When you are with diligent and studious people, you will have an inexhaustible impact; when you are with wise people, you will definitely put away your edge and become calm; and be optimistic When you are with the right people, it is difficult for you to indulge in bad moods all day long.
Who you hang out with has a great impact on a person's life, and may even completely change you.
Because most people are easily influenced by the people or things around them and receive negative hints, you may be addicted to the emotion of falling leaves and sad autumn.
Receiving positive suggestions is likely to stimulate your body's potential abilities and promote your success.
Usually we can feel that most of the life circles of ordinary people are talking about marriage, family and children. How much salary do you get, how much do you pay for your house and car loan, how much are your children’s education fees, and strive to be better tomorrow than you are today;
In business circles, what we talk about is projects and profits, and the planning we do is basic It will be next year, at most within two or three years;
But for people who are doing business, what they value more is opportunities. What they see is wealth and the future... .
Being with different people determines how broad your vision will be. Whether you only see the immediate interests or think of the future blueprint, the results are really different.
It is true that your circle determines your life and future.
Buffett’s lunch has been auctioned annually since 2000, and all proceeds are donated to charities in San Francisco to help the local poor and homeless.
Ted Weschler, founder of the hedge fund Peninsula Capital, has won the bid for Buffett’s lunch for two consecutive years. He spent US$5.25 million on these two lunches. It seemed like a sky-high price, but he found one for himself. Money management job.
Duan Yongping, the founder of an electronic brand, once had a dinner date with Buffett. There are rumors that Buffett told Duan Yongping not to do things you don’t understand, not to be short, and not to borrow money. The impact of these investment concepts on Duan Yongping So profound.
It is worth mentioning that when Duan Yongping had lunch with Mr. Buffett, he was accompanied by a 26-year-old young man, who is now Huang Zheng, the founder of Duoduo.
Only by being with people who are more successful than you can you become a better person.
There is a saying that it doesn’t matter who you are, what matters is who you are with.
If you raise a wolf as a dog, it may learn to wag its tail and beg for mercy, thereby losing its wolf nature;
Put a swan among a group of ducks, and it will only feel that it is a wolf. Ugly little duck.
If excellent people hang out with people who have no positive energy and are just muddling along every day, you may slowly lose your edge and become mediocre.
The sparrow knows the ambition of the swan, but the sparrow does not know the lofty ambition of the swan. Ordinary people will not understand the ambitions of outstanding people.
So if you want to become better, you must move closer to people who are more successful than yourself. Only in this way can you become far-sighted.
Many people always feel that they have an inherent sense of inferiority when dealing with successful people, and are afraid of being looked down upon.
However, the more successful people are, the more tolerant and kind they are, and the more low-key and reserved they are when dealing with others.
A successful person is actually just more persistent and patient than ordinary people, and lacks some things that ordinary people think are important but are not actually useful.
So never underestimate your abilities. If you don’t push yourself, you may never know how good you are.
When I didn’t know how to drive, I imagined that it was really dangerous to shuttle through the busy traffic. When I was learning to get a driver’s license, I felt that there was nothing more difficult in the world than this.
However, the moment you have to bite the bullet and drive on the road, you will find that as long as you obey the traffic rules, there is nothing to be afraid of.
If you always say "I can't", "I'm afraid" and "I'm timid", I'm afraid you will never get a driver's license. Even if you barely get the driver's license, it will have no practical use except to decorate the appearance.
Don’t say that it’s better to have someone else drive, and don’t say that you don’t need to keep a car or find a parking space because you can’t drive. You can just go out and take a taxi. It’s really the most convenient thing to have the ability to drive yourself.
Because you have a car, you can make appointments with friends who own cars to go on trips. Otherwise, it will be difficult for you to even join this circle.
So your efforts will not be in vain. If you are surrounded by people squeezing the bus, it will be difficult for you to have the courage to learn to drive, and it will also be difficult for you to work hard to own a good car.
So, the kind of person you hang out with may determine the kind of person you become.
Some people always dream that they will succeed one day, but they never take actual actions for this success.
It can only be said that you have been at ease for too long and feel that life like this is also very good. You are afraid of leaving this status quo and will feel at a loss when encountering situations.