Have you ever known that there is something worse than poverty in this world, that is, a poor heart and full of negative energy? Being poor is actually not terrible. It's a big deal to save some money and spend less money to live. The poor should not be rejected. Everyone is born in different environments and has different experiences. Being poor doesn't mean that he can't do it.

Material poverty is not terrible. What we are most afraid of is meeting a poor-hearted person. He is poor not only materially, but also in his bones. Following a person with negative energy, you can only see bad scenery forever. In the long run, your optimism will be drained and your enthusiasm will be worn away.

Material shortage can be made up by money. If the heart is barren, it is doomed to be barren all its life. Getting along with people with negative energy is, in the final analysis, a kind of internal friction.

In life, there are many people who are too idle, because they have leisure time to think and think, idle time to gossip about their parents and westerners, idle time to indulge in some mother-in-law things, and idle time to gossip about themselves.

No matter whether you are free or not, he will pull you to say all kinds of irrelevant and unimportant things. If you don't know how to refuse, you will only be entangled in him and talk endlessly.

In life, too much negative energy will make a passionate person and a struggling person become decadent and lose their way forward.

think about it, if you want to do a good job, there are always a group of people around you who satirize you; If you want to be excellent, there will always be a group of people blocking you; If you want to lead an honest and clean life, a group of people will drag you desperately into the mud pit, filled with all kinds of ridicule, satire and right and wrong, and your confidence and enthusiasm will be exhausted bit by bit, and eventually you will become something you hate.

Some negative people, who don't know how to make progress themselves, still want to drag others into the water. These are the people who hold us back. If you want to succeed, you must stay away from them. Especially young people who have just entered the society, they should pay special attention to this kind of people because of their lack of experience. Simply, learn from a loser, and you will not only get nothing, but also become nothing like him.

if you want to make a difference in this life, please remember that people who say they can't do something are actually mostly losers. Therefore, such people's opinions are hard to listen to.

please beware of those who say you can't do it, especially those with negative attitudes, who are a stumbling block to your success.

Zeng Guofan knew: "Choosing friends is the first priority in life."

once, Zeng Guofan's younger brother wanted to go to Hengyang to study, and Zeng Guofan was very opposed to it, because at that time, many people there were lazy and degraded in their study style.

Zeng Guofan was afraid that his younger brother would be influenced by those people, and he would get into the bad habit of being lazy over time.

Therefore, Zeng Guofan strongly recommended his younger brother to go to Changsha to complete his studies. Later, with the help of mentors such as Luo Zenan and Li Xubin, his two younger brothers finally achieved great success.

First-rate friends talk about dreams, second-rate friends talk about careers, third-rate friends talk about things, and fourth-rate friends talk about right and wrong.

exactly: birds fly away with husband and wife, and people are proud of their good qualities.

There is a story that when George was in college, Mr. Sanader was the person he came into contact with the most. Mr. Sanader is a good man. He borrows a little money or helps George when he is short of money, but he is a little cynical about his life, which may be his only shortcoming.

Especially when students talk about how to make a difference, Mr. Sanader tries to talk about his rich formula. He always said, "George, there are only three ways to make you rich and famous nowadays: the first is to marry a rich woman;" The second is to rob unnoticed; The third is to try every means to get to know more important people. " This is his formula for getting rich.

Not only that, but he often gives examples to illustrate how useful his formula for getting rich is. From time to time, he picked out a social news from the newspaper to confirm his opinion. For example, a very famous labor leader actually absconded with all the funds.

In this way, George unconsciously fell into the vortex of "abandoning the basic belief of success" under the influence of his negative ideas, and wholeheartedly planned to implement his rich formula.

However, George had a long talk with this Mr. Sanader one night, and George realized that he was listening to the argument of failure and suddenly realized.

After that, George never believed what he said, and regarded this Mr. Sanader as an experiment, just analyzing this person, and completely walked out of the strange circle.

It is said that West Point Military Academy has strict elimination regulations. At the end of four academic years, the total elimination rate should be kept at around 25%, and 1% of students must be eliminated in the first academic year.

The whole elimination system ensures the excellent quality of West Point students. Those who can pass four years of study can basically undertake heavy responsibilities under difficult conditions. It is no easy task to do this. All students at West Point must stay away from laziness. They are not afraid of sarcasm and ridicule, nor of gossip. They dare to speak, do things, take risks and rush forward. They are afraid of being hindered and held back by backwardness, which may be the only thing they are afraid of!

For them, it is a solid foundation for West Point students to succeed to get rid of everything that hinders and binds them and keep a free and enterprising state.

As a teacher, I first ask myself: Are there any poor students? From Gardner's multiple intelligences, there are no poor students! But according to my 28-year first-line experience, many children have been turned into poor students by their parents, teachers, and more importantly, themselves!

I used to teach a girl, and her grades were excellent. Because of family reasons, she felt particularly lonely and longed for friendship. So she made some ignorant friends. These friends told her that if you want to make friends with them for a long time, you must change from a bully to a scum. Under peer pressure, the girl really gave up studying. In less than half a year, her grades slipped to the end like riding a vertical pulley.

scientists believe that "man is the only animal that can accept hints."

There is a saying in The Warring States Policy Qi Ce III:

If you fly with the phoenix, you must be a handsome bird; Walking with tigers and wolves is a beast.

Positive suggestion will have a good influence on people's mood and physiological state, stimulate people's inner potential, give play to people's extraordinary level, and make people forge ahead.

some people say that there are three lucky things in life: meeting a good teacher at school; I met a good teacher and a good boss at work; Get married and meet a good partner. Sometimes a sweet smile and a warm greeting from them can make your life different and radiant.

There is a saying that it doesn't matter who you are, but who you are with. In ancient times, "Meng Mu moved three times", which shows that it is really important to be with whom. When an eagle grows up in a henhouse, it will lose the ability to fly. How can it hit the sky and soar in the blue sky? When wild wolves grow up in the flock, they will also "fall in love with sheep" and lose their wolf nature. How can they ride the earth?

There is a popular saying on the Internet: "The average level of your circle of friends is your level."

the reason is simple, that is, birds of a feather flock together, and people are divided into groups. With what kind of people, there will be what kind of life.

with diligence, you naturally lose a little laziness; With decadent people, you can't help being depressed.

reading good books and making friends with excellent people are two great blessings in life.

a person's worth is determined by his friends around him. The better your friends are, the higher your value and the greater your help to your career. Friends are an indispensable treasure in your life. Because of the help and encouragement of friends, you will be invincible and forge ahead.

Life is very expensive. Please remember to leave those poor people, let alone become poor people.

As the old saying goes: see no evil, don't listen to indecent assault, stay away from idle people and listen to less gossip.

You are excellent. Don't let the negative people around you influence you, so that you lack upward pressure and lose the motivation to move forward, and become vulgar.

Only by being a smart person, staying away from idle people with negative energy, cherishing time, keeping one's original intention and unswervingly implementing one's goals can one complete one's original intention and become a valuable person.

"Most people walked into the graves with music that was not played." If you want to soar in the sky like an eagle, you should fly with the eagles, not with the finches; If you want to gallop the earth like a wild wolf, you must run with the wolves, not with the deer and sheep.