An ancient example of conquering others with imposing manner

Romance of the Three Kingdoms: Zhang Fei. A roar on the bridge of Changhanbo scared off Cao Cao's millions of troops.

Zhang Fei became suspicious only by riding more than 2 pieces of cloth around him on the board of the long board in the sun. When Cao Jun of the brigade arrived, he stood upright with his beard, his eyes wide open, and he grasped the snake spear firmly. He drank three times and broke the courage of Xiahou Jie, a soldier beside Cao Cao, and knocked down his horse on the spot, which made Cao Cao go back to his horse in utter amazement.

(This story is contained in the 42nd chapter of the Romance of the Three Kingdoms) An ancient example of repaying others

● The knot of grass in the ring of the title is a debt of gratitude

Both the knot of grass and the ring of the title are ancient legends of gratitude, which come from Zuo Zhuan. The former tells that a scholar-bureaucrat married his father's concubine separately, so as not to be martyred. The dead father who loved his concubine thanked his daughter by tangled weeds on the ground and tripped the benefactor's opponent. The latter said that a child saved the life of a trapped yellowbird, and the yellowbird got four white rings, claiming that this ring could keep the benefactor's children white from generation to generation and occupy a high position. After that, the two allusions are combined into one sentence, which is a metaphor for being favored by others, and it will be rewarded with kindness, and life and death will never change. In the Ming Dynasty, Feng Menglong wrote in "Awakening the World": Your great kindness is not reported, but engraved in your arms. The title ring is grassy, and life and death are not borne.

● A meal from a floating mother

When Han Xin was a teenager, his family was poor and his parents died. Although he studied hard and practiced martial arts hard, he still had no life. As a last resort, he had to go to other people's homes to eat "free food", which was often ignored by others. Han Xin couldn't swallow this tone, so he went fishing at the Huaihe River, traded fish for food, and often had a full meal. There is an old woman who washes yarn wadding for others by the Huaihe River. She is called "Floating Mother". Seeing Han Xin's pity, she gave him her own food. Every day, without interruption. Han Xin was deeply moved. Han Xin never forgot the kindness of the drifting mother after he was named the marquis of Huaiyin, and sent people to look around for it, and finally gave it as a gift.

● A scholar dies for a bosom friend

This was said by Yu Rang, a famous assassin in the State of Jin at the end of the Spring and Autumn Period, emphasizing gratitude. Because Zhi Bo, who was grateful to himself, was killed by Zhao Xiangzi, Yu Rang thought that "a scholar died for his bosom friend, and a woman was pleased with herself", and he was determined to assassinate Zhao Xiangzi and avenge Zhi Bo. After the failure of the first attack, he used lacquer sores to rot his body, swallowed charcoal to mute his voice, left his body in a bitter shape, so that his wife didn't know, and then he looked for the opportunity to approach Zhao Xiangzi. The second assassination still ended in failure, but Yu Rang, who was arrested, said: "A wise Lord does not hide the beauty of people, and a loyal minister has the meaning of death." He asked Zhao Xiangzi to borrow clothes and let him cut a knife. Zhao Xiangzi took off the noble finery, Yu Rang drew his sword and struck it with three leaps, and then committed suicide with his sword. Ancient examples

Battle of Guandu

Battle of Chibi

Battle of Makino Jiang Shang and Zhou Wuwang were less than 1,-17,. When it comes to 7, troops were wiped out,

Sun Wu, Wu Yuan, and Cao Yu defeated Chu for 3,-2, miles. Five wars entered Ying

The battle of Yin and Jin started from 5, to 5,, and Qin Jun was defeated.

The battle of Yi Que started from 12, to 24, in vain.

The battle of Yan and Ying started from 5, in vain-the soldiers of Chu wiped out 35,.

The list of the battle of Jimo is unknown. Yue took 2,-6, to defeat the Yan army

The battle of Julu was 6,-4, to annihilate Xiang Yu

The battle of Pengcheng was 3,-56, to annihilate 2,

The battle of Jingxing was 3,-2, to annihilate Zhao in Han Xin, and Zhao Wangxie was captured

The battle of Weishui was tens of thousands-2, in Han Xin.

in the battle of Kunyang, Liu Xiu was less than 2,-42,. Wang Yi only led thousands of people to flee to Luoyang.

In the battle of Zhua and Linzi, tens of thousands-more than 2, destroyed Zhang Bu. Pingqi

Battle of Chiting, Yu Xu, 3,-tens of thousands

Battle of Guandu, Cao Cao, 2,-more than 1, fighters, more than 7, people

Battle of Red Cliffs, Liu Bei, Zhou Yu's 5,-more than 2, laid the foundation for the tripartite confrontation among the three countries

Zhang Liao was defeated by 8 million-1, in the battle of Hefei

Lu Xun was defeated by 5, in the battle of Yiling—less than 1, Shu declined (4, troops of Shu were recorded in the annals of the Three Kingdoms)

Wang Meng was wiped out by 6,-3, enemy troops in the battle of the former Qin Dynasty

\ There are only over 1, people left in the battle of Wei Rui and Cao Jingzong, 2,-hundreds of thousands of people were killed or injured in the Northern Wei Dynasty, 3, were captured, 3,

The battle of Shayuan, Yu Wentai, tens of thousands-2, were ambushed, and more than 8, people were annihilated.

The battle of Jade Wall in Wei Xiaokuan is unknown-about 15, cities were defended. More than 7, fighters were killed

The battle of Jinxiang was in Zhongwen, with 8,-1, fighters.

The battle of Tiger Prison in Li Shimin was 3,5-1, fighters wiped out Dou Jiande.

The battle of Tang Ping, Xiao Xi, and Li Jing were unknown-more than 4, fighters were killed in Xiao Xian, and the battle of Lingtai was unknown in Guo Ziyi-more than 3, fighters. Nearly 1, enemy troops were wiped out

The battle of Taiyuan in Li Guangbi was less than 1, people-1, cities defended the war, and more than 7, people were wiped out

The battle of Yongqiu was 3,-tens of thousands of cities defended the war, but it is unknown

The battle of Suiyang was 6,8-13, cities defended the war. 12, fighters

the battle of Liuhe, Zhao Kuangyin, 2-2, fighters, 5, fighters

the battle of Shang Yuan, Wu Jiang and Wu Lin, thousands-more than 1, prisoners, defeated Jin Jun

the battle of Shunchang, Liu Kun, 18,-more than 1, cities, and defeated Jin Jun

the battle of Yancheng, Yue Fei. Adowa Jin Jun

Quarrying Battle Yu Yunwen 18,-17, water battles, defeated Jin Jun

Ezhou Battle Bo Yan 2,-6, defeated Song Jun

Dingjiazhou Battle Bo Yan 1,-13, defeated Song Jun elite

Poyang Lake Battle Zhu Yuanzhang 2,-6, water battles, Adowa Chen Youliang

Battle of Hunhe Nurhachi 4 people-8 miracles

Battle of Salhu Nurhachi 45, people-about 11, people wiped out about 5, people

Battle of Ningyuan Yuan Chonghuan was less than 2,-13, (or 5,-6,, or more than 1,)

In the history, it was famous to fight more with less. What is recorded is that Lu Zhonglian, a native of Qi, traveled to Zhao, which coincided with the siege of Handan by Qin. Lu Zhonglian insisted on justice, argued against Qin and opposed surrender, and launched a fierce debate with Xin Yuanyan, a "pro-Qin faction" sent by Qin to Zhao. He quoted metaphors and set comparisons, paved the way at different levels, and pointed out the key points. Finally, Xin Yuanyan was convinced, which coincided with the arrival of reinforcements from Wei Wuji, thus solving the siege of Handan. An example of being unkind to others

Mother Teresa was born in Albania in 191. Influenced by Tagore, a great Indian poet, she left her hometown at the age of 18 and went to India to devote herself to charity. In 1949, Mother Teresa founded a charity in Calcutta, and based on this, she carried out charity work in India to help orphans, the poor, the elderly and leprosy patients. Mother Teresa has founded more than 5 schools, hospitals, poverty relief centers, youth centers and orphanages in India and other countries. She has successively won the Indian Nehru Prize, the American Joseph Kennedy Foundation Prize and the Pope Pope John XXIII Peace Prize, and won the 1979 Nobel Peace Prize. "Wen Tianxiang Youth Righteousness" Wen Tianxiang, a famous national hero in the late Southern Song Dynasty, had a hard life when he was a teenager, so he had the opportunity to study with the help of good people. Once, Wen Tianxiang was misunderstood by a rich classmate as a thief. He argued that he would not allow others to trample on his dignity, and finally proved his innocence. Moreover, through this incident, he further established the ambition of Wen Tianxiang and to be no.1. Chen Ping was famous in the Western Han Dynasty. When he was young, his family was poor, and he lived alone with his brother. In order to uphold his father's orders, he showed off his family and studied behind closed doors, but he was not allowed by his eldest sister-in-law. In order to eliminate the contradiction between his brother and sister-in-law, he endured repeated humiliation. With the intensification of his eldest sister-in-law, he finally ran away from home and wanted to travel around the world. Eventually, an old book came here and taught free of charge. After finishing his studies, he assisted Liu Bang, and achieved a great success. Examples of being kind to others (concrete)

Being kind to others means being kind to yourself, and being kind to others means being helpful. . . . . . . An example of tolerance achieving others

Guan Zhong was a native of Qi in the Spring and Autumn Period. He was handsome, learned from the past and learned from the present, and had the ability to help the world through the state. When he was young, he did business with Bao Shuya, and when he earned money, Guan Zhong always took more. Everyone was very angry. Bao Shuya said, "Guan Zhong is not a greedy person. He takes more because his family is poor. I am willing to let him take more."

Later, Guan Zhong joined the army. Every time he fought, he shrank to the back, and when he retreated, he ran to the front. Others called him a coward. Bao Shuya stepped forward to stop others from laughing, saying that Guan Zhong did this because his old mother needed his support.

Guan Zhong was very moved by these words and said, "My parents gave birth to me, but it is Bao Shuya who can really understand me!" From then on, the two of them became friends of life and death.

It is said that Qi Xianggong has two sons. The eldest son is called Jiao, and his mother is from Lu. The youngest son is Xiao Bai, and his mother is from Juguo. Guan Zhong said to Bao Shuya, "After Qi Xianggong's death, either Jiao or Xiao Bai will succeed to the throne. Now we are going to be teachers for Jiao and Xiao Bai respectively. No matter who is the monarch, we will recommend each other."

Bao Shuya thought it was a good idea, so Guan Zhong became Gong Zijiu's teacher, and Bao Shuya became Xiao Bai's teacher.

Qi Xianggong was a bad king and was killed by the minister. At that time, Gong Zijiu was in Lu and Xiao Bai was in Ju. Ministers decided to welcome Gong Zijiu back to China as a monarch.

Lu sent someone to send Gong Zijiu back to China, and Ju sent someone to send his son Xiaobai back to China. Guan Zhong was afraid that Xiaobai would return to China first, so he caught up with him and shot him. Childe Xiaobai pretended to be hit by an arrow, deceived Guan Zhong, and then hurried back to Qi with Bao Shuya to become the monarch, namely Qi Huangong.

Duke Zhuang of Lu was very angry when he heard that his son Xiaobai had become a monarch. He sent troops to attack the State of Qi, but he was defeated. Under the pressure of Qi, Lu killed Jiao and sent Guan Zhong back to Qi.

Qi Huangong wanted Bao Shuya to be the prime minister, and Bao Shuya said, "Guan Zhong is a man with great talent. He is ten times better than me. I hope your majesty won't hate him for shooting an arrow at you and let him be the prime minister."

Huan Gong thought for a moment and said, "OK, I'll meet him first and see what he can do."

Qi Huangong chose a day to personally take Guan Zhong to the palace, and Guan Zhong talked to Qi Huangong about his policy of governing the country. Guan Zhong spoke clearly, and Qi Huangong listened with relish. They talked for three days and three nights in a row. Qi Huangong was very happy, so he handed over all matters of national size to Guan Zhong, calling him "Zhong Wen".

After Guan Zhong's death, Qi Huangong appointed Bao Shuya as the prime minister, and Bao Shuya said, "I am too clear about good and evil to be competent." In order to make Bao Shuya prime minister, Qi Huangong drove his favorite three little people out of the palace door, and Bao Shuya became prime minister.

Tolerant wisdom:

Bao Shuya's knowledge and admiration for Guan Zhong finally made "the friendship between Guan and Bao" a story handed down from generation to generation.

tolerance is a powerful force. It can turn harm into benefit and turn enemies into friends. Tolerance can often make the other side learn from it and re-examine their behavior. After all, the human heart can not be conquered by strength, and tolerance can influence all the hard ice of the soul. Who knows the example of being kind to others?

It seems that there is no example of being kind to others. Don't be too long. During the Spring and Autumn Period, the King of Chu invited many courtiers to drink and eat. During the dinner, there were wonderful songs and dances, delicious wine and candlelight. At the same time, the king of Chu also ordered two of his favorite beauties, Xu Ji and Maggie, to take turns toasting you.

Suddenly, a gust of wind blew out all the candles, and it was dark. An official at the table took the opportunity to take advantage of it and touched Xu Ji's jade hand. As soon as Xu Ji pulled his hat band, she hurried back to her seat and whispered in the ear of the king of Chu, "Just now, someone took the opportunity to flirt with me, and I broke his hat band. Please ask someone to light a candle and see who doesn't have a hat band, and you will know who it is."

Hearing this, the King of Chu quickly ordered his men not to light candles yet, but said loudly to the courtiers, "I must get drunk with you tonight. Come on, let's take off our hats and have a good drink."

No one is wearing a hat, so you can't tell whose hat band is broken. Later, when the King of Chu attacked the State of Zheng, a master led hundreds of people alone, opening the way for the three armed forces, making it through to the capital of the State of Zheng, and this person was the one who wiped Xu Jiyou. He swore to be loyal to the king of Chu all his life because of his kindness to him.

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Chen Ping was famous in the Western Han Dynasty. When he was young, his family was poor, and he lived alone with his brother. In order to uphold his father's orders, he glorified his family and studied behind closed doors, but his eldest sister-in-law could not tolerate him. In order to eliminate the contradiction between his brother and sister-in-law, he was repeatedly humiliated and forbeared. With the intensification of his eldest sister-in-law, he finally could not bear it. Eventually, an old book came here and taught free of charge. After finishing his studies, he assisted Liu Bang, and achieved a great success.

3. Goethe, a great German writer, once went out for a walk and met a critic who had severely criticized his works on the path. The critic said to Goethe with arrogance: "I never give way to fools!" " And Goethe replied: "And I am just the opposite!" Make way for each other with a big smile. Goethe's forbearance, wit and humor not only cleverly safeguarded his dignity, but also avoided a meaningless quarrel.

4. After the Battle of Stalingrad, an old woman gave the only piece of brown bread in her hand to an injured German prisoner of war, which infected the Soviet masses to put down their hatred and moved the German prisoners of war to reflect more deeply on the evils of this unjust war they participated in.