There must be a lot of feelings in everyone's heart to savor a famous book. Why not calm down and write your reading notes? How to write reading notes and avoid writing "running accounts"? The following are my reading notes (6 selections) of A Good Mother is Better than a Good Teacher. Welcome to read the collection.

A good mother is better than a good teacher 1 I want to be a good mother, but I don't have any parenting experience. I think about the experience of being taken care of by my parents as a child and whether I can do better as a parent.

1, improve the quality of love

About injections. My son is one and a half years old. He cried loudly every time he was vaccinated. I told the truth many times in advance, but crying didn't improve significantly. Is it because some of my actions magnified the injection and increased his fear?

About atomization. The cold is atomized, and the baby has resistance. Later, before atomization, I asked him to observe how others did it, and then handed him the atomized mask. He accepted it like a toy, held it for a few minutes like other older children, and then pulled it down to watch. Helpless, my dad said that my method didn't work, but he still insisted. So Cai began to resist again. In fact, it seems to me that Wang Neng has made great progress by accepting to hold it for a few minutes. After all, the last time the aerosol mask touched him, he began to resist. This incident also reminded me that raising children is not just a mother's business. My father is usually very busy and not good at studying. I not only have to study by myself, but also have the responsibility to convey my experience to my father in time so that my pig teammates can keep up with the times.

As for playing tricks on children, I haven't met him at this point. It's bound to happen when he grows up. As a mother, I should protect my children and learn to say no to relatives who tease them too much.

Share a poem written by Mr. Tao Xingzhi in the book: It is said that children are small and children are not small. If you think children are young, then you are younger than children. To improve the quality of love, in my opinion, the most important thing is to respect children and communicate with them equally.

2. Learning is easy.

With so much written in the book, my overall feeling is that early learning is mainly based on reading, and reading interest needs to be cultivated. Children with good study habits will certainly not study too badly. Compared with my own growth path, my parents often put me in a bookstore because of my busy work when I was a child. Slowly, I became interested in reading, and this interest has continued until now, and because of this interest, I developed a good habit of reading. Every night, the scene of our family reading in bed makes me feel particularly warm. I told my son a story and was very happy to see him fascinated.

I don't know how to accompany him, so I accompany him to study. Because reading is really an activity that can deepen relationships without physical constraints.

3. Character education and habit cultivation

In my opinion, these are more subtle, because I am only one and a half years old, and my feelings for these two pieces are not so deep. When I was growing up, my parents didn't tell me what qualities I wanted. All my habits are in my daily life. Lead by example, they influenced me with their words and deeds. I want to be as quiet as parents are to their children.

4. Parents' wisdom

"Parents control the fate of their children. Any plan to change children must start with changing parents. The "one-thought difference" in parents' educational concept can make the fate of children vary widely. Being a parent is something that needs persistent study and practice. When we create a child, we have an obligation not only to make him grow up, but also to make him happy. This road is still very long, and I need to keep exploring. His progress is also my growth.

5, the child is no small matter.

As a working mother, I can't participate in many small things of my one-and-a-half-year-old son at present, so I can only follow the thoughts of the elderly at home. I will turn a blind eye to the unprincipled little things, and let my parents say the principled things. In my opinion, it is best for the elderly to take care of their children happily, for us to go to work with peace of mind and for our families to be harmonious and warm.

6. Educational misunderstanding

This paragraph of feeling is not profound. After all, school education is aimed at most people, and there will inevitably be limitations and imperfections. I can't change this situation. Therefore, only by letting children adapt, change themselves and pay more attention to family education, the combination of home and school is the best education.

A good mother is better than a good teacher. This book is comprehensive, and some educational ideas put forward in it bring me a new perspective of parenting. I hope we can all pursue our own growth and be model parents forever.

A good mother is better than a good teacher. Reading Notes 2 I read the book A good mother is better than a good teacher a long time ago. What impressed me the most at that time was the author's parenting concept of "moistening things quietly" This year I picked up this book and settled down to read it carefully. I didn't expect many chapters in the book to inspire how to be a good teacher. What impressed me most was the author's thoughtless education, which seemed simple, but more expensive than persistence; It seems easy, but it is often ignored; Bit by bit, it embodies advanced education and teaching concepts everywhere. Especially the following aspects, I am deeply touched.

First, respect students and children.

In traditional thinking, we always want students to listen to us, study according to our ideas and instructions, listen carefully in class and finish their homework on time after class. Under this management thinking mode, students' subjective initiative is excessively restricted, which eventually leads to students' passive learning. So I think the most important idea conveyed by the author is to respect students, treat them equally and guide them to do everything well, instead of arranging everything for him or doing everything well for him. Give him more encouragement, strengthen his advantages and summarize them, instead of repeatedly emphasizing his shortcomings or mistakes. If students want to improve their academic performance, they must try their best to protect their interest in learning. "Interest is the best teacher", with a strong thirst for knowledge, will inevitably bring about better and better changes in all aspects of students.

Second, strengthen children's extracurricular reading.

In the usual education work, we will find that some students with good grades read a lot after class and their grades are getting better and better; However, some students with poor grades are not focused in class, and they are greedy to cope with homework after class, so they have no time to take care of extracurricular reading, leading to a vicious circle; In addition, some students have average grades and can never be promoted. I found that the main reason is that children's study habits are not good, and they can't calm down and think about things and do one thing seriously, so people become impetuous and careless in their studies, and their grades are difficult to come up.

So I also pay special attention to cultivating my son's reading habits. No matter how busy I am every day, I will accompany my son to read for half an hour. After a long time, I found that my son won't sleep without reading. I am glad to find that some Chinese teachers in our school often lead students to read together, cultivate students' reading habits and improve their reading ability, so that our school can truly become a school located in the library.

Third, pay attention to the moral education of students in daily teaching.

The author believes that personality determines fate, childhood determines life, and personality education for children is actually reflected in daily life and study. I think it is also necessary to apply this viewpoint in education and teaching. People often say that what kind of parents bring out what kind of children, what kind of class teacher brings out what kind of classes, which actually reflects that the character of parents, class teachers and teachers has a very important influence on children, so I think that to "educate people" we must first "cultivate ourselves", and teachers should pay more attention to the character education of students in their daily study and life, and use themselves to influence and educate students. In particular, our discipline of ethics and rule of law should give full play to its educational function and educate students to love the motherland, the people, labor, science and socialism.

Although a good mother is better than a good teacher is a book about family education, I think as an educator, I can also be inspired by this book from the perspective of education and teaching, master more educational wisdom and think more about educational issues, so that I can not only be a good mother, but also a good teacher.

"A good mother is better than a good teacher" Reading Notes 3 Being a mother for the first time is a little nervous and a little excited, afraid of not doing well and being too spoiled. Recently, I read the first parenting book recommended by my colleagues, Yin Jianli's A Good Mother Is Better than a Good Teacher. Although the baby is only seven months old, I think I have gained a lot from reading the whole book. Some knowledge will be used sooner or later, and some methods need to be adjusted in time during the child's growth.

Different people have different perceptions of the same book. The following are the better methods and ideas summarized by my novice mother in the book.

1, treat children with some ideas and cognition as equal as possible. Don't scare the children, make it clear to them. For example, an injection hurts a little, but the pain is tolerable. Why do you need an injection? Let children identify with each other, not be intimidated.

2. Don't play tricks on children. Teasing and teasing are two different concepts. Teasing is to make children happy in a way that children can accept.

3. Treat people and things around you with a kind and open mind, such as rubbing pain on a small bench, and let children feel this understanding, goodwill and respect through new ways of thinking.

4. Ancient poetry nourishes children. Think of the story as singing and experience the sense of law.

5. Childhood needs trial and error and disobedience. Give children the right to make mistakes. Children are curious about everything and are allowed to make mistakes in some cases. Most of children's faults lie in immaturity, which requires a process. Just like you and me, many of us have grown up step by step.

6. Take learning as an easy thing. Learning is not a punishment, and children can't feel that learning to write homework is a punishment for him. At the same time, it is also necessary to tempt children to study, create an environment and set an example. At the same time, in the early stage of children's growth, the focus of children is reading, not reading useful books. Only by expanding knowledge and reading extensively can children's composition level be influenced subtly.

7. Conduct character education in daily life.

8. For learning, you don't have to limit yourself to 100, and you will be rewarded if you do well in the exam. Rewards should not be used as bait to do well in the exam.

9. Is it the best pipe?

10, not afraid of small animals.

In fact, every family and every child is different, and there will definitely be various situations on the road of growing up with children. Some things really can't be generalized, and the relevant theories and methods in the book may need to be adjusted in time. But in any case, in a loving family environment, we can grow and progress together with our baby.

Although our sunne is only seven and a half months old, she wakes up happy every morning. If no one around him wakes up, he starts patting his parents with his little hands, and he must wake up one.

A good mother is better than a good teacher. Reading Notes 4 A good mother is better than a good teacher. I have read this book before, and I am impressed that it is a very practical and impressive book. In recent years, I have also spent a lot of thoughts on educating children, but the effect has not reached my ideal effect, and some good habits of children have not yet been developed. Come to think of it, there are still many places to be improved in the process of educating my son. With the mentality of seeking a good education, I read this book again some time ago. In the process of reading, combined with the author's views and educational methods, I constantly reflect on my own educational behavior and ideas, which has benefited a lot. This is really a good book that parents should read carefully! In order to make family education work together, I have always recommended reading to my family.

The author, Ms. Yin Jianli, is an educator with practical experience in school education, a large number of psychological counseling cases and a certain educational theoretical basis. Of course, she is also a successful parent, and her daughter is well educated by her. During the reading process, the following items left a deep impression on me.

First, how to let children watch TV moderately?

Watching TV is passive reading, which has little influence on people's development and growth. Why do children like watching TV? It is often because his family also likes watching TV. Whether children watch TV or not, parents must first restrain their own behavior and restrain their children's impulse to watch TV. Parents should not watch TV in the living room alone, but blame their children for not studying hard in the room.

If a child likes watching TV for a while, let him watch it with peace of mind, let him enjoy the process, and don't make him feel guilty about watching TV. After all, watching TV properly is also a good relaxation; If you don't watch TV, you may talk less with friends your age.

Second, read a lot.

Almost all educational experts believe that reading can not only increase children's knowledge, develop their thinking and enrich their emotions. Children who have had many reading experiences have great learning stamina and strong explosive power, and can catch up later. Yin Jianli said: A child who loves reading is a child who is pointed at by a wand. You may be temporarily behind in your studies, but if you work hard, you will catch up soon.

Third, consciousness.

Do children need to accompany their homework? Is it necessary for someone to watch while practicing the piano? These behaviors will hinder them from forming good habits. Parents don't get angry and don't give too much guidance, so that children can take the initiative to adjust, and they should always create initiative and a sense of accomplishment for their children. Too much control will make the effect worse.

Fourth, learning is your own business.

There is no reward for doing well in the exam. Many parents will give their children some material or spiritual rewards because they have achieved good results in an exam. Learning is actually a child's own business. With more rewards, children will gradually feel that learning is an adult's business. The purpose of learning is to get some rewards, while ignoring the fun of learning itself. Of course, don't criticize if you fail in the exam.

Fifth, detail education.

What seems small to us is a big deal to children. Besides spending more time and energy on children's education, we should also be good at dealing with some "small things". Children are not carefree all day, they also have their own thoughts and puzzles, even pain and sadness. Parents should make good use of the way of observing children, find problems from details, guide children to say problems in a convincing way and solve problems in an appropriate way. Every detail of getting along with children is a moral education and a psychological counseling.

Sixth, don't let children "obey".

Not wanting children to "obey" is not to cultivate unruly wild children, but parents should not always say to their children: you should be obedient, you should be good, and you should listen to parents, teachers and elders. There are two disadvantages to saying this.

One is to give children a hint that you are not good enough to meet our standards.

Second, it will make children lose the opportunity to think and reflect independently.

Children who are used to listening to "authority" for a long time may have no opinions when they meet things, and they will grovel, which is not conducive to the formation of a sound personality.

Seven, don't worry.

Nowadays, many people have become impatient in this eager society. Everything is expected to get immediate results. Life is a long run, don't just look at the starting point, but the second place in Guangdong. The child made a mistake, should he criticize it immediately? Many people say: just point it out at once and let him correct it in time.

But I think that if a child makes a mistake, parents immediately criticize the child and point out his mistake, which may not be effective; What's more, if you yell, the effect will only be worse. Because of parents' reprimand and condemnation, children will not feel guilty and ashamed, but will gain psychological balance and lose the opportunity of introspection.

Eight, tolerant children.

Every child has advantages, but also some inherent shortcomings or deficiencies, which are difficult to overcome. Don't always compare your children with other people's children. For some mistakes made by children, if they do not involve moral issues, there is no need to blame or get angry, or even raise them. Children themselves will feel inconvenience and loss in the process and know what to do in the future. If you have to say it, look for another opportunity later, and point out his mistakes seemingly unintentionally, casually and inadvertently.

Nine, don't pursue perfection.

Don't test 100. Don't be the first, try to be the second. The score only reflects the child's learning level in a certain period of time. The most important thing is to let children have curiosity about knowledge, the spirit of loving research, the ability to ask questions, the interest in finding answers, effective learning methods and a peaceful learning mentality. Pursuing a hundred points every time and trying to surpass others will put a lot of pressure on children, which is counterproductive. Just let him do his best. Doing his best is enough.

Ten, to believe in children.

Perhaps because of many experiences, adults often lack trust and are suspicious of the world. When it comes to teaching children, there is often such a worry: Is what children say true? Did he lie? Specific to some things at home, I often wonder if children did it. Wait a minute. In fact, the child is very pure inside. The more worried an adult is about his bad behavior, the more curious he will be, and the easier it is for him to develop this kind of bad behavior.

"A good mother is better than a good teacher" Reading Notes 5 As a parent, no one does not love their children, and no one does not want their children to be successful. Me too, I don't want them to lose at the starting line. I always want to give her more homework and let her write more and practice more. Perhaps only in this way can children learn well. But children are not like this. They don't finish their homework on time every day. They dawdled until nine o'clock while writing, let alone doing their homework. They always complain about too much homework. After scribbling, I read it and wiped it, and the child burst into tears. In desperation, the child cried and wrote. I hate homework in my heart and hate me. Even afraid of doing homework. I can't help losing her temper when I see her like that, full of anger. I feel that I am not satisfied with what she has done. Her self-care ability is too poor. Hey, I'm angry. I don't know what to do. What I did was too blunt, which was a bit of a hindrance.

That day, I remembered the book "A good mother is better than a good teacher" that Teacher Zhao once advised our parents to read, so I bought one. I just read less than half of it, and I think it's well written and reasonable. I think this is a revelation. It is not the children who are wrong, but myself and my educational methods. It is time for me to reflect on myself. The child is a blank sheet of paper, and all the problems in the child are from our parents. Now it's really wrong for me to complain about children's poor abilities in all aspects.

Fortunately, it is not too late to find this problem. It's worth it from now on. Learning begins with interest, diligence begins with habit, and habit begins with the little things you insist on doing. I must change some of my bad habits at once to influence the child to change the bad habits she has developed a little bit. I must find a way to make her interested in learning, make her have confidence in herself, make learning a pleasure, and perhaps improve this situation.

As a mother, she knows her children best. Yang Jialu was used to relying on adults since childhood, that is, we have too many things to do, so our self-care ability is too poor, which has formed inertia, including not loving homework, not loving labor, not loving hands and brains, and so on. Think about it. It's all our parents' fault, and we can't just blame our children for being poor. So, I started with her homework and thought of an unsatisfactory method to try. I got an honor list and told her, "If you finish your homework within the time specified by your mother today, you can get a little red flower if you make less than two mistakes.". Enough, you can buy something you like for less than 5 yuan. " She is happy to do her homework, and the time is shorter than usual. She did as I said, and this time she corrected her mistake without tears or resentment.

I turned anger into praise, and she seemed a little confident. Slowly, her handwriting is much better than before, and more praise can make children progress more than criticism. As written in the book, even if you criticize a child, you need to choose a method that can protect the child's self-esteem and make her realize her mistakes and be willing to correct them. I know it's hard, and I've found my way. I want to tell her a similar story, give some examples, and so on. How to implement it specifically requires more brains. You can't always blame children, but also reflect on yourself. This is what I understand best.

There are still many problems I face now. For example, she is too careless, too lazy, unwilling to use her hands and brains, and unwilling to create when she encounters difficulties. Maybe this is something we have never cultivated for her. Take your time. Change her little by little. I'm going to spend more time and thoughts with him, watch more interesting things and find something she is interested in to exercise her.

Besides, I want to read more books with her. She is too lazy to read, but only likes to listen. I've changed a little now, that is, it's agreed in advance. I'll read half of it and read the rest myself. Not bad. Curiosity made her willing to read the remaining half. Later, she thought it was expensive to buy books all the time, so she didn't want to read them after reading them. She always wants to read new books. For this reason, I found that there is a library in Dongcheng with all kinds of books, which is quite good, so I gave her a library card, and she can borrow books every week, so that she can read many kinds of books without spending money, and the environment there is very angry. The children who borrow books there come from different grades.

Maybe this environment can change her. Her library card has her photo and name on it, so she feels very proud. Everyone told her about it, and she was very willing to go to the library. Take your time. I hope what I have done can make her improve. It seems that I have to read more books to find more wisdom!

In the future, I will not only cultivate good study habits for children, but also pay more attention to the cultivation of children's interest in learning, communicate with children more and have a healthy personality. Let children develop morally, intellectually, physically and aesthetically. It is easier said than done, but I believe that as long as you start from scratch with your heart and wisdom, I think more problems will be solved.

The child is ours, but she belongs to herself. She is a thoughtful and independent person. I should respect her more and help her. I hope the role in her eyes is not only a mother, but also a friend. Guiding correctly in a more appropriate way will be better than tough orders.

I want to be a qualified mother, so I have to work harder. Children are seedlings in our hands. We need the soil of love, hard work and the sunshine of wisdom to thrive. We have confidence because we love her very much.

A good mother is better than a good teacher. Reading notes 6. Yin Jianli: A good mother is better than a good teacher. This book was her godson's notebook in 16. Mother is a friend, a teacher and a guide for children. Different ways of mother's education often affect the child's life!

After reading the article "Only if you don't accompany me can you cultivate good habits", I was deeply touched. I remember that when my son started to do his homework in the first grade, he moved a stool and sat staring at it, which was very vivid. From grade one to grade three. I'm just afraid that the children will write their homework wrong. Find out that your son has done something wrong and tell him to correct it in time. After learning this article, I realized that accompanying children to do homework is not to cultivate their good habits, but to disintegrate good habits and kill their self-control day by day. After reading this book, I began to put it down, trying to get out of it and let him finish the meeting himself. If not, I will instruct him to find a way to do it. The habit of "companionship" is only physical, and "no companionship" leaves room for children to grow up in their hearts. "Companionship" is not so much to help a child as to create trouble for him.

A good mother is better than a good teacher, emphasizing the importance of family education. As an independent individual, every child's family is his first and most important educational place, and his parents are the first teachers who have the most profound influence on him. If a person doesn't get a good family education, school education is likely to be difficult to achieve normally for him-in this sense, "mother" is more important than "teacher".

A good mother is better than a good teacher, and the author's daughter is round everywhere, which shows her advantages. I just want to put forward some correct educational ideas and share some effective educational experiences with more parents through my own "case" of educating my daughter.

May all children in the world enjoy a good education, and may all parents in the world feel beautiful and happy in the process of raising their children!

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