How to maintain a sense of boundary in love (how should investors in love grasp the sense of boundary)

Written by: popular fried seed base

In any intimate relationship, personal space must be respected. Even if you don't recognize the rationality of what the other person is doing, you will defend your rights to the death.

What does it feel like to "fall in love" with a fund manager with a sense of boundaries? I have received many inquiries from my friends. Among them, the most frequently asked question is, as a citizen, how should you grasp the sense of boundary when you are in love with a fund manager?

In investment practice, it is not as difficult to grasp the sense of boundary as expected. Specific can start from the following three aspects.

Starting from the face value and loyalty to the character, in this materialistic era, when the popular fried sub-base began to invest money, it was taught that buying a base is buying a head. Why? Because according to the long-term investment performance, the fund managers trained by head fund companies are indeed "handsome guys and beautiful women", and the number of people willing to invest in "handsome guys and beautiful women" will snowball.

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Of course, we can't always be influenced by the "first cause effect". In the process of getting along for a long time, we should pay more attention to the personality of fund managers and see if their management really considers investors, so as to prevent the tragedy of "the fund makes money and the people don't make money" from happening to themselves.

"First Cause Effect": first put forward by American psychologist Rochens, also known as the first effect, advantage effect or first impression effect, refers to the influence of the first impression formed by both parties on the future communication relationship, that is, the effect brought by preconceptions.

Know yourself. Just like there was a stone tablet in the Delphi Temple on Mount Olympus in ancient Greece thousands of years ago that said "Know yourself", as a citizen, we should establish a philosophy of "Know yourself" in our investment system.

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Because the emotional Mr. Market often takes us with him. If day trading indulges its bad habits again and again without control, it will not only end the "love relationship" with the selected fund manager, but also lose a lot of "breakup fee".

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In a large number of investment cases, we have not learned to distinguish "love rat". After becoming popular, Ji Zicai discovered that the direct reason why Ji Min finally got the fund manager into a love-hate dilemma was that the mutual support agreed at the beginning turned into Ji Min's unilateral efforts and hopeless waiting, and finally left because of losses.

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For example, the consumption of "love rat" in China and Europe temporarily got rid of the decline, but Xiaoxi, a friend who is popular in speculation, bluntly said, "Even if it turns red, what if I use this money to buy other funds? Is it not fragrant? "

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It can be seen that connivance is also a manifestation of poor grasp of the scale of border sense. As the saying goes, "the feelings of going their separate ways can go far." Once you find that the fund managed by your chosen fund manager exceeds your stop loss line, it is a good choice to get off the bus in time. After all, time and money are there. Use a little and use less. You can only sigh "Ye Qingjie"!

Dialectically looking at the sense of boundary, it is not difficult to find that the outward boundary is the limit and the inward boundary is the measure. In the "love relationship" between Ji Min and the fund manager, the fund manager may convey confidence to Ji Min more through strength, while Ji Min pays more attention to choosing the right person, making firm investment direction and making investment go further!

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