Some areas in Guangdong also need gift money, but most of them are based on the ability of the man. In terms of gift money, Guangdong does not require the man to give as much as he can.

Don't fight for a bride price, fight for a banquet

Take Shantou as an example. The bride price in Shantou is only a few thousand to tens of thousands. Basically, children in Chaoshan only need the blessing of their families to get married. No one doesn't want their daughters to be happy, and most people in Guangdong are low-key and pragmatic, and don't put money first. When I was young, I went to have a wedding banquet with adults. It seems that most people would care about how many tables were set. At that time, there was no discussion about how much the bride price was collected. In many places, the custom basically did not look at the price of the bride price, but at how many banquet tables were set. More people invited proved that they had greater strength, more relatives and more face.

Cantonese people are mainly families. When one person gets married, he is integrated into another person's family. Everyone helps each other and keeps in touch with each other. The derailment rate in Guangdong is relatively low, because if one person cheats, the whole family will lift their heads and have a very low right to speak. When girls get married, they basically don't want too high a bride price. Basically, they all look at the man's ability. Based on the ability, more or less the meaning is enough.

Take the bride price and return the dowry

In terms of bride price, Cantonese people don't rigidly ask the man how much he must give, but let him do what he can. If he must empty his family, borrow money everywhere and take out the bride price, he will actually be convinced after the meeting, and this will also lead to disharmony between the two families, and they will have to communicate with each other in the future. Therefore, based on this consideration, Cantonese people have always talked about the gift money.

In addition, although there will be gifts, most Guangdong girls will return gifts and dowry, and basically they will return more than half. When people in Foshan marry their daughters, no matter whether they have money or not, they pay attention to the reality. The gift money is basically between 3, and 6,. In some places, boys can finalize it by mentioning it at will. This is just a token, so there is no pressure for boys at all. If the woman's family is good, she will also send a car to accompany her. Therefore, in terms of wedding ceremonies in Guangdong, it is really very comfortable for everyone.

The bride price is not high, and there is not much money

The bride price of Guangdong people is basically given according to the actual situation of the man, and after receiving the bride price, the woman will also use these colored bodies as a dowry or family fund after marriage, instead of directly giving them to her younger brother or brother at home to seek a gift for them. Guangdong has little money for bride price, and the money for red envelopes is not high when attending banquets. Basically, Cantonese people want to live a better life when they get married, so they will not bring excessive economic burden to the south.

However, although Guangdong doesn't give bride price very much, on holidays, the man should show it, and the money is not less, which is not less than the bride price money.