If my parents hadn't bought me a car or a house, I would have changed my lifestyle.
For example, I may not enter the system and choose to go to the sea to make money. When I graduated from college, China was fully open after the 2008 Olympic Games. Many 985 graduates choose to be sent abroad to earn money, such as being sent to Africa to earn more money, and many people choose to work in foreign trade companies.
Among my classmates, there are not a few such people. In the end, it basically realized buying a house and a car in second-tier cities, such as Tianjin, Foshan and Suzhou.
For example, I may live a wandering life, go to Chongqing and Chengdu to find a job, and live a happy life without getting married.
I am a realist, and the principle of life I believe in is to do what I can.
What's the point of complaining about parents' poverty and others?
I know it's really cool that parents have money. I know my parents bought a big house and a luxury car when they were young, and they could play until they took off. But when you don't have this condition, just look at what you can use, what you can do, what you can do, what kind of life you can live, and try to make yourself happy.
Life is not the only way to buy a house, a car, get married and have children. Not buying a house, not buying a car, not getting married, not having children, not supporting yourself, eating and playing whatever you want is actually quite cool.
I often watch Tik Tok's videos of various great gods, all of which are tied up one day and lie down for three days. Some of them are in Guangdong and some are in Beijing. I make videos every day about how to wander, how to find a cheap place to live or sleep in bridge opening, how to open a treasure chest, how to sleep in an Internet cafe and how to find a charging socket in a shopping mall. I think some great gods are not helpless, but willing to live a free and unrestrained life by themselves.
There are many possibilities in life. Don't confine yourself to buying a house, buying a car, getting married and having children.
Even if you want to buy a house, a car, get married and have children, it doesn't have to be that the bigger the house, the better the car and the better the children. You don't need to do anything under any circumstances. You don't have to force yourself into a corner and die suddenly in order to prove to the people around you that you are capable and that you are doing well. Why bother?
Take a step back and take ten steps back to talk about a better life.