Love is a very beautiful thing, because the process of falling in love will make you feel happy, but love will go through many stages.
It is impossible to remain in love all the time.
If you stay together for a long time, your relationship will become dull.
After things get boring, you have to find ways to keep things fresh.
So, what is the secret to keeping a relationship fresh? One: Cultivate a sense of ritual? Life requires a sense of ritual. To put it bluntly, it makes you feel that you are living, not surviving.
The sense of etiquette does not need to be so gorgeous, it needs to be attentive.
Removing the plastic wrapping of new books is also a ritual.
The smaller things are, the more they can test a person's carefulness; the more careful people are, the better they understand life.
A sense of ritual allows us to become the masters of life instead of being pushed around by life.
The sense of ritual is not the end, but the process.
The ritual is not about buying a bouquet of flowers and having dinner with him, but why you want to buy a bouquet of flowers and having dinner with him.
Two: In-depth communication without words, most marriages fail.
A relationship starts with communication, and if there is nothing left to talk about, the relationship will deteriorate or end.
When asked "What is the best marriage?" someone once said that the most important thing in marriage is communication, and two people should have something to say.
Unhappiness in marriage is not due to lack of love, but to lack of communication like a confidant.
Why do couples become less and less talkative in marriage? Lack of awareness, lack of awareness of their partner's words, deeds, feelings, and needs, neglect of their partner's emotional awareness, and becoming more and more "lazy at communicating."
Most couples who break up delay or put off giving.
Three: Have similar interests and hobbies and learn to appreciate each other. Actively exploring your similar interests will strengthen your relationship and keep it fresh.
Find a suitable time to do the things you like together.
Only in harmony with each other can love last forever.
You have to remember that even if you are together for a long time, you must remember to appreciate each other and appreciate each other.
Only in this way can your love be happier and fresher.
Four: Don’t rely too much on the other person and keep your own sense of mystery. Although each other should be honest with each other in the face of love, maintaining a sense of mystery does not mean deliberately hiding something from the other party.
Women should maintain their own sense of mystery at all times, especially in front of their lover. Distance creates beauty. Stay independent and don't rely too much on the other person. Only in this way can the love between each other be sweet and fresh.