I saw that many friends in the group wrote year-end summaries, which were profound and thorough.

Especially Brother Baoshu's summary is in place and his thinking is clear and logical.

Although Jiayin cannot reach such a high height, I know what Jade Dragon Snow Mountain looks like and I have to work hard to move forward.

I just write diaries or tell stories about what happened.

Let me answer Sister Panyuan's question first. My sister has spent a lot of precious time teaching Jiayin and selflessly helping Jiayin. I am very grateful for this gift of love. I want to pass on the gift of love.

My sister asked me how many things I have changed so far. Jiayin told the truth, I have changed more than half of them so far, but I have not completely changed them yet.

1. You can learn a lot by listening to others chatting without interrupting. Now I don’t feel marginalized.

2. When you encounter a question that you don’t understand, you should first check it online and search hard. If you can’t find the answer, then ask the teacher.

3. I don’t practice Vajrasana every day. I do it a few times occasionally and I can persist for more than 15 minutes at a time.

4. Sincerity is the path to the sincere person.

If you have done something wrong, you must admit it.

I have said other people's right and wrong, and I admit it.

5. I live a simple life and insist on cooking for more than a year. I stopped cooking for half a month.

Although the taste is average, it can still be swallowed.

6. My thoughts tend to wander around, I am not focused on doing things, and I tend to be internally consumed.

This point has not been corrected yet and needs to continue to be improved.

7. Insist on fixed investment and investment. The fixed investment was interrupted for two months due to dental treatment, and now I continue to invest.

8. No matter what you do, you must set a goal for yourself and make a plan.

Strive to be the first. Whether you can achieve the first or not will not be discussed at the moment. The premise is that you have to work hard in the direction of being the first. At present, you have spent money to buy courses to study and take the certificate.

9. I have also undergone some changes in my mentality. I respect and praise others, because everyone has their own shining points and advantages, and do not focus on the shortcomings of others.

I have the following thoughts about 2021: 1. Don’t be obsessed with Feng Shui. Some time ago, I was too obsessed with Feng Shui. Some people said that buying some Feng Shui devices brought them good luck, and it can indeed bring good luck.

I also believe in Feng Shui, including name science, number energy, mole physiognomy, Qi Men Dun Jia, etc.

But after I bought some Feng Shui instruments, there wasn't much change. I guess it's because I don't have enough energy.

I think that my own mentality and doing some good things can change some feng shui.

It was my good fortune to meet Teacher Liu.

It was on October 31, 2020. Not long after I arrived in Shenzhen to work, I was grateful to Sister Xiu Ming and Mr. Cao for their help and care. I resigned from Baitejia after working for two months. Mr. Cao gave me a salary after resignation.

, I didn’t know where I was going to work at that time.

I have a friend who works in Tianjin.

I knew that his life was not as good as mine, and that he had thoughts of committing suicide at that time. Most of the reason for his unsatisfactory life was that he was trapped in money. When he did not borrow money from me, I took the initiative to transfer part of my salary to him, 2,000 yuan.

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I definitely have some room left. I have to make myself worry-free before I can help others. Otherwise, the Clay Bodhisattva will not be able to save himself when he crosses the river.

He was very touched and kept thanking me.

That night, I asked Teacher Liu about fixed investment in funds, and the next day I went to Compound Interest Changniu Company for an interview for a job.

So, in my humble opinion, mentality and motivation are the most important, and everything else is just an external appearance. Please give me some psychological comfort.

Second, if you have anger in your heart, you should find a suitable channel to vent it out. If someone treats me well, I will try my best to repay it twice as much; but if someone treats me badly, my first brain reaction is to fight to the end.

Sometimes I control myself and don't get angry on the spot, but I keep my resentment in my heart.

This is an ominous and terrible behavior.

Every outbreak is not caused by the current incident, it is just a trigger.

Because I am slow-tongued and slow to respond, I am unable to refute in time, making it easier to keep my anger bottled up in my heart.

I know that getting angry is not good, so I have to correct it and try to find a suitable channel to vent it.

I found that rubbing the Tanzhong point on my chest or shouting out loud was of no use.

You can relax after returning from playing ball or running. Then keep playing and running or meditate for a while to relax yourself.

When I find a reasonable way to vent, I can avoid direct conflict.

Now I think about it, if I control myself well, it is precisely because I am slow to respond and cannot refute others in a timely manner that will lead to head-on conflicts. Conflicts will be avoided, and it is rare to stop talking. It can maintain a harmonious relationship.

It's a good saying. Work hard and do it yourself. The furthest distance is between saying it and doing it.

If you can't do it, you will be punished. If you can't channel your emotions, you will hurt your body. No wonder your hairline keeps moving back, which will also affect your work efficiency, and the gain will outweigh the loss.

3. Thanks to Teacher Liu for his tolerance and patience. When I first joined the company, I was very unfamiliar with computers.