Nowadays, the "principle of interest" is paramount. Businessmen put profit first and strive for it. In this social atmosphere, people who are not doing their jobs are also thinking about the gains and losses of interests.

In this case, if anyone occasionally mentions the word "kindness", it will surprise many people. Kind? What is kindness?

People are not familiar with kindness.

But on the surface, the era of rejecting kindness is definitely the time when people need kindness most. Although some people say that "if I am kind, I will definitely suffer", but think about it a little, people who use fake wine to make people blind only lack kindness.

Some people can claim that I have earned enough money, but no one says that my kindness is saturated.

Rich people install double-layer security doors, anti-theft locks and insurance, aren't they afraid that others will be unkind?

China Youth Foundation lobbied around to raise tuition fees for children who dropped out of school in mountainous areas, and also tried to make those poor children stay in school for a few more days through a little kindness left by people.

On the other hand, now is an era full of panic. Are you scared out of money? Yes, not exactly. What is lacking is called kindness.

Many opportunities can be expressed as follows:

Promotion depends on your own efforts, and living and working in peace and contentment requires the goodwill of others.

The popularity of desire in China generally conveys our desire for kindness. Whose kindness do you need? Of course it's someone else's kindness.

In short, we can't wait to turn our wives, leaders, neighbors and everyone we meet on the street into harmony, and we can wander between the king and Wang Yaru.

This play squeezes out the hypocrisy of China people, although it is extremely naive in art.

If you ask a person to be kind first, he will definitely not do it. He also asks, "Why are others not kind?"

Living by the kindness of others, although poor, is not sad. The tragedy of China people is that when someone spreads goodwill with the attitude of a saint, they will be ridiculed by the "collective unconscious".

Lei Feng has a perfect personality, but isn't it difficult to get rid of the fate of being ridiculed?

Therefore, although people want others to be kind to them, others' kindness shows their ruthlessness and results in offending him.

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If good and evil are two trees, the beautiful tree is evil.

The tree of evil is lush, with green leaves and bright fruits.

The tree of kindness grows slowly, unobtrusively, and sometimes bears no fruit.

This is why people refuse to be kind.

The value of a tree, if you only look at its growth and fruit, is only one value, not the whole value.

Where is the tree of kindness when people look at the fruit? It silently fixes sand in the ground, revealing a landscape in a deserted place, and refreshing the oxygen inhaled by everyone.

However, kindness also has fruits, that is, the purity of human nature and the brilliance of human nature.

Although the tree of evil grows wildly, it decays too fast. Isn't Bobby beautiful, too? However, it soon disappeared.

Beethoven said, "Without a kind soul, there is no virtue."

This means that kindness and virtue are inseparable, but for those who don't need virtue, it seems that kindness is not needed.

There is another great motto, but it was not said by a famous person, but dictated by a friend of mine, Tian Rui. "If kindness is also a weapon, then the only weapon in my life is kindness."

This statement is intriguing again and again.

Life is not just a matter of "losing is a blessing". Being a good person is not afraid of losing. Kindness is often not lost. As a kind of nature, kind people can often save the day.

So the tree of kindness is also an evergreen tree.

On the road with the poor

On that occasion, I went from Yau Ma Tei to Hong Kong Island to see the night view of Victoria Bay, and I walked through a tunnel on the way. The name of the tunnel has been forgotten, giving the impression that it is wide and bright as day. Walking, my eyes were attracted by the poster on the left wall. -A travel-stained man came forward. He is determined and energetic. His left leg is a mechanical prosthesis, his shoulders lean forward a little, and he sprints forward with difficulty and longing. The text at the bottom of the picture says that this person is collecting money for sick poor children and is on a journey. There are big characters in the center of the picture-going on the road with the poor.

This man must have walked through Qianshan, otherwise he wouldn't have such a deep vision. There is pain behind his determined expression. I'm afraid every step with this prosthetic leg will hurt. Then-as shown in the picture-he walked through Dushanzi, Manas and Wanquan in Xinjiang, Malianjing, Huangyang Town and Niangniangkan in Gansu, and then passed through Shaanxi, Hubei, Hunan and Guangdong to Hong Kong. He comes from Hong Kong. Walker, a patient, crossed the northwest wilderness with a prosthetic leg, and his belief became more and more firm like a flame: let children who have no money treat diseases.

The photos are made of aluminum-plated metal frames with built-in lights, which extend to the front one by one. The men on the screen come to you one by one like a queue, holding their heads high and moving their feet with difficulty. Then a line is smaller than a line-on the road with the poor.

On the streets of Hong Kong, it is rare to see the poor people in the usual impression. Everyone seems to have enough food and clothes. In this poster with strong visual impact, the word "poor people" is very noble, and it is everyone's responsibility to pay attention to them.

That is to say, at this moment, I was moved, and blood poured out from all directions and collided with my whole body. Meditate in your heart: go on the road with the poor! On the road with the poor ...

At this time, the song in my ear is approaching, and there is a band not far away. Four young people in light blue jeans sang while playing, three men and one woman. The high wattage orange light in the tunnel made their faces very soft. They sang American country songs quietly, and the girl who played the electric bass worked hard, her hair jumping on her shoulders. There is loose money in the hay cowboy hat under their feet, and the paper card says "Raise money for polio children".

Country songs echoed in the cross-harbour tunnel, quiet and simple. Tunes, such as R ICHQEDMAFX's style, retain the longing, stretch, generosity and stubbornness in their hearts. Like a fool's game. Another example is my confession. Guitar, blue jeans, golden silhouette light in hair, and music make a wonderful effect. The lone ranger's eyes on the poster behind him are bright and almost broken.

I want to stand and listen for a while, but I am the only one in the audience. Others are in a hurry to throw money, so I feel relaxed by throwing some Hong Kong dollars into a hay-colored hat. These days, I'm fed up with all this money. I can't buy the rest of the money, but I don't want to buy small ones. I have to use my brain to find a discount store, such as "Shogo", to calculate the subway fare, so don't worry for the time being.

Country songs have a unique interpretation of love, sadness and the future, just like flowers on branches are different from flowers in bottles, just like walking barefoot in corn fields in May, feeling the wetness of the soil in the feet, just like clothes emitting a loose fragrance, and there are inexhaustible fresh soil in the fingernails. But after I put all my money in my hat, I felt a little embarrassed to stand and listen. I think it's good to have money. Every once in a while, throw some money there and listen again. But it seems unreasonable to divide the money several times to a band that raises money.

They didn't use the CD-ROM drive, but there was something grateful in their eyes, thanking me for listening attentively. Compared with Hong Kong people, I have a lot of time, but I still don't stay long.

The sound of country songs is getting farther and farther away from me. I took one photo after another with my eyes and walked to the exit. At this time, my pocket was empty, so I turned it out, like two rabbits' ears hanging on their legs. I played this game when I was a child, but I had no money and only a few paper balls in my pocket. Now it's a fresh exercise, just like washing gloves and turning yourself upside down.

The kindness of Barguet vilen

Chekhov said: To be educated is not to eat without spilling soup, but not to visit when others spill soup. There is a similar American proverb that mistakes are not uncommon, just laugh at others when they make mistakes. "Don't go to see him" and "Don't laugh at him" are manners, which are called "kindness" in China.

Kindness is not a method, although it can also be used as a way to train yourself. This is human nature. Being kind to others means doing great things without doing anything, which Chekhov called "education".

If virtue is divided into explicit and implicit, then goodness has implicit characteristics. Kindness is not dull, but often looks dull. The so-called "noble people talk late" lies in a calm evaluation of a person and a thing, and a gentleman speaks without doing anything. Especially when others are humiliated, the evaluation of "being late" saves others' face. True stupidity is not knowing right from wrong, while kindness is understanding and kindness, thus giving others a chance to remedy.

Kind people can hold their breath. Kindness may not be rewarded, but kindness is kindness. Let nature take its course. People who are eager for quick success and instant benefit stay away from kindness.

Kindness is the cornerstone in interpersonal communication. It is not a moment of sharpness, but the appreciation of others after the aftertaste. There is no living method in the world, there are always some clever ways to surpass it, and that is character. Personality can shine, but methods are just tools. Kindness is a noble character that can stand the test. Kindness is the deep flow of the river. It has power, but there are no waves on the surface.

Good people have opinions. Being a good person is a sign of cleverness, and it has nothing to do with "thickness". There is no criterion and no boundary, which is a sign of chaos and has nothing to do with Tao. Kind people may be stubborn, or they may not play cards according to common sense, preferring stupidity to misfortune.

Thickness is the thickness of the soil where wheat grows and the thickness of the wall against the wind. Morality comes before things, and it has been done to achieve such a state.

Barguet vilen's "Sludge Must Be Dyed"

Don't be flashy, and don't take chances.

Don't rely on intelligence and strange things, don't rely on physical strength to deal with alcohol and tobacco, and don't rely on conscience to deal with messy things. People don't have that great immunity.

As the old saying goes, it is easy to shake the mountain, but difficult to shake the Yuegujun. Applying this sentence, it is easy to shake mountains, difficult to shake cigarettes, difficult to shake mahjong tables, difficult to shake a small handleless wine cup, difficult to shake lies, difficult to shake women's beauty, difficult to shake compliments, and difficult to shake inside and outside. Deng Xiaoping famously said: Seeking truth from facts is the hardest thing.

People sometimes value themselves too much or are too confident. If you read General Immunology, you will know that people's immune system is actually very fragile. Similarly, the education people have received since childhood and the accumulation of their conscience have no greater influence on a person than the temptation of a cigarette or a glass of wine. According to the punishment regulations of a foreign conference department, all employees will be dismissed from "accepting customer ballpoint pens ...".

In the traditional culture of China, there are some so-called aphorisms that harm people unconsciously. One day, its toxicity is its deception. This stupid statement, which was advertised as lofty by the literati, is an explanation of a plant phenomenon that has nothing to do with human beings. After several exchanges, it has become an ideal pursued by people.

Throughout the ages, how many people have come out of the mud without being defiled? Emperor Yang Di, Hitler, Jia Baoyu, Li Zicheng and drug addicts, who are not infected? Everyone should dye it except the petals of the lotus. How can this be considered inspirational? It is a lie to say that smoking heavy cigarettes is not addictive, fighting with bears does not hurt, and bathing with sulfuric acid does not leave scars. Lotus is a flower, and people are people. The two cannot be compared at all. Why are there no melon seeds on people's faces? Why not leave the bees? Because you are not a sunflower.

This "maxim" accords with the hypocrisy in people's minds, that is, doing evil with impunity. In other words, you can't be a villain by doing evil occasionally. Why, you can "get out of the mud without being stained".

As far as human beings are concerned, in terms of wars, terrorist activities, crimes and unfair behaviors that occur every day in the world, people's hearts are far from evolving to the level of persuasion. Some great evils are often accumulated by small evils (diffusion and fission). No matter who you are, you haven't reached the realm of "getting out of the mud without being stained".

In other words, people should not test God with a weak immune system. God is not stupid, but those who drill into the mud.

It is safer to stay away from sludge than to study how to drill sludge to bloom.

Barguet vilen's "Cultivating Good Ideas"

Once upon a time, there was a monk named Pan in Tibet. He meditated every day and put two piles of black and white pebbles in front of him to distinguish good thoughts from evil thoughts. Be good at thinking about the present, put a white stone aside, and when evil thoughts appear, take a black stone.

Good thoughts in Buddhism are for the benefit of the public, while evil thoughts do not simply refer to fleeting pleasure thoughts in the mind, but also greed, jealousy, anger and so on, which can all be called evil thoughts. Fraud and theft are already crimes.

From now on, good thoughts are kindness, and evil thoughts are just desires. What is desire? "It is the main tool for our survival" (Rousseau). Due to the guidance of desire, life overcomes all kinds of difficulties and moves towards satisfaction. "Therefore, in order to maintain our survival, we must examine ourselves and love ourselves above all else" (Rousseau). It can be seen that selfish nature has been deeply rooted in human nature, and the so-called desire is actually the way to survive, and there should be no distinction between good and evil. However, there must be a limit to love yourself, beyond which it may become evil or even sin. And people's desires are endless. Therefore, for the benefit of all, love yourself and the environment in which you live, and notice that others need love. Love that cannot be pushed to others and the environment is called ruthlessness, which is the generation of evil.

A person regards love as others and the environment, including plants and animals, which Buddhism calls "goodness". Seeing the poor children and grandmothers in the bitter cold with their own eyes, it is another great kindness to feel a little sympathy in their hearts. This feeling is called "sadness". The word sympathy sounds a little old, and some people even think it's a cliche. In fact, it has crossed the times and is a great realm for people. Today's popular "care" and "warmth" are just modern versions of it, with the same connotation.

Kindness is actually a small flame. If it is not carefully protected, it will swirl in your heart. It's not that it's good to benefit all generations. For example, it is suggested to level the Himalayas, let the warm current of the Indian Ocean flood in and turn the arid northwest land into a tropical rainforest. This goodness is great, but we have to wait too long. There is an ancient poem: "Always feed on rats, pity moths don't light lamps." Although trivial, I feel warm after reading it, which is bigger than the warm current in the Indian Ocean.

Master Pan Gongjie distinguishes good from evil in black and white gems and shows himself at night. At first, there were many black stones. He slapped himself in the face and even blamed himself bitterly: Do you still repent in your misery? After more than 30 years, all of them became white stones, and the master practiced Bodhi Road.

We can't reach the pure realm of a monk. There is nothing wrong with loving yourself. We are mortal, but no matter how far egoism goes, you will be a good person with good thoughts.