There are more than 30 million men than women in China, which means that a large number of people will be forced to be single in the future. This has also affected the rise of bride price to some extent. Therefore, the state should introduce relevant laws to restrain this kind of behavior, and the bride price is not supported. Therefore, some people think that the bride price does not support asking the man now, so how can the woman's maternity expenses be guaranteed?
First of all, there is no direct relationship between the two. At the beginning, the bride price was really a guarantee for women. After all, if a woman gives birth to a child after marriage, it is really a kind of harm to her. If the man chooses to abandon her at this time, the woman can support herself and her children with this bride price. And the bride price can better restrain the man. After all, his wife is also very delicate, so we should cherish it now.
Besides, women should cultivate independent personality. Nowadays, equality between men and women is advocated, and women can also have their own careers. Moreover, some women already have some savings before they get married, so this money can also be regarded as their own living security. Even after marriage, some women will continue to work instead of being housewives, so they are fully capable of raising children. Of course, this requirement is not to put all your money in your husband's, but to have a separate fund reserve.
And family. Children's growth is inseparable from the support and help of their parents. Especially on the issue of buying a house, it is difficult for many graduates to save down payment in the first two years of work, so they need the help of their families. It's not a matter of conservatism. When you have a certain financial strength, you can still return the money to your parents. In some areas, when parents know that they don't support asking the man for a bride price, they will choose to buy some dowry for their daughter, and even the real estate will be her future life guarantee.
Also, after marriage, couples should also prepare a fund reserve, which is mainly used to raise children. In fact, many couples have this habit. After all, the cost of raising a child now is very huge, especially in education. Kindergartens are very expensive now, not to mention elementary schools, junior high schools and high schools. So they will prepare a sum of money in advance and deposit it in the bank. Even if the two parties don't go to the end for some reason, the woman still enjoys half of the money.
Generally speaking, a woman should be independent and not completely dependent on her husband. Only in this way can she live a better life and support her children after being abandoned.