In life, people will inevitably encounter some lies, whether malicious or well-intentioned. So, do you want to see through these lies for the fi
In life, people will inevitably encounter some lies, whether malicious or well-intentioned. So, do you want to see through these lies for the first time? A gesture to see through lies and secrets.
Body language password gestures expose lies
Gesture 1: Touch the nose.
The gesture of touching the nose is usually a few quick rubs with the hand on the lower edge of the nose, sometimes even a slight touch. Just like covering your mouth, the speaker touching his nose means that he is covering up his lies, while the listener makes this gesture to show that he has doubts about the speaker's words.
Scientists at the Smell and Taste Treatment and Research Foundation in Chicago, USA, found that when people lie, they will release a chemical called catecholamine, which will cause the cells inside the nasal cavity to swell. Scientists have also found that blood pressure will also rise because of lying. The increase of blood pressure causes the nose to swell, which makes the nerve endings of the nasal cavity convey the feeling of itching, so people can only wipe their noses often to relieve itching symptoms.
American neuroscientists have studied Bill? Clinton's testimony to the jury about Lewinsky's sex scandal found that Clinton rarely touched his nose when telling the truth. However, as long as Clinton tells a lie, his brow will wrinkle slightly before the lie is told, and he will touch his nose every four minutes, and the total number of touching his nose during his testimony will reach 26 times.
However, we must remember that the gesture of touching the nose needs to be interpreted in combination with other body language. Sometimes people do this just because they are allergic to pollen or the person who touches their nose has a cold.
Gesture 2: Cover your mouth with your hand.
Covering your mouth with your hand subconsciously shows that the liar is trying to restrain himself from telling those lies. Sometimes people cover their mouths with a few fingers or clenched fists, but the meaning is the same. Some people pretend to cough to cover up their mouths.
For the spokesman of the conference, it is one of the most disturbing gestures to see the audience cover their mouths while speaking, which means they think you may be hiding something. In this case, you should stop speaking and ask the audience. Do you have any questions? ? Or? I found that some friends don't quite agree with me. Let's discuss it together. ? It is worth noting that the gesture of the audience crossing their arms on their chests has the same meaning as the gesture of covering their mouths.
Gesture 3: What is a normal itchy nose?
Simple nose itching will only make people wipe their noses repeatedly, regardless of the content, frequency and rhythm of the whole conversation.
Gesture 4: Rub your eyes.
When a child doesn't want to see anything, he will cover his eyes with his hands. The brain tries to prevent the eyes from witnessing deception, doubt and unpleasant things by rubbing their eyes, or from facing the deceived person. Film actors often show the hypocrisy of their characters by rubbing their eyes.
Men often rub their eyes when they make gestures that I don't want to see; If he tries to cover up a big lie, he is likely to turn away. In contrast, women have fewer gestures to rub their eyes, and usually just touch them gently under their eyes. On the one hand, it is because the gentlemanly manners restrict them from making rude gestures, on the other hand, it is also to avoid damaging the makeup. However, like men, women will turn their faces to one side when lying to avoid the listener's eyes.
Gesture 5: Scratch your neck
The gesture of scratching the neck is to scratch the area on the side of the neck below the earlobe with the index finger (usually the index finger of the hand used to write). According to our observation, we come to the conclusion that every time a person makes this gesture, his forefinger usually strokes five times. The index finger rarely moves less than 5 times or more than 5 times. This gesture expresses doubt and uncertainty, which is equivalent to the client saying, I'm not sure if I agree with you. ?
The contradiction will be particularly obvious when the words spoken are inconsistent with this gesture. For example, some people say? I totally understand how you feel, okay? But at the same time, he was scratching his neck, so we can conclude that he didn't really understand.
Gesture 6: Pull the collar
Lying can make sensitive facial and cervical nerve tissues itch, so people have to rub or scratch to eliminate this discomfort. This phenomenon can not only explain why people scratch their necks when they are confused, but also explain why scammers frequently pull their collars when they are worried about being caught. This is because once the liar feels the listener's suspicion, the rising blood pressure will make his neck sweat.
When a person feels angry or depressed, he will also pull his collar away from his neck and let cool air into his clothes to cool his heart. See someone do this, might as well say to him. Can you say that again? ? Or? Would you please come straight to the point? ? This will expose the man who tried to lie.
Gesture 7: Put your finger between your lips.
The gesture of putting your finger between your lips is closely related to sucking your mother's nipple in infancy, and it is a subconscious desire for a sense of security in your mother's arms. People often make this gesture when they feel stressed.
Children will put their thumb or forefinger in their mouth as a substitute for their mother's nipples, while adults will put their fingers between their lips, or smoke, hold a pipe, hold a pen, bite glasses frames, chew gum and so on.
Gesture 8: Scratch your ears.
In order to avoid being scolded by parents, children will block their ears with two hands, and the gesture of scratching their ears is an adult version of this body language. There are also many changes in the gesture of grasping the ear, including rubbing the back of the auricle, putting the fingertip into the ear canal to pull out the ear, pulling the earlobe, folding the whole auricle forward to cover the ear hole and so on.
People may also scratch their ears when they think they have heard enough or want to talk.
Scratching ears also indicates that the client is in an anxious state. When Prince Charles walks into a room full of guests or through a crowded crowd, he often scratches his ears and rubs his nose. These actions show his inner tension. However, we have never seen Prince Charles make these gestures in a relatively safe private car. But in Italy, ear scratching is often regarded as a manifestation of femininity, and even as a symbol of homosexuality.
Test why you lied.
In the fantasy world, there is a horrible tree, because it has a mouth full of blood and can swallow people. In what way do you think trees are approached and preyed on?
Fascinate people with beautiful songs.
2 imitate the voice of the other lover.
(3) It exudes charming tree fragrance.
(4) Use bird messengers to fly around it.
Do nothing, just wait quietly for curious people.
Result analysis:
This test is to explore why you lie and how deeply your lies hurt people.
Who chose 1:
Always lie to please people. There are many things you can add. Although this is not a malicious lie, it is easy to lose face in front of everyone if the lie expands gradually. Even if you don't lie, there are many things that will be misunderstood by the other party because of excessive exaggeration. So, be careful in everything.
People who choose 2:
He is serious in lying, and he is often a good liar. Whether its lies are well-intentioned or malicious, few people will get hurt because of them before they are exposed. But once a lie is exposed, it will inevitably hurt. Because of this, people are deeply afraid of being betrayed. Therefore, for the sake of your own personality and reputation, even if there is only a one-thousandth chance of being caught, you must never tell such a lie, so as not to ask for it.
People who choose 3:
Belongs to people who don't hurt people with lies. Because you are not good at lying, as long as you lie, others will see through you, so many times your reputation will not be damaged, but many people will think you are a little cute.
People who choose 4:
When you lie, you tend to look for scapegoats.
Do you often convince them with lies? Because so-and-so said Or? What about the judgment I heard from XXX? In this way, the lie is exposed, and the credit of that person is finished. So when you are making up a lie, this responsibility should be borne by you alone. If someone else is involved in your lies, it will be too embarrassing for others.
People who choose 5:
In your life, you are honest and seldom tell lies.
Because what you hate most is cheating others, even if the other person doesn't want to hear the truth, you will tell it all without hiding, and the result is usually very hurtful. So to be honest, sometimes it depends. In the face of terminally ill patients and lovelorn people who are frustrated in love, you should also tell a clever little lie when necessary.
Lying ability test
Imagine a new and exciting roller coaster in a newly opened amusement park. You have been pulled up by your friends, and now the roller coaster has reached the highest point and will begin to dive down. What sentence will you shout in your heart at this time?
1. Wow! How terrible!
It's up to him to live or die!
3. The excitement is about to begin!
4. Put me down, I don't want to sit!
answer
Choose 1: You are basically not a good liar. The expression of worry and anxiety was written on the face before the lie was told. When you have to lie, in addition to your inner struggle, you often feel that you are not telling the truth when you lie.
Option 2: You are determined to lie. Now that the lie has been told, let's get to the bottom of it. No matter whether others doubt yourself or not, you should stick to it. As long as you put on a pair of patting your chest and hanging a promise, it is easy for others to believe.
Option 3: You can be called a person with strong heart and thick skin. For people who like excitement, lying is like a common occurrence, and it's okay to tell a little lie at any time as needed. Think of lying as a way of dancing school. I even think it's fun to fool others.
Option 4: The state of sitting on it and regretting immediately after telling a lie is very similar. Generally speaking, you lie when you have to, or you blurt out a lie when you have no time to react in an instant. However, as soon as the lie came out, I immediately regretted it and shouldn't have. Even if I cheat each other, I will feel guilty afterwards.
Conclusion: Lying is not suitable for everyone. Some people can make up a lie like the truth, and some people will be easily seen through. So, how do you know how big your ability to lie is? Psychological test helps you ~