Wang Qi is 65 years old. She has a son and a daughter. She got married and set up her own business. She doesn't need him to support her life. Two years ago, he was introduced to Liu Shuang. The two shared similar interests and soon re-established their families and got married. After marriage, Liu Shuang likes dressing up very much, and often takes Wang Qi shopping to buy clothes. When traveling with relatives, Wang Qi also needs to pay a fee. When Liu Shuang's mother died, Wang Qi spent about 1 ten thousand yuan for her. Liu Shuang likes life very much. When she first asked Wang Qi to take her on a trip, she spent 20,000 yuan on a gold bracelet. When she goes out again, she wants to buy a silver bracelet. Wang Qi is just an ordinary working people. He worked hard in the first half of the year, saved some savings and lived a stable old age. However, Liu Shuang wants to buy it every two days. In Wang Qi's view, he is lying. Money. In the two years after their marriage, his son was very friendly to Liu Shuang and kept calling his mother. He didn't know why Liu Shuang didn't want to help these children, but he was shocked to know that Liu Shuang had spoken.
When Liu Shuang heard Wang Qi say that she cheated money, she said angrily: I earn tens of thousands of dollars a year as a nanny, but he didn't give me much money, let alone me. Second marriage is just for enjoyment. Live, live in a world of two people. Wang Qi and her son live in the same community. His son is the administrator of the community and needs to be responsible for the lunch of two security guards every day. After Liu Shuang and Wang Qi got married, this task fell on her shoulders. For Liu Shuang's sake, she is willing to take care of Wang Qi, but if she asks her to pay more, she will complain. It was not until Wang Qi asked her to take care of her grandson that all her emotions were aroused. Liu Shuang went straight back to his son. He said that if Wang Qi insisted on helping his grandson, he only needed to live alone. If Wang Qi doesn't want to be separated, he will rent a house near his son with her and help pick up his grandson. Liu Shuang, this is indeed a "famous double standard". She didn't want to help Wang Qi stay with her grandson, but she asked Wang Qi to help her son and grandson stay with her alone. This is really a good calculation.
Wang Qi's daughter-in-law said that if Liu Shuang agreed to help her take care of the children, she would give 2,000 yuan a month, but Wang Qi probably thought the money was too much, so she didn't tell Liu Shuang, causing Liu Shuang to run away in a rage. After Liu Shuang married Wang Qi for a period of time, she applied for an endowment insurance fund to prevent Wang Qi from dying prematurely. She had no pension. Wang Qi thought Liu Shuang was reasonable and gave her 50,000 yuan. As their relationship broke down and they could not continue to live, Wang Qi asked Liu Shuang to return the 50,000 yuan to her. However, Liu Shuang resolutely refused to pay off, thinking that this 50,000 yuan could be used as Wang Qi's labor remuneration, otherwise these two years' efforts would be in vain. Wang Qi believes that they are husband and wife, not an employment relationship. He can give some compensation, but it is impossible to give Liu Shuang 50,000 yuan in full. Finally, in order to prevent them from becoming enemies, Liu Shuang finally agreed to return 25,000 yuan, ending this short evening.
For the second marriage, we must think positively about the problem of "money" and don't pretend to arrange other people's lives. This will only make two people more and more alienated, regard each other as a foreign land, stop each other, and the marriage will lose its meaning.