1, talking about money

RV, decoration

What is the budget? Who will buy it? If * * * contributes, what is the proportion and how to repay the loan?

Bride price, dowry

What are the local customs and what do parents think? Is it for the elderly or as a start-up fund for small families?

Debt problem

Are you in debt before marriage, and how much is still unpaid?

childbirth fund

How much do I need to deposit in advance?

financial power/capacity/resources

Who will take care of the money, or will each take care of his own business?

household spending

How do two people share? What are the fixed expenses?

wedding

Where is it? How much will it cost?

Save money, manage money

How much do you save every month and how much can you invest?

Interpersonal public relations

How much should I spend to honor my parents and give red envelopes to my children during the New Year?

2. Interpersonal relationship between the two parties after marriage

Do you want to live with your parents after you get married? Long stay or short stay? What is the attitude of both parents towards your marriage? Respect your own ideas, or interfere in your life everywhere? Are there any other brothers and sisters who need help or support? Parents are in good health, do they have a pension? Do you need to provide financial and energy support for the elderly in the future?

3. Division of labor in married life

Who cares about the big things at home and the small things? Who is in charge? Who is in charge? How to share housework? Do you ask your aunt to clean once a week? Or do it yourself? Earn more: do less, help, earn less: take more, or ask your aunt for help.

4. Talk about parenting

Do you want children after marriage, when and how many? Who will take care of the baby and whether the parents will help? Who will accompany me for every pregnancy test? What about the moon? Do I need to go to the Confucius Center? Do you need to have a little sister-in-law

How to deal with women's unemployment or income reduction due to childbirth? Education for children? Who sings a good COP? Who plays the bad COP? Children's future education planning? Education fund reserve?