If these conditions are not very good, then refusing to have a second child is good for yourself, your family and your boss. It can't be said that this is selfish.
If these conditions are good, it is ok to have a second child. Two children have the fun of two children, and the boss can have a companion. Moreover, he is old, and the boss will not have too much pressure to take care of the elderly.
You can afford it. Depending on how you raise it, some people may say. You can raise it when you are born. How to raise it? Yes, the poor can also raise two children, but don't forget? Eat and wear warm clothes? Yes, except? Raise? Does the child still need it? Education? Education is a big project, based on economy and energy.
If you can't provide good educational conditions for your children and discount all the conditions of the boss, you might as well not have a second child and be irresponsible to both children.
It is best to consider these questions before giving birth to a second child: 1. If the mother goes to work, it is usually the elderly who take care of the baby. The old man finally raised Dabao. If he wants a second child, does the old man's age and body allow him to help give birth to a second child? If the old man can't help, can mom and dad take care of him?
Parents want their children to get the best, so they give them the best education and attend many interest classes. If you have another Bauer, you should ask if you have more energy.
3. If the family income is still stable and middle-class, it is actually good to have another child. If the family itself is poor and raising a child is still a problem, then it is really necessary to seriously think about whether to have another one. Because pregnancy, pregnancy test and delivery all need money, children eat milk powder when they are young, and early education classes also need money. After school, in addition to tuition fees, you may have to attend various remedial classes, which all require money.
4. Whether the two children can be treated equally, be impartial, and appreciate the personality differences between the children is the basic family literacy necessary for the parents of the two children.
These are Ma Jing's views on this issue. Parents with different views are also welcome to leave a message for discussion.
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