A girl who was unwilling to settle for mediocrity and loved hard work, started her own business continuously, and became a CEO of a company from an ordinary girl.

Love words, from self-media person to best-selling author, slash youth, from business elite to inspirational internet celebrity KOL.

No matter how the role changes, he will always remain true to his original aspirations and move forward fearlessly.

She is Niu Wen, @Katherine King on Weibo. You can only see the world after you step out on many roads.

Your life should be defined by yourself.

Acquired efforts and life path are important factors affecting personal development.

Niu Wen's book "The More Confused You Are, the More You Have to Break Through" is a guide for college students and young people who have just graduated who are currently in a confused period of life.

?This is an ambitious work.

This era is free for women. They have a variety of choices and can live the life they want through their own efforts.

This era is harsh for women, and traditional concepts still constrain us. We must break free from the shackles and pursue a new life. This journey is very difficult.

We have all been confused, hurt, and hurt on the road.

However, how will you know what the future will bring if you don’t try it.

If you are not willing to settle for mediocrity, if you still have ambitions, then move forward bravely and change bravely. The future you want is not far ahead.

In the future, you will definitely thank yourself for being fearless now.

Your life is defined by you Text: Niu Wen/Zi "The more confused you are, the more you have to break out" To be honest, I never thought I would become a writer.

When I first graduated from college, I thought I would find a 9-to-5 job, meet someone, marry him, have kids, and live an ordinary life.

There is nothing wrong with this kind of life, it's just that the little beast in me has been stirring, waiting to explode, and then I gradually understood that the life I wanted was not like this at all.

What I want is to go to the end of the world with my sword to pursue my dreams.

Although my dream was not clear at that time, I was certain that the 9-to-5 life was not what I wanted.

However, as a woman, being unsatisfied with the status quo and wanting to dominate the world with ambition is not a very honorable thing in a certain value system.

I heard a lot of questioning voices. They told me that as a woman, just have a stable job, drink tea with your sisters, go shopping, wait until a certain age, join the family, get married and have children, what dreams should you pursue?

Getting married and having children is important and a major event that needs to be experienced in life. However, besides getting married and having children, I think I should first become what I like.

In this way, not long after graduation, I embarked on a tossing journey.

To be honest, I struggled with a lot of things.

I started a business, from the Internet to mobile Internet to e-commerce. I went to the United States to study. From being a novice in English to being able to speak fluently in English, my life has undergone earth-shaking changes every year.

Looking back today, I have made some money, traveled to many countries, and met many outstanding people. At the same time, I have also endured unimaginable isolation, depression, and loneliness.

Someone asked me, why go to all this trouble?

It's very simple, because only through tossing can ordinary people like me clarify our own hearts, and can we know ourselves, what we like, how much we weigh, and even what kind of man we are suitable for.

The turning point in my life was in 2014. I conducted interviews with people and recorded the conversations in writing. It was from these in-depth conversations that I discovered a broader world and discovered that women can have all kinds of things.

All kinds of wonderful ways to live.

I met Li Qiqi, who was a "shooter" in the United States. I met Pocket, who was on the Forbes list in her early twenties and established a women's fund. I met Li Qiqi, who resigned from a Fortune 500 company at the age of thirty to start a business.

Daisy, I met Susan, who was divorced at the age of 40 and wanted to pursue her dreams... I was moved by these women who are active in various fields around the world.

They broke my imagination and the rules set by society. There is only one rule in the lives of these women who live wonderfully and freely, and that is to listen to their hearts and follow their hearts.

Today, if you ask me what the best life is, I will tell you that it is to know your own heart, face your desires, choose a choice that you can afford, and give it a try.

There are many people who are entangled and confused on the road to pursuing their dreams, fighting with themselves, their parents, and their partners. In fact, in the final analysis, it is their own problem.

I often encourage my readers to become financially independent, and then take advantage of their youth to see more of the breadth and diversity of this world. Only when you have experienced it, will you have the qualifications and ability to know your true self.

heart.

Whether you like to work 9 to 5 or wander around the world, there is no right or wrong in itself. It is nothing more than a personal choice. But I sincerely hope that after you have seen this world, you will make fewer choices in life.

Less entanglement and less regret.