In today's society, people are impetuous. When people reach middle age, many people spit out the class reunion, which generally reflects that the class reunion is "stale", but some people always yearn for the friendship of classmates and enjoy the pleasure brought by the class reunion. Let's take our couple as an example. Not long ago, they attended their respective classmates' parties. I lifted the table and my wife came back and called "happy and enjoyable". The same couple, how can there be such a big gap in life?
my wife and I are alumni, not classmates. In this city, there are different students, and there is not much intersection between them. As it happens, my husband and I are going to attend a class reunion on the same day. I'm not doing well or bad, and I keep a safe attitude towards the reunion. And my wife is one of their classmates' enthusiastic fans.
At the class reunion I attended, there were 256 people, but three tables were not enough. The old monitor also wanted to save money, so he suggested making two tables. A classmate who is a boss waved and said, "We are not short of money. Let's have three tables. Sit spacious. This party is my treat." The party hasn't started yet, and the contest of showing off has already begun. Another boy who mixed well was unhappy. "Don't mind, I'm an e-commerce company this year. The market is so good that I made a small fortune. I'll pay the bill this time. Whoever grabs me is in a hurry."
Before the monitor spoke, Lao Li, who had the worst academic record in those years and now has the biggest business, said slowly, "How much is a table of food worth? You two argue, I'll ask the director of the office to move two boxes of vintage Maotai and two soft Chinese. " This move was "spicy" enough, and it was extraordinary, giving people a kind of "amazing" that "the strength has not allowed me to keep a low profile". The two students who grabbed the bill were silent, which made the school girl look at Lao Li with a smile. After all, Lao Li pursued her crazily in those years, but she was not even a "spare tire".
After three rounds of drinking, the class reunion set off a small climax of boasting, pretending and showing off. Some students who don't mix well quietly taste good wine and watch those who mix well "jealously jealous". The beauty queen who stood out from the crowd in those days is not married well now and has become the object of girls' "pie mouth". In particular, seeing the beauty queen playing with Lao Li, and drinking a "toast", a group of people began to raise seedlings together. Lao Li's hands and feet are also dishonest, causing boys and girls to scream.
at this moment, the monitor talked about one thing: the class teacher was seriously ill, so can we make a donation? Suddenly, the wine table was silent. I couldn't stand it anymore, and offered to donate 1, yuan, and those ordinary students followed suit. Everyone looked at Lao Li, and Lao Li waved his hand and said, what are you looking at me for? The money I earned was not blown by the strong wind. The monitor said, Lao Li, the head teacher punished you that year, but also for your own good. Don't hold grudges. Lao Li smiled coldly: Then I'll pay 1, yuan, too, to keep up with you.
A girl named Mei Zi didn't answer the phone. I know she didn't have a good life after graduation. Her husband had a car accident, her children had chronic diseases and her life was very poor. This girl never goes to parties, just because she doesn't want her classmates to know that she is so down and out, and she is worried that her classmates will look down on her. In those days, she was the top three in her class.
At this moment, Lao Li stared at her and said, The head teacher used to spoil you the most. Why didn't you say anything? The girl turned red and bowed her head silently. I was so angry that I lifted the table on the spot: Lao Li, you carried out several boxes of vintage wine. Everyone thanked you for your contribution to the party, but why did you embarrass Mei Zi? Plum ran out of the hotel with tears in her eyes, which caused everyone to break up in discord. On my way home, I was ready to quit the group, when I found that 16 people in my classmates quit the group.
When my wife came back, she excitedly said to me: At this class reunion, she met three old classmates whom she hadn't seen for ten years. Everyone drank heartily and made friends. I was so excited, so happy and so happy that I called "enjoyable". I sat in the living room sulking and told my wife about the bad worries of the reunion. My wife said that the key to the reunion is how to organize it.
At the beginning of the party, my wife's classmates also had some unpleasant things, such as who organized, who paid the bill, who accompanied them, and so on. After summing up and reflecting, they established a "fund" model for class reunion, which was handed over to 5 yuan by three enthusiastic girls. Every time students from other places come to this city, no matter who they are looking for, they are handed over to the "party group" for handling.
These three girls choose hotels with good quality and low price, elegant environment and moderate price, consult their classmates, and make overall arrangements for who will pick up the bus, who will order food, who will pay the bill, who will take the bus, who will accompany their classmates to visit the city, who will be responsible for buying souvenirs, and so on. The budget of each party does not exceed 1 yuan per capita, which will be deducted from the fund, and then the accounts will be made public in the group, without giving anyone a chance to "pretend".
My wife showed me their accounts: You see, each classmate can get together at least five or six times by paying 5 yuan. If there is a classmate who doesn't attend for a long time, we will return the money to him. Everyone has reached a common understanding, without any opinions, without any comparison, and there will be no complaints afterwards. Class reunion is not a one-off deal, and no one wants to attend it once. The friendship between classmates also needs to be nurtured and managed continuously, so as to maintain the friendship for a long time, Mika. Therefore, the key to class reunion is organization.
I bowed my head in shame after listening to my wife's words. The organizer is very important if we want to run the class reunion well. Everyone who participates should support and cooperate to make the class reunion "original".
the flowers are similar from year to year, and people are different from year to year. There is such an emotion in the world. Although we can't get together from time to time, we can feel at home. This is the feeling of classmates. Classmate friendship is a lifelong love affair. The reunion of classmates is by no means a stage to show their proud career and prosperous business. Instead, they are depicting the rainbow that has experienced vicissitudes of life, reliving the dreamy mood, and narrating the pure friendship between teachers and students.
why did the class reunion end in discord? The lesson of 16 people quitting the group: it's not too late to know this trick. You say, should it be like this?