1, he came to borrow money and had to pay him back. If he doesn't promise to pay back the money, he will never lend it to him again. Some people bully the weak and fear the hard, and honestly humiliate others, which is why they make excessive behaviors again and again. When I was a child, a relative of our family always borrowed money from my parents every so often. My father is a very respectable person. He always goes out to lend him money when he has no money at home. He left happily, so our family had to live a poor life and eat bran vegetables. Later, he came several times. At that time, life was hard. My mother was very angry and told him that you would give me back the last sum of money this time. If you don't come, you can't borrow any more money from our family. No one's money was blown by the strong wind, but it was hard earned. If you are happy and do whatever you want with the money, we will starve, and neither the elderly nor the children can afford to eat. This is immoral. He must be warned to pay back the money quickly.
Don't lend him any more money. This is the last time. Don't feel kidnapped by his family. The reason why he keeps doing such things again and again is because he knows that we are a noodle eggplant, so he has always taken advantage of us and borrowed money from us. Some people just think we're embarrassed. If we allow him to do this, it is tantamount to acquiescence that they can't pay us back. Why? We don't lend money to such dishonest people, let alone relatives. They kidnapped us for affection. No matter whether you have family conditions or not, you must think it over before you promise such a person. Don't worry about saying yes or no, because I have had several such experiences, and I can't lend him any more money, or I can only suffer from dumb losses.
There are always some people in this society who like to be hermits and take advantage of others. They always feel that other people's money is easy to earn but not their own. Why are they so rich and why are we so poor? Attributing one's failure to work hard to others who are luckier than oneself, such people have a bad mentality and a wrong starting point, so they make mistakes again and again. And we connive at traitors, so from this moment on, we must not lend him money and break his financial path, so he will work hard and be diligent.