to defend the ruins.

Grandmas, they have never been recorded in history, but they play an irreplaceable role.

For modern women, doing well in their careers does not necessarily mean they must be in the strong woman mode. Women are always women, soft and emotional. There is no need to force themselves to be the strong woman mode. Just do things with your heart.

The teacher said that she saw many such women, and the teacher would not emphasize any of their points, but would just record what they did.

Teacher Gao's words inspired me a lot. Teacher Gao himself is also such a person, very soft and strong, always able to do a lot of things with his heart, truly soft on the outside and strong on the inside.

Later, some problems actually occurred during the activity, and the teachers had to put some effort into solving them, which gave me the feeling that my efforts were thankless.

After talking to Teacher Chen, they actually organized many such activities, going to remote mountainous areas to teach children, holding art exhibitions, giving free teaching classes, etc., and many times they helped raise all the funds. They established

Specialized charity foundation.

I was shocked when I heard it, and asked myself that I would definitely not be able to do this.

Teacher Chen said that it definitely can’t be done now. Life is divided into stages. Different stages have different tasks, so you have to do it step by step.

Then they said that although they would encounter some unpleasant things, they would also gain a lot in the process.

If I could barely accept the fact that they performed these activities completely and completely, when it came to family later, I was completely conquered by the teachers.

In fact, teachers also have their responsibilities and burdens, which are not even light, but they still insist on these activities. Although teachers have always said that they can gain all kinds of spiritual happiness in the process, in my opinion, they still feel that they really

Very powerful.

Ask yourself, even if I reach the age where I have money and leisure, will I spend time and energy doing these things?

You will be thankless for your efforts, and you will be exhausted mentally and physically when dealing with all kinds of trivial matters. You need to deal with all kinds of people, and sometimes you have to take great risks.

The answer is no, I would rather spend time doing things I like.

My awareness and understanding will never reach the heights of my teachers.

Let’s talk about today’s sophisticated egoists. They are not wrong. The instinct of animals is to survive well. None of us have the right to stand on the moral high ground and blame them, because we ourselves can’t do it.